Hey eliza

In my experience lap dances are a great way to turn a guy on and can be tons of fun and make you feel really hot / sexy!

For myself, I learned from movies *LOL* Kinda cheesy, but it gave me the basics to become creative on my own. Good movies to watch include Show Girls, that movie with Demi Moore when she's a stripper, dirty dancing....not just lap dance scenes, but movies with scenes that are sexy....

Mostly, just have fun...he's bound to love it no matter what you do! And lingerie is always a plus to add a big smile or surprise!

In short, yes

Hmmm.. lets see, my girlfriend in sexy underwear rubbing herself against me/furniture? Works for me!
I know FHM once did an article about lap dancing, try their website. www.fhm.com

Oh yes it can, at least it really works for me, it can be very arousing.

elisa the only thing you have to do is let your self go and move whit the mood and you see that is allways going to turn him on right there:)

Good answers these, particularly the last one.

Do what interests you and do not be afraid to experiment and explore taking your cues from his reactions.

Place him in a straight back chair without arms like a dining room chair or card table chair. Alternately, you can have him sit on a comfy chair with arms that is wide. A couch works, also and both of these require that you kneel over him. I really prefer the first one because he is sitting straight up and you can sit directly on him.

The rules are there are no rules. You can give him preliminary kisses and caresses--or not. Your choice.

I'd make sure his penis is centered and pointing northward toward his belly button.

You can rock around and move against his erection. A cautionary word is to watch out where his balls are because to much rocking and gyrating might cause him some discomfort if they are between his legs.

There is a movie whose name escapes me at the moment (Dirty Harry?), staring Clint Eastwood, in which he is tied to a chair and the vixon in the movie gives him a lap dance much against his will. The fact that he struggles to prevent it yet is powerless to prevent the inevitable is compelling and a real turn on. You might want to try this tactic with your man.

You can dress provocatively or not, again, your choice. As for him, I think you get the best results friction wise if you begin while he has his pants on. Later, if you want to remove his pants and finish him off (again?) then have at it. He can have his shirt on or not as youi choose. Just play with this and have have fun.

How I learned the best moves...

Carmen Electra's Strip Dancing areobic tapes!!!!

They are so much fun to do and at the end of the exercise tape, she breaks the dances down that you learned and shows you different variations that can look really sexy. I have 3 of her videos and they're awesome.

http://www.centralhome.com/ballroomcountry/exotic_dance.htm

3rd one and down within that link have Carmen Electra's videos.

[COLOR="RoyalBlue">You can try youtube.com or probably even a porn site. I love to dance and i love my man... put the two together with some music and lights and i jus go with the flow... you dont really need instructions, unless you cant dance lol

Just:
Tease, grind, take something off, brush up against him, & repeat until hard-on. haha

Good Luck!

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Lap dancing doesn't really do it for me. I'm not the type of person who likes to sit back and be pleasured or aroused. I like to be more involved. To get the engines runnin' I like having an intense make out session and moving into some rough foreplay.

my last girl, gave me a few lap dances but the one i remember the most and was the most turned on is when she wore a mini skirt that was "flowy" and you know how women wearing skirts always put their hands on the back side of the skirt to sit down well she didnt so the only thing that held me from inserting her was my boxers and her painties. but it was a huge turn on!

thanks you for good info!)

The point is that HE cannot move or participate in any way - HE'S your PREY and you can do to him whatever you like, however you like - but the best is when you ALMOST seem to be going to touch him, etc., but NOT! Watch him shake and sweat (because if he moves, the show's over) Tee heee! Stay dressed and then...

slowly drop a garment at a time, like breadcrumbs, behind you as walk to the bedroom.

My preferred music is Clubbed to Death and I wear black leather corset, black leather stiletto-heeled half boots, black leather fingerless gloves and black leather wristbands with stainless steel spikes and a pair of dark glasses - so he doesn't know it's me.

The two men I tested this on so far all report 'positive' responses.

Yes. Lap dancing can really turn a guy on. It can be a bigger turn on when the lap dancer is the guy's significant other. In most larger cities lap dance and pole dance lessons are available. You could try that or you could just go to a strip club and watch. Women do go to strip clubs, usually with their men.
dancingdoc2's advice is pretty good. I second his suggestions.
According to The Bloodhound Gang a lap dance is so much better when the stripper is crying. I don't find that to be the case.

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;149742]Good answers these, particularly the last one.

Do what interests you and do not be afraid to experiment and explore taking your cues from his reactions.

Place him in a straight back chair without arms like a dining room chair or card table chair. Alternately, you can have him sit on a comfy chair with arms that is wide. A couch works, also and both of these require that you kneel over him. I really prefer the first one because he is sitting straight up and you can sit directly on him.

The rules are there are no rules. You can give him preliminary kisses and caresses--or not. Your choice.

I'd make sure his penis is centered and pointing northward toward his belly button.

You can rock around and move against his erection. A cautionary word is to watch out where his balls are because to much rocking and gyrating might cause him some discomfort if they are between his legs.

There is a movie whose name escapes me at the moment (Dirty Harry?), staring Clint Eastwood, in which he is tied to a chair and the vixon in the movie gives him a lap dance much against his will. The fact that he struggles to prevent it yet is powerless to prevent the inevitable is compelling and a real turn on. You might want to try this tactic with your man.

You can dress provocatively or not, again, your choice. As for him, I think you get the best results friction wise if you begin while he has his pants on. Later, if you want to remove his pants and finish him off (again?) then have at it. He can have his shirt on or not as youi choose. Just play with this and have have fun.[/QUOTE]

Do you get him naked eventually or just leave his boxers on?

Do you normally make him ejaculate even if he still has his pants and boxers on? I'm guessing yes. I don't see any reason not to! :) :cool:

More than a few young men have put spots in their jeans as a result of a girl, in jeans also, properly "sitting" on their laps. The variations are endless and part of women learning to use their entire bag of tricks. No rules; ideas are what count.