Hey all, i got my first toy a couple weeks ago (small realistic dildo)
I just wanted to share the experience should anyone else need to know that they arent the only person nervous out of their minds.
i started off deciding that i couldnt iimprovise toys anymore, so I looked up sex stores and found the smitten kitten. I looked it up, hopped on my motorcycle and rode there. Got a bit lost, then found the place.
The big thing is how it went. I had to wait a bit for the place to open, so i checked ou the other stores. I then promptly went in and looked around, too nervous to say more than hello. I kept my arms to my side and just looked around. Im pretty sure i was blushing a bit, and i was getting kinda sweaty. I help up a prostate massager to the lady and said "is there a cheaper versoin of this?" i didnt have much money on me. She helped me out, and I gave a few other specifications, and she helped me more. I picked one out, and she gave me some lube. She was really friendly and tried to make me as comfortable as possible, which i was kinda comfortable near the end.
So just know that sex toy shops are friendly, and there is no need to be awkward. Hell, imagine a guy in a leather biker jacket acting as scared as a small child during a thunder storm :o that was me.
So go out, get your toy, and have fun!
That's true Calliton! By my experience they are very helpful and discrete, yet explicit to the extend needed.
And there is off course choice of adult stores as there is with any store, usually apparent from the outside. They are either dark and closed-up with curtains or open and light, more or less friendly displays in their window, draw a certain public that you'll see walking in and out. I only enter those stores that seem open, light and friendly.
Specifically for women reading along; you may like to seek for a female friendly store. The atmosphere and range of products is different. MailFemale is a popular one in the Netherlands. They also provide excellent service via the internet, btw.
Also: my compliments you got over such nerves and got yourself a toy, Call. Improvising comes with certain risks (as described here: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/homosexual-bisexual-other-non-heterosexu...). A bit of nerves to enter a sexshop, shouldn't put anyone in the emergency room!
thanks, RR
wearing my leather jacked and boots helped me be more confident :P
I'd been in our shop a couple of times in the past for a toy or a game, but the first time I went to browse and buy a video I felt like I had no idea what I should get, so I get where you're coming from Call. There are more adult movies available than one could ever imagine and in every genre.
Our shop has a lady friendly night every Tuesday, when they only have women clerks available and men aren't allowed in the store without a female from 9pm-11pm. Seemed like a pretty good deal for the ladies
First thing I ever bought was more an exercise in coming out of my shell on the topic of sex, than anything else (I "bloomed" very very late). It was at an adult gift store in a shopping mall---fart boxes, toilet-shaped coffee mugs, that kind of thing---and when the clerk handed me the bag he said "here's your....purchase". T went in with me but wandered off when I went to the checkout desk.
Never have used it. Guess it didn't bring me out of my shell as much as I hoped it would LOL
I went to a sex toy store with one of my friends who purchased a Pleasure Hip. I was very nervous and feeling uncomfortable.The store staff was very friendly and helped us in choosing the best product. The clerk also briefed about online purchasing the toys confidentially. Next day I placed an online order for the same masturbation hip for myself also which I may never purchase from the store.
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i want one but i dont have the money and i am only 15 what do i do?
At 15 there are still plenty of things to try. If you haven't used lubricant, that is a good place to start. A web search on male masturbation can also bring in new ideas. If you have your heart set on a sex toy, Google "make your own fleshlight" for some pretty simple ideas. Don't forget that your brain is an important sex organ. Try different fantasies and see what works best for you.
thank you so much
I love sex toys and sell them besides other adult novelties but the best one I recommend for a G-spot orgasm is called the Thumbs Up, every woman needs this!
I'm in a catch-22 situation with toys. I would like to get one, for us, but wife is against it. I'm not looking at some big contraption with movements and gyrations and a 2-cycle engine.
I'm looking at the We-Vibe. It's not intimidating looking, and works for both. It's not a "I'm gonna fuck you with this chunk of noisy flubber!" type of toy. The problem though, even if we both agree to try it, and end up not liking it for real, now we're stuck with a $100 paper weight? I can't for the life of me think there's a used market. "Runs like new, highway miles only". lol
So, is there a "starter set"? A "My first toy" that is a good tester, but isn't expensive?
Certainly, Night Dreams (which is woman-owned and operated) sells a very nice $25.00, 4 inch long, variable speed, not meant for insertion, clitoral stimulator. You can tell it is a clitoral stimulator because it has a flat head with perhaps a few little bumps on it. Despite it's name, it can be used on men as well. They have a website. It is most effective.
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