i live in texas and my bf lives in oklahoma, we are planning to marry and have met eachother and have phone sex almost every night, but we are both into really strange stuff, we like to roll play and i'll be his daugher, and he is my dad, and sometimes he's my master and i'm his slave and sometimes we imagine having sex with other people we know. is this unhealthy? or should we just do whatever we like?
Sat, 12/16/2006 - 19:47
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can you be too kinky?
we've also been through alot in our year, i don't expect anyone to aprove or understand our arangements, but we love eachother and if we both were not comfortable with our relationship it would be over. we trust eachother and we tell eachother everything. but like i said, i know it's not a normal relationship but all i need is the aproval and acceptance of dj (my boyfriend)
It is fine, np, so long as you both enjoy it.
i agree as long as it is something that you both enjoy and it makes you happy there is nothing wrong with it[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;160007]It is fine, np, so long as you both enjoy it.[/QUOTE]
As long as you're both comfortable with what is going on and being said, go ahead. I don't really think there is a too kinky... To me, the only kink that I think is "wrong" is when partners seriously injur each other. A little whipping I enjoy, but I can't fathom wanting to actually harm your lover, or have them harm you. Even then, if that turns you on, OK... it's just not something I'll ever try.
> i live in texas and my bf lives in oklahoma, we are planning to marry and have met eachother and have phone sex almost every night, but
This bothers me more than the subject. You are planning to marry, and you have met....what does this mean? It almost sounds as if this is an arranged marriage! So you met; do you even know each other? I mean, how much time have you spent together, breathing the same air and interacting with each other one on one? As stated, this sounds mighty needy.
The answer to your question is that as long as your activities do no harm or conflict with a person's morality or sense of right and wrong, and are otherwise OK, then you won't be "too kinky".
we have been together for 4 days, but we talk on the phone every waking hour and some non waking hours. we have been dating for a year since last saturday, and love eachother.
> we have been together for 4 days,
Couples who date each other hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder, for a couple of years do not know everything about each other and you are telling us that four days of actual contact is all you have had? The trouble with this is that people often put on a false face over the internet and telephone. I am concerned that one or both of you is falling for an image and not the real person. You really should be spending more time together in the real world, not the internet or on the phone.
> all i need is the aproval and acceptance of dj
My point being, do you know who the real dj is?
i believe i do and i'm not saying we are getting married tomorrow, we have to wait a couple of years at most and i plan to spend this summer with him but money is tight right now for me and him so we are doing the best we can with what we have. i understand your concerns and if you think i havn't had them myself then you are mistaken. i used to worry about that but i am confident that i know the real dj. and i'm going to spend more time with him as soon as i can, i suppose i didn't word that correctly but my meaning was that we have decided that we will get married eventually. i appreciate your concern, most the time i feel like no one cares, and it's nice to know someone does :)
Bittin' is fun..i love it when my b.f bites me...OMG..it makes me so horny when he does, esp on my neck, legs, ears, boobs, hip bone, rite next to my pussy. nd then also when he blows on my ear, nd then he'll bite my lip, nd my ear. God that is soo awesome..he bites me so hard that it will leave bursis nd i think that its awesome..i love it! so if u wanna try a new trick on ya girl..BITE HER..but don't bite her to hard at first...bite her soft kinda like nibbling and then go in for it if she seems to enjoy it