Hi there. I'm dating a guy with an intact penis, and we're going to start becoming more sexual soon. I've read a lot about blowjobs, handjobs, etc., so I feel confident that I'll be able to do a good job. Or atleast, I felt confident until I found out that he was intact. While I love the look of a foreskin, I have no idea what to do with it. I've asked him, and he just told me he wants me to experiment. But I'd atleast like to have an idea of where to start. So, intact men, this is where I need your help. What does one do with a foreskin?
Sun, 08/05/2007 - 04:29
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Calling all intact males!
When you say intact, you mean not circumsized right?
If so, I would imagine you would just pull the foreskin back when he has a hard on...
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MelissaBABE
Here's the skinny on the skin:
* The foreskin has lots of sensitive nerves that work in conjunction with those in the Glans.
* Many, yet not all, foreskins retract as the erection occurs.
* If it does not retract, ask him if it will go back by hand. It will if it has broken free of its childhood restraints.
* Ask him how sensitive the Glans is when retracted. Some fellas cannot stand (sit or lie) to have it touched directly. Other fellas can tolerate fingering, palming, or tonguing the surface to one degree or another. Learn what he is open and capable of.
* Whether the foreskin is forward or retracted, you can give a hand job and/or oral stimulation in both positions {assuming his Glans can handle touching it directly). So with many guys, you have more options than with those of us who have been altered.
* Know that the Glans of an uncircumsized male will be considerably more sensitive to touch. As good as all this fondling is for the rest of us, he will derive even more intensity and presumably pleasure. If he cannot take much or any direct touching of the Glans, then all this is capable through the forskin in its forward position over the Glans.
> I feel confident that I'll be able to do a good job. Or atleast, I felt confident until I found out that he was intact.
And you no doubt will, although, with each of us there is a learning curve. Explore and work together and give each other feedback on what you like and need, now.
> I have no idea what to do with it. I've asked him, and he just told me he wants me to experiment. But I'd at least like to have an idea of where to start.
Please read the Sticky post that discusses the how-to of giving a hand job and blow job.
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
For more reading on this and other things the two of you might like to know about, please read through the Index.
> I love the look of a foreskin
Foreskins come in all shapes and sizes and styles.
* Some extend well in front of the Meatus (tip of the Glans) with a straw-like protuberance
* Some partially cover the Gans to one degree or another
* Some have lots of visible veins or vessels
* Some are smooth
* Some are slightly stretchy, some are not
* Some are thick, some are thin and conform to the shape of whatever is beneath as it moves
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
My boyfriend is uncircumcised. In my experience, you don't really have to do anything different than you would if he were circumcised. When the penis is erect, the foreskin slides back to expose the head, so giving him a blowjob shouldn't really be any different. If I were you I really wouldn't worry about it. It's really not a big deal. Besides, all men (and women) are different and like different things, so as usual the best way to find out what he likes is to ask, to experiment, and to HAVE FUN! Good luck!
No real difference in what you do - in fact, because he has more sensitive tissue than an uncircumcised male, it should be even easier to get him there! :)