after my man has sex with me or if he takes to long fumbling around with my openings trying to get it in, I get sore or it burns to much for it to be pleasurable...why is this? and will it go away with time as we get more used to sex?
Tue, 09/26/2006 - 14:48
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burns or gets sore.
I do not know for certain, although two things come to mind.
1st, is that your vaginal opening has not become all that plyable
2nd, is that any lube, natural or artificial, is not adequate or adequately spread around
There is an exercise that you can do to stretch your vaginal opening. Please do an advanced search using my name and the key word exercise or bathtub.
Make sure you are as wet as can be for you and that the lube your mucus or an artificial lube is spread on his penis/condom. If using a condom, even lubricated ones should have more lube applied to them. It may be that you are just being rubbed raw more than being stretched out. What do you think?