Haha, silly title. But, sometimes I feel like its true. I just don't seem to enjoy masterbating, and I have no clue where the my clit is, no matter how hard and tiredlessly I've searched for it. Is it possible that I just don't like, have as much feeling in mine as others do in theirs? I've heard stories about the clit stimulation being completely mindblowing but .. Why haven't I experienced this?:(
Thu, 07/10/2008 - 05:08
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broken?
The very first time I tried it.. I felt the same way
But one day (no clue how or what happened), I found my clit and I did not feel much.. almost nothing.. but I kept rubbing it and the more I did, the better it felt (took awhile)
Don't worry!! It happens!!
My clit never used to be sensitive, have you tried penetration? For the longest time I could only enjoy penetration and now its only through oral + digital stimulation I can come from my clit being rubbed. Maybe you're like me and prefer g-spot stimulation? Even now when I masturbate I rarely touch my clit.
Step 1: clear your mind of any negative thoughts regarding sex and masturbation from your mind. Good girls not only do but they also enjoy and get very very good at sex both alone and with a partner. Give yourself permission to enjoy sex.
Step 2. Get a hand mirror and a small flat-head vibe called a clitoral stimulator. An anatomy book would also help. Do some investigating. Just a penises vary in size so too do clitorises. Yours may be small. Relax and take your time. There's no rush.
Step 3. If possible get yourself a skilled and considerate partner to assist. Once again, take your time; there's no rush.
It may take some time to connect the pathways in your mind so do not get dissappointed if the initial results are not "mind-blowing". There is every chance that the results will improve with practice.