You need to ask. If you try to surprise her with that kind of thing, it will hurt like hell and she is very likely to get really mad. Simply ask and respect her decision.
I have written extensively on the how to's of the matter. Please do an advanced search using my name and one or more of these key words: knuckle, pressure, sphincters.
There are some things you should gradually start doing to see if they like it or not. Anal sex is not one of these things. Along with sex, this is definitely one of those things you can't do without coming straight out and asking. You can start to finger her there as a hint you want to try it, and let her choose. It does hurt, and takes a ****load of patience, but in the end it is worth it. Just make sure you both want it before going for it.
I personally dont recommend it because of possible damage to the female and it can cause extreme pain in her,depending on your size. like with me and my girl we talked about it but for now she dont mind fingering there but not with a dick,so its truely up to the girl.
if i remember right, the rear is not as hardy as the vagina. for one thing, its not made for 'boning', only to push out squishy semisolid poop, which are two different things. and while the vagina has muscles that can take a fair amount of boning, the inner lining of the rear is pretty flimsy and not made for it. so if youre gonna try it - with her consent - you'll have to be very careful
Dude, the way that you asked that question lets me know that the anwser that I should give needs to be NO! You can't just be like "I want to bone this chick up the ass!" Be respectful man. Talk to your girl friend about it, ask her but don't be pushy about it. Start by asking her if it's ok to touch her there, if she says yes, then take it slow. Rub your finger around her anus and over it. Be gental, and softly push on it (BUT NOT IN HER ACTUAL HOLE) You're going to need to ask her if it would be ok to put a finger up there. Then finger her first, to get her relaxed (use plenty of [COLOR="Red">ANAL LUBE[/COLOR] do not try it with spit or pussy juice. If she likes that, then ask her if it would be ok to try anal sex. Then and only then is it ok.
Only if she wants you too. If she doesn't, the answer is NO.
You need to ask. If you try to surprise her with that kind of thing, it will hurt like hell and she is very likely to get really mad. Simply ask and respect her decision.
Good luck and happy humping.
...and then, before you do do this, learn how.
I have written extensively on the how to's of the matter. Please do an advanced search using my name and one or more of these key words: knuckle, pressure, sphincters.
There are some things you should gradually start doing to see if they like it or not. Anal sex is not one of these things. Along with sex, this is definitely one of those things you can't do without coming straight out and asking. You can start to finger her there as a hint you want to try it, and let her choose. It does hurt, and takes a ****load of patience, but in the end it is worth it. Just make sure you both want it before going for it.
i just hope you're more respectful to her than just boning her up the rear...!
[QUOTE=bryrw06;159617]i just hope you're more respectful to her than just boning her up the rear...![/QUOTE]
LOL yea I thought that too! :confused:
I personally dont recommend it because of possible damage to the female and it can cause extreme pain in her,depending on your size. like with me and my girl we talked about it but for now she dont mind fingering there but not with a dick,so its truely up to the girl.
if i remember right, the rear is not as hardy as the vagina. for one thing, its not made for 'boning', only to push out squishy semisolid poop, which are two different things. and while the vagina has muscles that can take a fair amount of boning, the inner lining of the rear is pretty flimsy and not made for it. so if youre gonna try it - with her consent - you'll have to be very careful
[QUOTE=Isuk@sex;159369]it would be alright to bone my girlfriend up the rear right?[/QUOTE]
Yes! Lube up & ride her bare back!!
It's the most amazing feeling in the world.
if she wants too, go for it!
Dude, the way that you asked that question lets me know that the anwser that I should give needs to be NO! You can't just be like "I want to bone this chick up the ass!" Be respectful man. Talk to your girl friend about it, ask her but don't be pushy about it. Start by asking her if it's ok to touch her there, if she says yes, then take it slow. Rub your finger around her anus and over it. Be gental, and softly push on it (BUT NOT IN HER ACTUAL HOLE) You're going to need to ask her if it would be ok to put a finger up there. Then finger her first, to get her relaxed (use plenty of [COLOR="Red">ANAL LUBE[/COLOR] do not try it with spit or pussy juice. If she likes that, then ask her if it would be ok to try anal sex. Then and only then is it ok.