Rightly or wrongly, it is certainly affecting you. Perhaps it is time to broaden your horizons beyond women whom you know to be getting laid by someone else.

Threads,

A man should never narrow his field of view until he is ready for a serious commitment. You will continue to be flustrated until you broden your view to see girls C, D, and E. These girls both have boyfriends and they know they could have you if they were single. If they like you they will probably keep you interested but they may never actually act on a physical impulse.

[QUOTE=Threads Of Fantasy;250594]Okay,

So I've been sexually frustrated for a long time now (months) but have really been bummed out the past few days because I haven't "gotten any" when I was so close to having a sexual encounter with a girl (Girl A) whom I am so attracted and I do believe she might have the same physical attraction to me at least.
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Your analysis is interesting: you were "so close" yet do not know for certain what her feelings are for you. Before you begin any sort of romantic encounter let alone a sexual one, wouldn't it be better to know for sure what her feelings are for you?[/COLOR]

To make a long story short, her and I were hanging out on NYE with our group of friends.

[COLOR="blue">What is an "NYE"?[/COLOR]

Throughout the night there was a lot of physical flirtation which involved us touching, holding hands, her sitting on my lap, "dirty dancing", slow dancing and several times we nearly kissed. This isn't the first time that we flirted like this. However, she has a boyfriend and is trying to be faithful which is understandable and respectful.

[COLOR="blue">She sure isn't trying very hard to be respectful, in my never to be so humble opinion.*[/COLOR]

Then there's another girl (Girl B) that's also her friend whom I nearly had sex with once but stopped since we were in the living room of her house. Both girls whom I lusted big time for,
* and both who have boyfriends.

[COLOR="blue">From your description of events, it seems to me that while the two girls may have boyfriends, neither is very serious about them or having a relationship beyond being able to say that they have a boyfriend to anyone who asks, and, perhaps having a "built-in" date. [/COLOR]

To make matters even more frustrating, Girl A and B was rumored to have a threesome this past Saturday with Girl A's boyfriend. I was at the party and in a weird way it bummed me out that the two girls I want to do so bad, I haven't gotten any from.

[COLOR="blue">Rumors are like gossip--highly inaccurate. Unless or until a person has facts, nothing is for certain.[/COLOR]

Of course I move on to other girls but for whatever reason, I just haven't been able to get any play (sorry to sound so narcissistic). I don't think I'm the ugliest guy in the world, I treat women with the utmost respect, I stay in shape, I'm very social and always go out to parties, events etc but its been nearly a year since I have gotten any sex!

[COLOR="blue">Have you tried establishing a true relationship with someone? Boys want sex for sex sake and to get their rocks off and see girls nude; girls want sex for completely different reasons and until you learn what those reasons are and answer those needs, you will likely keep scoring a big fat zero.[/COLOR]

I never thought this would happen but its really frustrating me, and in some ways making me oddly depressed and cranky. Heehee.

Maybe is because I'm very selective? I just don't have sex with any girl, and unlike some guys I don't take girls who just want to throw themselves at me unless the physical attraction is mutual. Maybe I'm too passive? I don't know.
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Every man and women exercises some degree of selection when choosing a date, boy- girlfriend, lover. You seem to be stopping short and not continuing on to establish a partnership and love interest.[/COLOR]

The one questioned I do want is answered is that I want to know if people really do get sexually frustrated and if it can alter you attitude. I'm sure I'm not the only person who's been sexually frustrated before.[/QUOTE]

Of course people become frustrated from many causes including what you are asking about. The answer to getting rid of the frustration is to learn how to interact with others and provide for their emotional needs. You seem to be too immature at this point to make the leap. I recommend that you read the articles on dating listed in the Index and continue to date for the sure fun of it and to learn about others and how to interact with others. Forget sex. Your priority is backwards in that you seem to want sex without any entanglements. This may work in ten years, but not now. You have much to learn and accomplish relationship-wise.

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;250630]What is an "NYE"?[/QUOTE]

People and their penchant for acronyms these days.....this one took me a minute the first time I saw it too.

New Year's Eve

Okay - STOP being SELECTIVE. You can't afford it. You don't have to stoop to "breathing, same specieis, female." but you have got to accept at least some of the girls who throw themselves at you - they can't all be non-breathing, some other speciies & male after all.

Of course being sexually frustrated can depress you - that's what any frustration does. From the car not working right to not getting laid in a year - it is all frustration and it is always depressing.

Start hanging out with a new crowd.
Calm, cool & confident - gets the girls.