The story is me and my bf have been talking about getting a vibrator which he's all fine with well I had a look around and found one that I liked and put an order in for one. When I told my bf about it he got upset because he wanted to choose one for me.
Reason why he was upset about it was because according to him alot of women start to prefer the vibrator to the real thing and he was feeling threatned by it, ok fair enough I thought but why was he all for it then? He wants to choose me one that wont replace him.
Anyway can this really happen? Can a women start to prefer the viberator to the real thing?
lol nothing compares to the real thing..... I have many toys
but my fav toy is my sweetman :D
Tell him to stop being an idiot .... lol insecure men are such a turn off lol
No. Nothing can replace a person. Vibe + Sex = Amazing!!! :D Remind him that a vibrator doesn't have hands to stroke you with, a mouth to kiss you with, or arms to hold you. It doesn't make cute little noises when played with, and also lacks the intelligence to adapt to what you want.
[QUOTE=Rouge;237389]No. Nothing can replace a person. Vibe + Sex = Amazing!!! :D Remind him that a vibrator doesn't have hands to stroke you with, a mouth to kiss you with, or arms to hold you. It doesn't make cute little noises when played with, and also lacks the intelligence to adapt to what you want.[/QUOTE]
lol true..... but on the other hand... Vibrators don't get jealous. feel threatened or insecure or get upset when you buy something new;):p:D
I have tried to tell him that I would always prefer the real thing, this would be my first time with a vibrator and I really wanted to pick one out for me. To save an argument I cancled the order :(
He's told me in his last relationship that his ex got to the stage were she would choose the vibrator over him.
[QUOTE=fitzas;237394]He's told me in his last relationship that his ex got to the stage were she would choose the vibrator over him.[/QUOTE]
Well i suggest you show him this site and get him to practise his
skills.. seems like he made need some help:D
Psychologically you can become addicted to anything - anything at all. Vibrators are no different. But the intensity of a vibe is offset by the lack of intimacy making a vibe alot less fun than the attentions of a skilled and ardent lover. Therefore, vibrators will never replace men. IF you think of sex as "sharing" with each other, you will understand this.
[QUOTE=nuttychick;237392]lol true..... but on the other hand... Vibrators don't get jealous. feel threatened or insecure or get upset when you buy something new;):p:D[/QUOTE]
I think mine gets jealous....lately when he's around it cuts out! :P just kidding. The way I think of it, guys are like puppies, they need all the reassurance, "love" and understanding that a puppy would. With all the messes and chewed on shoes, I still would rather have an actual dog than a toy.
[QUOTE=Rouge;237408]I think mine gets jealous....lately when he's around it cuts out! :P just kidding. .[/QUOTE]
lol OMG mine does the same thing..... :D
(sometimes i put it on the charger back to front lol)
i'd say as long as you actualy have a connection with your man you will be fine
this reminds me of a friend of mine. well, his wife anyway. everytime after they have sex she runs to the bathroom when they are done with her vibrator to finish the job.
she still takes the real thing almost everyday and loves having sex and only uses her vibrator to achieve orgasm, so maybe its just cuz she likes to get off, but its still a lil odd to me.
but as a guy, i know sumtimes a vibrator is a lil threatning, so i know where he is coming from. but also as a guy, i know my wife will always want the real thing from me over a vibrator. and proof of that is when im around it only comes out during sex, and thats when i choose to bring it out. and when im gone she brings it out only once or twice a month if that. we only got it really to satisfy her urge when im not around .
Everything is mental. If you have a great relationship and love the person your with and you understand what each other need. Then you shouldn't have to worry about becoming addicted to vibrator.