alright.. well im not really new to sex. my boyfriend and I have been sexually active for awhile. I've heard that everytime you have sex, you have to pee after, and so par from experiance thats true, but everytime i do pee after sex theres a sticky white liquid that comes out of my vagina. is that cum? kinda scares me..
and i've noticed im vary late.. im kinda scuuredd.
Wed, 08/08/2007 - 20:52
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Cant Be Pregnant At 15! Heelpp
Yes, it is semen. From what you post, I assume you are having unprotected sex at 15 - and younger. The only reason to have unprotected sex is to have children. Statistically, if you continue for one year you will have a more than eighty percent chance of becoming pregnant.
Fifteen year olds are notoriously irregular but a late period is the usually the first sign of pregnancy. Time to talk to Mum - and a doctor.
yea its unprotected. neither of us like condoms. I guess its the skin to skin contact thing. and i can't tell my mom that..
but i have no ride anywhere..
but thank you for the reply. it helps.
Then tell your school nurse a big sister, a public health nurse. You still have options but not for long. The longer you delay, the more difficult this becomes.
yes thats true.
thank you.
I also read one of your "threads" about cervical cancer.. do you happen to know about how much they cost?
You are going to have to get an appointment with either your doctor, a clinic, or planned parenthood if there is one near. Tell you mom you are sick, abdominal pain and get to a doc ASAP. What is said between you and the doctor is confidential.
Talk to your doctor. Once a woman is sexually active, the guidelines in some nations preclude the shot.
maybe its the old-fashioned right-wing guy in me, but my advice is to talk to your parents. if indeed you are pregnant, a supportive family structure will be essential. remember that unconditional love between parents and children is natural; they will not stop loving you or anything. i understand the popular ideal in today's world is to tell everyone EXCEPT your parents and do everything to keep them from finding out, but its not the way to go. it will be a lot more difficult to keep the secret than to have them know. it will be scary to tell them, but its the best thing in the long run.
im not just saying this as someone who believes in rebuilding the families in our country. when i was in high school, my girlfriend and i were having sex, and she was a couple weeks late. we were both 17 btw. i was too afraid to tell my parents, but she had the guts to tell hers. my parents found out and were disappointed in me and somewhat angry at first. however, they told us that no matter what they would be there for us. her parents said the same.
it turned out she was not pregnant; she got her period a couple days after the six of us (me, her, her parents, and mine) sat down and talked about it. while we ended up not having to confront that issue, i can't imagine going through it not only without my parents' support, but trying to hide it from them. that's my advice. just talk to them. you will find them far more open and supportive than you probably think
If you want to do adult activities, then you must be responsible. This means you look out for and take care of "#1"--YOU. If for whatever reason you do not use the pill, then get fitted for a diaphragm or cap. Use a spermacide, also, regardless, even if this is all you do.
You must be responsible enough to insist that your partner wear a condom, also. If he is not happy with the latex, then he can use the plastic or a natural condom {only if he has no STDs, and does not play around with others). The same rule applies to him--take care of #1. If he refuses, then you refuse to have intercourse. No condom--no penis within shooting or dribbling distance of your vulva and pieces-parts. No compromise.
I doubt either of you want a child or are prepared to forever have your life changed or your plans for the future. If you do become pregnant and choose to keep the child, who do you think will raise him/her? The usual answer is one of the grand parents! How irresponsible is it to place this obligation on them.
At your age, you are more apt to become pregnant than at any other time of your life. Do not try to pull one over on Mother Nature, because you will loose more often than not. That is another set of statistics for you.
what are they teaching kids in sex education these days.
Unprotected sex at 15... where i come from we were raised that if we didn't use a condom then well instantly we would get an STD and well as it only takes 1 little prick then she would be pregnant first time
(obviously this information is not 100% correct but it was enough to scare me back when i was 15 and now being 18 i understand it all fully but i am thankful for the lies back then as well it kept me safe)
everytime you have unprotected sex there is a risk everytime even with other birth control measures.
having said that you need to go see a doctor and get this checked/sorted... the longer you leave it the harder it gets.
also you were playing in adult activities now be an adult and tell your parents. If you are pregnant you cannot hide that fact and you do not want them to find out the hard way. tell them ASAP and get to a doctor to sort your options..
7inches4U you point out a real true scenario...and your parents probably were not mad at you, just angry that you were not more careful, correct?
This is the response of most parents, they do understand & rather know the truth, regardless of what you think your parents will say or do.
I don't get it... you aren't sure what this white stuff is???
You aren't using condoms...or anything else... but are you at least using the pullout method??? (not a reliable method...but better than nothing!)
Also, if you are just letting him cum inside you....and you are not on the pill...then ummm you are TRYING to make a baby!!!!
Hate to break it to you but mothers are smarter then they seem. You mom probably already has the idea that you and your bf are sexually active....its a mom thing. Im not much older then you are and I can understand your dilema in telling her you "might" be pregnant. My only suggestion is to get a preggo test and see whats up then go from there. Keep in mind that if you are, and you tell you mother, yes she will be totally ticked off, any good parent would be, but she still loves you. Just take a deep breath and see what a pregnancy test says about it.
If you happen to not be pregnant then take this experience into consideration and USE PROTECTION!!!! Your only 15, do you really think you are ready to care for an infant?!? I understand your dislike for condoms and the awqwardness that comes from them but take it from me and the experiences of my friends....its worth the trouble. I have a 17 yrs old friend thats 8months preggo and you bf is in jail and I have a 15yrs old friend who just had her baby...her bf left her months ago for another girl. I have a friend whos 18 and has a daughter and even though she loves her daughter to death shes the one who lectures our friends about "safe sex". And yes ive had a pregancy scare before...its not worth the trouble.
Atleast, if your going to be sexually active, go on the pill. Besides protecting you it also regulates your homones and you get your period on set dates. Please dont make this mistake again and best wishes to you!