Allowing for the obvious, gross exaggeration, orgasms are orgasms from a physiological perspective. They are the release of myotonia or tenseness in muscles that is built up through sexual arousal. Stimulating different parts of the lower pelvis may, or may not, get some different muscles involved. The easiest example is that anal, or perineal, stimulation may get the anal sphincters more involved in the orgasm and these are very strong and powerful muscles. Stimulation of the G-Spot, if it exists, can involve the urethral sphincter (the sphincters are actually each a "family" of muscles) more directly. Breast stimulation or, more specifically, nipple stimulation does not directly involve any of the muscles of the lower abdomen but most likely results from the stimulation of the clitoris from discrete "grinding" by her that is moving the clitoral hood.

I agree with the part that each women is different :) But, I know I can achieve orgasm from my breasts and nipples being stimulated... And that's when I lay on my back, my bf laying beside me. Or with me on all fours beside him. So no pressure on my clit or pelvic area at all... (that usually comes after 1 or 2 orgasms ;)) Orgasm is like a warm wave flowing over me. In fact; I can experience orgasm in a similar way from my ears and back of my neck being licked. And while my back is being caressed. Yes, I'm highly sensitive :o About the same wave of heat/warmth coming over me, sometimes with me trembling all over. I've always thought this is biologically possible too... Perhaps it's a mind thing? Orgasms are mostly a mind-thing anyway, aren't they?

I'd say it really does come from a different area than clitoral or gspot, as that really starts in my pelvic area, while in the other cases it's more like the warmth is flowing towards it. Clitoral to me is very powerful, but usually also very local. Sometimes the trembling spreads out a little through my body. Internal (a/gspot) feels like a wave of roaring thunder going from my pelvic area shooting towards my brains, rushing back all over my body! :o

[QUOTE=Brandye;258790]Breast stimulation or, more specifically, nipple stimulation does not directly involve any of the muscles of the lower abdomen but most likely results from the stimulation of the clitoris from discrete "grinding" by her that is moving the clitoral hood.[/QUOTE]

No grinding goes on with me. I've even challenged myself to keep my legs open and no clothing or anything else to "help" stimulate my clit. The orgasms clearly originate with non genital contact. I sometimes feel my clitoris respond and the feeling is amazing. My favourite kind of orgasm is one which originates from having my neck sucked. The best thing about these orgasms is my clit doesn't get over sensitve and I can go and go and go, non stop without a break.

[quote]The best thing about these orgasms is my clit doesn't get over sensitve and I can go and go and go, non stop without a break.[/quote]
Yes, totally agree on that :)

Okay with the breast thing for me(and like I always say; everyone's diffrent) the nipples are the most sensitive. So most likely your squeezing her nipples and massaging her. And yes it's a good feeling to feel your breast squeezed. Just don't do it much or it'll be red for a long time and it can be over sensitive.(Trust me I know -.-) And with the clit and g-spot of corse it feels good. And most likely those are her most pleasurable spots, or what I call them; turn on/cum spots.

So yeah there's my advice hope it helps ^^

[QUOTE=luvyhubby;258805]Thanks for the repely. I will have to try the neck sucking this weekend. Anything special to it other than finding the right spot?[/QUOTE]

I think the main thing about the neck is my vulnerability is a big turn on. I have a very sensitive neck and can't usually handle shirts with high necklines or anything touching it but if he touches it I'm putty. The downside is the skin on the neck is fine and easily damaged, so if your wife enjoys it sucked, she's going to end up with a lot of hickeys. ;) Licking is also pleasurable.

My favourite spot would be the base just to one side of the windpipe, although sometimes I'm ticklish and I'll skim a bit, it will give me the most intense orgasms. I also like him to caress any part of my neck but it's usually his mouth rather than his hands that get me off.

[quote]Again thank you for discussing these things that my wife is uncomfortable discussing. I guess you don't have any suggestions for getting her to be more vocal do you?[/QUOTE]
You're welcome! I consider myself a lucky woman to be so sensitive, so I hope your wife does too! :) I wouldn't know why she doesn't like talking about it or how you could motivate. Some suggestions:

[INDENT]Maybe it is difficult for her to give words to it? So she doesn't know what to tell you? That's very understandable! There's not much she could change on this, but let you know this is the case.

Maybe she is a bit embarrassed/shameful about it? No need for actual bad experiences, a lot of us have simply been taught how sex is a bit "bad". All you can do is be patient and respectful and let her know how there's nothing to be ashamed of. And perhaps share with her your experiences/thoughts/feelings as well.

Maybe she simply doesn't like putting words to it and sharing it. It's something that feels like 'her thing', private. If that's the case, that's maybe a little difficult for you, yet nothing wrong with it :)[/INDENT]

Most easy option is to ask why she's uncomfortable. Good luck! I wouldn't worry too much about it; she's enjoying it, that's the most important thing! :)

Personally: I'm a girl that loves giving words to things that are difficult to describe; I write poems as well, so perhaps that makes it a bit more easy... I share everything with my bf. To me that is easy after I had shared my biggest and most embarrassing secret with him (being sexually attacked as a child). We then started on a journey together of discovering the wonders of my body. I didn't even know I could orgasm or enjoy sensual touch till I met him :o On a more anonymous basis I like sharing on the forum, because I hope to tell others how sex is just the most beautiful thing and how you should celebrate the gifts of your body.

That's great! Thank you for sharing this.
And how funny that your wife and I appear to be wired the same. It seems to be rare.
I hope you'll double the 25 years. Enjoy! :)