We have a problem. I've always enjoyed breast fondling, but my gf says that she never gets anything out of it. I've read up on the subject for many weeks, but no matter how or when I try it, she says it just doesn't have an effect on her. She seems to do fine when I caress her back, nibble on her ear, or all that jazz, but her breasts are always a no-show for her.
What gives? I've tried it before, during, and after climax and she still can't feel much of anything up there, each with varying amounts of pressure, movement, and whatnot. Are her boobs broken? :p
I can understand how she feels... When my bf plays with mine I dont get much out of it. I dont know why, they're just not very sensitive! The only thing that turns me on is actually seeing him play with them. I still let him do it though because I know he enjoys it. I dont think its fair to deprive a guy of breasts (as most of you lot seem so fascinated with them!) ;)
If you enjoy it then ask her if its ok for you to keep doing it...tell her you'll make it up to her another way :p
Thanks for the info, emma23. I'll try my best to please her in many more interesting and fascinating ways. ^_^`
juss isnt one of her things
remember that every girl is different
My first girlfriend didnt get anything from messing with her boobs. I couldnt handle it. My now girlfriend loves it though, & i love doing it. I couldnt ever live without playing with boobs & seeing her squirm with pleasure.
I use to get a real big kick when my boyfriend played with my breasts. Now, I guess they're de-sensitized because the pleasure is very minimal. However, I still like to watch him play with them. Each girl to her own, I guess.
One question though: does she want you to completely stop playing with her breasts or is she simply saying that she doesn't get anything from them?
She's simply saying she doesn't get anything from them.
It's not you, it's her.
I've had girlfriends that got nothing out of touching their breasts or their bums, and others who will get slick wet from light carrassing of those areas.
I myself enjoy touching breasts and bums so I can understand why you're a little put off, but every girl is a roll of the dice as far as what turns her on goes. It's unlikely you can train her to enjoy it.
Again, thank you for that. It helps to know I'm not the only one who has had this happen to them.