When I first dated my gf, I performed oral sex on her regularly and she always orgasmed. In the past year or so, I have been unable to bring her to orgasm and I don't know why. The only thing that's change is that she started taking birth control pills so we can have regular intercourse. We try switching to a different type of pill but there have been no change. She's still happy with the sex, but I think she would be happier if she can orgasm again.
Mon, 08/07/2006 - 01:28
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Can't bring her to orgasm any more
The Pill often upsets a woman's sex drive and can foil her ardor. Help can sometimes be realized by changing medication and even using a B/C pill with some testrone in it. This addresses the problem of drive and interest; I am not sure how any of this relates to being able to orgasm or not.
Can your girlfriend achieve orgasms on her own? If yes, then the problem might have more to do with technique (or the lack of). Because of the length of time this has been going on, I would rule out focus, concentration, interest, and feelings.
Please clarify this: The way your sentence was written you make it sound like she could reach an orgasm from oral in the beginning, yet a year later, cannot. Do you mean she is no longer able to climax from oral, or, just in general?
You may want to suggest that she see a doctor, particularly if she can no longer orgasm from masturbation.