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Can someone explain this to me

I am use to sex being quick. Like 5-10 minutes, the guy can't "hold" it any longer and then I am brought to orgasm by some sort of toy. (yeah, not much fun but that's another story) He's limp for the rest of the evening and sleeping within 10 minutes.

I recently started having sex with a man I've known for over a year. Holy crap............much different. It was 2 incredible hours. Then later that night another hour. (our pattern so far is long and multiple love making sessions)

He can cum, and then gets hard again. He can hold it and we can share orgasms together. How does he do this?

I do know the other day I was giving him a blow job and I could taste semen every now and then. Kinda like he was leaking a bit. I'm not a swallower (typically) but this was just enough and I loved it.

How did he go for 2 hours? How can he get hard again? (No viagra) Is this normal and I've been missing out, or is this extraordinaire and I should enjoy enjoy enjoy? (which I am)

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> He can cum, and then gets hard again. He can hold it and we can share orgasms together. How does he do this?

Multiple orgasms are quite common for both men and women. The refractory period or "down time between any two are different for the two genders. Women can and often do have orgasms with only moments to minutes in between any two. Men on the other hand require between about 10 and 30 minutes in order to recoup and regroup depending upon age and sex drive.

Evidentially your guy has learned this tidbit of love making information and has been incorporating it in what you've been doing. Compliment him on knowing this and being creative enough to blend the two refractory periods together for your mutual pleasure

> I do know the other day I was giving him a blow job and I could taste semen every now and then. Kinda like he was leaking a bit.

As noted, above, the fluid that is leaking or oozing is not semen, rather the lubricating and cleansing fluid that preceeds an ejaculation.

> How did he go for 2 hours? How can he get hard again? (No viagra) Is this normal and I've been missing out, or is this extraordinaire and I should enjoy enjoy enjoy?

Probably because you kept him interested, aroused, and excited for all that time. Congratulations on a job well done.

Again, depending upon age, guys can typically enjoy one-four orgasms a day whether spread out over several sessions or lumped together in one session to become multiples.

> His performance is normal, although, having said that, a guy has to become educated about such things whether through a process of self discovery or just acquiring information on sex from print. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy.

Please read my comments in the following Sticky message:
"How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?" in the NEW TO SEX forum.

Thanks for your input guys. I really appreciate it.

Dancingdoc, I certainly do compliment him as I am oh so thankful of his talents. Also thanks for the compliment, I think we both kept each other interested the entire time. :)

Enjoy it!

I had a boyfriend like this once. Boy do I miss him! lol

If he recovers quikly and wants more, then his 'quicky' can be okay.
But four hours is the general rule for my engagements as anything less barely gives you enough time to get your clothes off.

I have several like this now. Entirely normal, hun - go and enjoy!

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;162580]I have several like this now. Entirely normal, hun - go and enjoy![/QUOTE]

Oh my lawd, I do enjoy it. It's amazingly wonderful intense............oh the list goes on.

Yes, and you now wonder why it took you sooo long to realise it, huh?

I can't hold it up for that long. Wish I could though. I'm jealous! Yeah, enjoy it, have fun.

Cycle - the more sex you have the easier it becomes to last that long. It rather like exercise - the more you do, the more you can do.

Odd, because I used to think 2+ hour sprees were normal and the "minutemen" were the rarities. I guess you could say it all depends on the guy. Some guys just want to "blow a wad" and get it over with. I personally enjoy the sex itself and not the climax. When we first started having sex we'd have 8 hour marathons (16 years old...I wonder where all that energy went).

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;162727]If he recovers quikly and wants more, then his 'quicky' can be okay.
But four hours is the general rule for my engagements as anything less barely gives you enough time to get your clothes off.[/QUOTE]

Good God, do you do anything besides sex? Do you have a job? :confused:

Yes I do work. I own two businesses. I look after my house and my husband. I am also a published author.
What I don't do is sleep much.

EEK...what have you published? Curious...

Nursery Tales for progressive children under 5 years of age
The Rogue's Handbook for progressive children from ages 5 to 13
Financial Basics how to manage your money
Basic Gardening for the absolute beginner
Polo Tailgating including recipies
Introduction to Classical Music and a cd of the music on the Recommended Listening List
Chat first year on the Internet
Sex Education for Laypersons just the facts
WOMEN a primer for men about their favorite subject
The Polyamorist for women about men
beguile the subtle art of sublime sexual subjugation of men
Wicked Woman a business idea - humor
Notes of a Dominatrix the basics for beginners

EEK, what do you mean by progressive children?

"Nursery Tales: for Small Rogues, Wise Infants, and Progressive Children"

Those children who are inquisitive, demanding, bright - the 'monsters' of the sub-adult world like Calvin of "Calvin & Hobbs".

Ah, yes. I have a Calvin and Hobbes cartoon pinned up in my office. Its a very clever one about willful stupidity.

I don't suppose Bart Simpson qualifies as a progressive child then?

No Bart Simpson doesn't qualify.

I like Calvin's snowmen and Hobb's liking 'smoooches'!!!

I liked the cartoon where Calvin was imagining a tyranosaurus rex stomping through the school yard and eating all the children. He called them "children McNuggets". :)

That one's almost as good as Martha Stewart as Mothra (Marthra) depicted over NYC saying "Next, I'll show you how to make a delightful pastry from fleeing citizens."

I'm afraid that one would be lost on me, EEK. Don't really know much about this Martha Stewart, although I've heard the name. (I'm in Australia, remember.)

Oh dear! You are 'out of the loop' then aren't you. Mothra is from the old Godzilla movies from way back when.

EEK, Mothra I know, its Martha Stewart I'm not familiar with. I watched quite a few Godzilla movies when I was a boy. ("Destroy All Monsters" was one of my favourites.)

I can't normally go for two hours but I can for up to an hour. Usually about a half hour. But I can hold my orgasm and I know what to do to make my wife cum. I try to make sure that she orgasms twice before I allow myself too. In a good night I can get hard again and then it's on for hours. The most she has ever orgasmed in one night was 13 times. That was great night. The goal for every lover especially every man should be the pleasure of your lover not yourself. You will get yours and have fun but if your goal is to ensure that your lover is pleased then the sex is better and the relationship is also. I try to please my wife and she tries to please me. We are both pleased but it isn't about selfishness.

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