ok as far as I know my girlfriend has a good time with sex, and as I do, just fine. We are the usual couple, sex wise except maybe how often, but anyways, I feel bad because I can barely give her one orgasm, sometimes two. And it's not because i'm not that good or anything, I can tell she enjoys every moment, but I try to get her one cliteral oral orgasm and one penetration if i'm lucky. But after I do one of each, she gets terribly sensitive where she can't take it, on her clit, and inside when she gets a penetration. It's like her orgasm just tendorising it to nothing. Is this pretty normal or what? Never been with a girl that did this, and I WANT to give her 30 orgasms a time if I could lol but obviously can't
Tue, 07/10/2007 - 03:03
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Can only give her 1 or 2 orgasms - Question?
This link will help ya;
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/19803-for_women_only-_help_why_c...
dancingdoc2 is a genius.
> I feel bad because I can barely give her one orgasm, sometimes two.
We do not give orgasms away. Each person has complete and total responsibility for his/her own.
> I try to get her one cliteral oral orgasm and one penetration if i'm lucky.
Only a very few positions provide the necessary and continuous contact between your two "pieces-parts" to generate the required friction. So, if you are using the Missionary or one of several hundred others and are bouncing around having your respective parts touch in a hit and miss transitory manner, then you can pretty much forget about her climaxing.
> after I do one of each, she gets terribly sensitive where she can't take it, on her clit, and inside when she gets a penetration.
This is often typical of many people {men and women). For women, this hypersensitivity happens just prior to reaching a climax for men, just after. I have written a great deal about how to work around both conditions. Do an advanced search using my name and the term "hypersensitivity". The condition manifests itself when we are in the presence of a lover and rarely if ever when masturbating home alone. Why? Because we are turned on much more intensely when with a lover! The cause of the hypersensitivity is the release of a chemical by the brain and is only temporary, lasting just a few minutes.
> I WANT to give her 30 orgasms a time if I could lol but obviously can't
Asked and answered.
Appreciate it! I am happy that she is satisfied I was just making sure it was normal or something that this has happened, because i've been with a total of 7 girls, and every other wanted to go for hours, so I was just making sure I Wasn't hurting her or anything of the sort.
I am like her, I don't want to go on for hours and hours.
I orgasm like 90% of the time probably.
If during foreplay he makes me orgasm w/ oral... it's doubtful I'll come again w/ sex... no matter how good it feels... I have a few times tho.
After I orgasm... I don't want really anything down there, not that's its all that painful... just doesn't feel good anymore.
I think Brandye mentioned one time that women have orgasms, Orgasms, and ORGASMS! lol
You might can have 30 orgasms.... but myself would rather have one really good ORGASM!
Are you here to brag or to ask a question? Most women do not even want more than one on a regular basis. Special occasions are another matter. Not your issue; it is hers.
No no in no way am I trying to brag, chill out geez. I was making sure it was normal and I wasn't doing something wrong. I'm more than happy to give her the 1;2 that I can.