I want to get breast augmentation but would be afraid to ask my boyfriend/future husband because it cost so much money. I feel guilty as using 5 dollars of his. Or should I just earn it to make my self feel better and not use his money? I am only able to work for about 4/5 months though then I start college.
Fri, 02/09/2007 - 01:41
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Breast Augmentation
Why do you not read your own signature block. It is a sublime message that women considering this should read.
I really didn't want to say what the breast augmentation was for because I was a little embarrassed. I was 16 and got pregnant. My boobs dropped some. I am not comfortable with out a bra. When buy a bra I buy smaller size so they will lift them up but then my nipples pear out some times. So basically it's about getting back to what I was use to be and being comfortable with my boobs again.
Why don't you really consider what/why you would be doing it & if you want it so badly, just like anything else, pay for it yourself. Expecting a boyfriend to pay for your "wants" is pretty assuming...does that mean he would be half owner if you split up?
Why do you want augmentation? Are you not satisfied with your bust size, or are you doing it because you feel he'll enjoy it more?
I find that few people who desire breast augmentation really need it, and some do have second thoughts later
Make sure to think carefully about your motivations
They always continue to droop over the years to come--you will be reengineering your body every few years, buy an underwire or a push up bra.
It helps to give the facts if you want advice. Buying a "smaller" bra is not a solution; it makes things worse. There are two steps to what you want to accomplish. The first is to stay in decent shape physically. The toned pectoral muscles make things look a little better and you general well-being keeps things in perspective. Then get to a good bra fitter (i have all mine made for me but that is where corsettieres are still available). A properly fit bra makes loads of difference in ones appearance and comfort.
If, over the years, you still want to do "something," consider a tuck rather than an augmentation. It is less complicated and will not have to be replaced when things start getting stiff in there.
When I go to the store to buy bra's, I try them one they fit. I wear them for 2 two weeks or so and I notice the shrink. So I am not sure how to judge what bigger size to purchase. I know that they shrink close to an inch.
If I wanted to have mine made for me where would I look to do that?
I was planning to get a lift but I always thought it was called that for any breast surgery. Though you are right as i searched through doctors they are separate categorizes.
Thank you for your input.
[QUOTE=Brandye;166791]It helps to give the facts if you want advice. Buying a "smaller" bra is not a solution; it makes things worse. There are two steps to what you want to accomplish. The first is to stay in decent shape physically. The toned pectoral muscles make things look a little better and you general well-being keeps things in perspective. Then get to a good bra fitter (i have all mine made for me but that is where corsettieres are still available). A properly fit bra makes loads of difference in ones appearance and comfort.
If, over the years, you still want to do "something," consider a tuck rather than an augmentation. It is less complicated and will not have to be replaced when things start getting stiff in there.[/QUOTE]
There is also the point that regardless of sag etc. most men prefer the feel of natural breasts to augmented breasts. Then there's the response issue. Will you react to foreplay the same way after breast augmentation? I can't say because I have what nature gave me.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;166891]There is also the point that regardless of sag etc. most men prefer the feel of natural breasts to augmented breasts. Then there's the response issue. Will you react to foreplay the same way after breast augmentation? I can't say because I have what nature gave me.[/QUOTE]
???? ROFLMAO...most women prefer the feel of a natural semi hard penis to that of a viagra fueled HARD on. Perhaps you should preface "most men" to "the men I'm with" because really you don't know what MOST MEN think regardless of what you say:cool:
See a good bra fitter! Do not do it yourself; she know what is what and it sounds like you are buying cheap bras.
HardnGood since you haven't been with ANY men please stop thinking you know anything - you only know yourself and that counts for very little.
Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawn...
Evil!!!!!
You must accept that men are the experts on all things sexual and having to do with primary and secondary sex characteristics of women!!!! We women are the passive vessels to accept their deposits and the pleasure they allow us (or require us, as they pummel our clitoris' into submission).
Be nice to him.
[QUOTE=Brandye;166952]Evil!!!!!
You must accept that men are the experts on all things sexual and having to do with primary and secondary sex characteristics of women!!!! We women are the passive vessels to accept their deposits and the pleasure they allow us (or require us, as they pummel our clitoris' into submission).
Be nice to him.[/QUOTE]
Of your 2908 posts,I've enjoyed most of them thanks for your insight Brandye!
I have never said I was an expert,however I do have a pretty good handle on how men think with respect to their expectations of ladies. I've never ever tried to pummel a clitoris into submission. I have never used a woman as a warm wet spot to deposit sperm.Generalizations make for interesting interpretations.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;166891]There is also the point that regardless of sag etc. most men prefer the feel of natural breasts to augmented breasts. Then there's the response issue. Will you react to foreplay the same way after breast augmentation? I can't say because I have what nature gave me.[/QUOTE]
Don't know if there's been a poll taken but I'll vote for natural. I've stated before that I prefer some natural "sag" to those overstuffed, ready to burst, porn star jobs....YUCK!!:( I admit though, I am only one man and a middle aged one at that.
Well perhaps if he'd just address the issue at hand, giving useful advice, instead of just attacking me and my advice - I might actually break down and be nice to him. As it is, I see no reason to be at all nice to him given he has such 'narrow' views.
This is not the only sex site/sex advice site on the Internet and polls on this topic have been taken - the majority of respondants all went for natural breasts rather than those 'over-stuffed' ones as Old Kid called them. those may attract the eye but they do not, in their opinion, excite the desire.
Small and natural is much better than big and fake. Save your money for school, a house, a car, or invest it.
[QUOTE=Old Kid;166969]Don't know if there's been a poll taken but I'll vote for natural. I've stated before that I prefer some natural "sag" to those overstuffed, ready to burst, porn star jobs....YUCK!!:( I admit though, I am only one man and a middle aged one at that.[/QUOTE]
That makes two of us, Old Kid. Natural is so much better. (I'm middle aged too by the way.)
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;166891]There is also the point that regardless of sag etc. most men prefer the feel of natural breasts to augmented breasts. Then there's the response issue. Will you react to foreplay the same way after breast augmentation? I can't say because I have what nature gave me.[/QUOTE]
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Good advice EvilEvilKitten as a man I can confirm most men prefer the feel of natural breasts to augmented breasts.
Talk to your future husband about it and keep your relationship open with him.
If my wife altered her body without me knowing I will flip my lid ( I know I don’t own her ) because i will love to have been part of it from the start and told her that I love her as she is.
We are all going to get old and parts of us will change
I don't want fake breast for my own reasons anyway. All I want it is them pretty close to what they were before the baby.
I could have swore I wrote a response to you but I guess not. When ever I buy bra they fit. After two weeks of washing them they are too small. They shrink about an inch. I am how to buy a bra if that happens all the time. I still want to get the surgery. I am not going to be mean, that's not in my nature in the first place.
[QUOTE=Brandye;166791]It helps to give the facts if you want advice. Buying a "smaller" bra is not a solution; it makes things worse. There are two steps to what you want to accomplish. The first is to stay in decent shape physically. The toned pectoral muscles make things look a little better and you general well-being keeps things in perspective. Then get to a good bra fitter (i have all mine made for me but that is where corsettieres are still available). A properly fit bra makes loads of difference in ones appearance and comfort.
If, over the years, you still want to do "something," consider a tuck rather than an augmentation. It is less complicated and will not have to be replaced when things start getting stiff in there.[/QUOTE]
He is making 100 thousand a year and I will be starting at close 50 thousand. We are really well off and have plans for savings. I am not going fake, I am going lift.
[QUOTE=sensualone;167021]Small and natural is much better than big and fake. Save your money for school, a house, a car, or invest it.[/QUOTE]
A lift is not 'breast augmentation' - it is just a breast lift - two entirely different things.
take a money loan and make yourself happy. dont wait for the man to give you money.