Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now...We had some problems and now he says he doesn't "feel" the same about me anymore. We havent had sex for about 3 months. I was thinking maybe if we had one more passionate night of sex maybe it could reignite the feelings for him? We were both virgins when we met so I took his virginity. I really love him...Help. I am new to this website.
Tue, 08/31/2010 - 01:45
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Can sex make everything better?
Depends on what sort with "doesnt feel the same" it is with you and him. I have found when someone doesnt feel the same its usually that the feelings and connection has gone. It's not always the case but i do believe about half the time.
I would talk and see what it is with why he doesnt feel the same about you. Personally i think being together for a year and its only just not working now from knowing what other is like. Sometimes sex can make things better or it can make things worst, It's up to you with what you feel is best for the both of you. One thing you could try is to start the basic things and see if that helps the relationship.
Hopefully doc or EEK has some good answers to what they think.
Try the hot sex night. It can't hurt if you both are willing to try and if it is a disaster you know it might be time to look elsewhere
When my brief relationship with my boyfriend ended a few months ago i turned to my estranged husband for support & comfort.I knew he would come running and "sex me up".We never had a good sex life,but he has seemed to be more attentive to my needs & desires.It has made things better for me because i have never wanted for sex so much(i've also just started menopause & have a high sex drive)but on the other side of the coin now he wants me back and he won't listen when i tell him that i don't want to salvage what's left of our marriage.I've been giving him mixed signals and now i need to stop the rot before i make it worse,and that means no more sex & file for divorce after 9yrs of separation
Hooray for Raunchy!!!!! You are getting it!!!!!
I know that if i don't have sex with my boyfriend for a while, i'll start to feel really distant. It does have a way of making me feel closer to him when we have sex more often. I would try it and see what happens.
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Why have you not had sex for 3 months? I guess you are drifting apart from each other. I think the important thing that you should to is talk to him. Figure out what's troubling your relationship. :)
And yeah, maybe you can try one hot sex:D Maybe that will help reignite your relaitonship:D