i had that problem the first few times I received it but I was a bit nervous… after a few times it was nolonger an issue … if she can do it, deep throating might help speed things up :

I had that problem too. One of my girlfriends was accomplished at oral and knew just what I needed.

She took a position in front of me on her knees, placed her left froarm against my groin, took my balls gently in her right fingers to touch and tickle, and began to suck me hard and fast. Imagine a woodpecker hammering on a tree trunk.
She didn't mind drooling on her breast till her saliva streamed from her nipples as she took me. I blew my load for her and she gulped and swallowed as I orgazimed. She then laid on her back and gasped for her breath and I went weak in my knees and fell beside her.

We had done this with my back to the wall with the rooms door to my right closed. That door had a full length mirror where I could see her. Quite a show that day. Later she
just moved her tongue arround in a circular motion under the head of my penis and got me off.

So girls, if ya know what yur doin the guys can be "putty in your hands". You may remember the Hollywood starlet remarking to a dumb guy who spoke of being lucky in love.
Her remark, "Luck has nothing to do with it"!

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i've never been able to come from oral either. of course i've only recieved it from one person, my fiance, and honestly, she's not very good at it. she won't try for more than 10 minutes, and those 10 minutes aren't even good. its the only thing about her i don't really like. i wish i could talk to her about it without looking like a dick. but damn, i'm 19 and i've never had good head. that kinda sucks!

i know its not all oral but it works for me

have her suck ur head and use her hand to stroke ur base
its like head and a handjob at same time. U get the intesnity u want from the hand and the heat that feels good from her mouth.

i know u said she didnt like to do it manually but it is a combination so its not really a handjob

Yea also rember to give her a few second warning if it works. U dont want here chockin and coffing.

Nope, I couldn't cum from that either. Last g/f was quite understanding though & we found ways round it.

Hmm, let me see......Deep throating him is what ultimately did it I think. Also, making swallowing motions while his dick is at the back of my throat got a great response. Lots of tongue is good. I always swirl my tongue around the head of his dick on the upward suck. Keeping up a good rhythm, speed, strong suction, and taking deep, long sucks is key I think. Also, the woman should start out teasing the man to build up the anticipation. Hope I helped some!

I'd just like to know so that i may be able to help my girlfriend possibly bring me to orgasm through oral, what are some of your more successful "tricks" mspersia?

I haven't really had much experience receiving oral so i can't help much unfortunately LCBlackDep

My ex bf could never cum from oral sex either. My current man has never been able to cum from it either until he met me. The first time I gave him head, I went to work on him for almost an hour and pulled out all my tricks and he finally came. He couldn't move after that because he said it was so intense. I guess it depends not only on the man's ability to cum but also on the giver's skill.

You aren't the only one!

Now, i have to qualify that by saying that i have cum many times from oral sex - just not from my lover and/or partner at the time.

It seems that if i'm just playing with a 1nite stand i can cum easily from oral..but if i'im dating or in a relationship i just can't.

Now, i firmly belive that it's from when i was married and just proior to that when dating my future exwife who liked giving oral but made if very clear that she did NOT want me to EVER cum in her mouth. So, ithink it just got burned in my head that you don't cum in the mouths of those u love. I know it sounds hokey..but its been that way ever since.

Now..my partner of 7 years has the same issues! If we play with others it's very easy to cum from oral..but when jsut he and i play - we can't cum from oral.

I dn't give it much thought...but just know you're not alone!

Hi, LCBlackDep139. You are most certainly NOT the only guy who is this way. I rarely come from oral sex. Part of it may be that I'm not one of those people who can just lay there and get blown... I like to be involved...lol. But I think most of it is that it just doesn't seem as intense a feeling as penetration or manual stimulation. All guys react differently. The only way I know of to help with this is, if you REALLY want to come this way, to get yourself fairly close before starting oral. Hope that helps.