I don't know if this subjects been talked about before, but how many here has overcome, what I would discribe as mental abuse, growing up my brother would make fun of my "size"
I was younger and overweight which made it appear worse. Let me say that the other males in my family are rather well endowed and they know it, and they make sure everyone else knows it.
he would call me a lot of names, try to pull my pants down in public when ever he wanted attention or to embarress me.
and I would say the most hurtful thing he did was when, over the pohne he said it all it in front of his wife, I heard he in the background snickering and such *very immature*
The teasing mainly started because my flacid state is about 2 1/5 inches, but erect i am about 6 3/4 x 5 I mean I ain't ron jeremy like my brother thinks he is. (not that I'd want to be) but I am not the smallest
Thanks for letting me rant and would like to hear anyone else's story who has dealt with this (or admistered it to one of your siblings what was your reasoning?)
Its very hard to over come and probably the biggest factor in my social anxiety and my upcoming 23 year old virgin status
Got the same hell growing up because one my brothers are not cut and look larger and 2, they are larger by almost 2 inches despite me being the oldest. My retort was "So what happens when you catch wood and it pokes out?" another that wroked for a while was "You must like guys with small ones because you're making comments"
Little brothers... Gotta love 'em, they are 16 and 29
JR
Yeah, your brother, as well as the other guys in your family you mentioned, all seem like jerks. Just remember this: with them acting that way, you will be far more likely to find a great girl to be with and you will be able to please her better than they ever could, because you'll know what to do with it, instead of just assuming your size does the job! Good luck!
Your brother is a jerk, your penis is perfectly normal.
I didn't mean to imply these were recent events, my brother is nearing 30 and I 23, so has been out of my house for a long time.
its also been about 5 years since this topic has came up between me and him and that incident was the last straw, I won't take it anymore, I don't talk to him.
but that still does not stop that feeling of inadequacie it instilled into me, this site has help by far, bringing up this subject with my parents really wasn't an option at the time, my dad was the one who taught my brothers that way anyway, and it was too embarrassing to talk with anyone else with, especially since at the time I thought it was true and didn't think anyone could help
I might still do the phone number in the bathroom haha it would be funny!
oberon: you are definitely correct, i've heard lots of stories of men just thinking yeh i am big it automaticly gets the job done.
12 inch Dick...call (your home phone)
If you can operate a felt tip pen and keep this little piece of work to yurself.....when the phone starts ringing you can dummy up like you are doing your homework......like the good little bro you are. If your folks grill you about it to see if you know anything...call yur dad aside and
mention how he harrases you in public(mention where).....and brags about his endowment in public. (If your dad ain't around
you may have to tell mom)
Although this may seem really ratty.....in the long run it may
keep something bad from happening to either of the two of you. If word gets around about his size he could be harrased
the same way he is harrasing you.
You have one difficult task if you decide to do this.....keep your mouth shut about it forever ! Once you tell someone abut it, then it might come back to haunt you big time as you will be the bad guy from then on.
eDJ
Hi newguy,
You can tell your brother it's all very well to own the biggest SUV on the road, but if you don't know how to drive it, it doesn't do you any good.
Too many men who think they have large penises think that's all that's required for sex. Technique is a MILLION times more important than size.
Your brother needs to grow up.