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For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)

The information in this Sticky post is to inform growing and maturing teenage boys about what is important with regard to the size of their penis at the present time.

It is my intent for this post to take away the angst the typical boy has concerning the size of his penis and whether or not it is large enough to please his (potential) partner. Please do not extend this thread by telling the world how large you are; please post this or other comments on the Penis Size 101 thread.

Here's a peat and yet another repeat on the matter of size to add to what has become quite a collection. This question is one of the most asked and by making this information a "Sticky post" I hope that those who choose to ask will find their answer here, first, before posting yet another thread--and not doing their "homework" and looking around the Board, first. For those wishing to respond to others about all this, you can reference this message, rather than typing a lengthy response.

Let us begin with "the long and the short of it".
First, the short story for those not interested in a long disertation:

* "Normal" is a range.
* The range varies depending upon ethnicity and genetics
* Size changes as a boy grows and matures. As we all begin
developing at different ages size vs. age is really meaningless
* What should matter to you more than size is that your
penis is fully functional and that you have researched and
learned how to use it to please your partner. In other words,
that you have become a knowledgeable, skilled, compassionate,
lover in all other aspects of making love, also.

Now for the long version:

First, boys begin to mature at different ages. There are "early bloomers" and "late bloomers" as well as those of us who just fall in the middle somewhere. Certainly you've seen 14 y/o boys in the eighth--ninth grades who are six feet tall and strapping, and then the 15 y/o who looks to be about 11. The size of a developing penis during the early teen years is not very meaninful. What is is the size at nineteen after the penis has finished developing.

Ethnicity and genetics play important rolls in determining what the eventual size of a penis will be. In general, Black males tend to come equipped with the largest endowment, whereas men of Mongoloid stock and related indigenous peoples tend to have the smallest genitals. Caucasian males occupy the middle range of what is considered "normal". So, we ask, "what is 'normal'"?

This is a range, not a specific number on a tape measure. Normal is any length over ~4.25 inches. When a person of mixed heritage takes a measurement he might find his penis to be slightly over or under what is typical for a particular ethnicity. (To measure the length of your penis, simply lay a metal or cloth tape measure along the top surface from abdomen to the tip of the Glans.)

Size does not matter to most women, this is a "guy thing" that takes some enlightenment to get beyond. What matters to women is that the penis be fully functional and that the owner operator knows how to use it in loving, caring, compassionate, knowledgeable, skilled and imaginative ways. If you want to become a great lover, then learn how to acquire and apply the above information.

What is typically a "gal thing" and of importance to her is that she considers the penis to be a combination throttle and brake through which she controls her man's speed of arousal and progress toward Nirvana and an eventual climax; therefore, the penis need only be large enough for her to adequately grasp! Depending upon how she grasps and manipulates the penis, she can speed up or slow down her partner's progress toward a climax. She can also tease AND TANTALIZE him and drive him wild with anticipation, expectation, desire, and passion.

Size is important because a lot of women enjoy the feeling of fullness they experience when a man is inside. Apparently, it does not take much to accomplish this because the vaginal vault is rather devoid of sensation.

Here are some resources:

http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/penis.htm
http://www.i18nguy.com/l10n/shoes-anatomy.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_size
http://www.neo-tech.com/penis/
http://www.enlargepenisguide.com/about_size.htm
http://www.coolnurse.com/penis_size.htm

U R A LIFE SAVER i've checked out a couple other of ur threads and posts and there really informative doc u really help me out im a 14 yr old boy who just wants to learn and be able have a good functional penis that i can enjoy wether masterbating or pleaseing my partner and well i really apreciate ur fine intellagence(im also dislexic so sorry if i spelt n e thing wrong)

one thing i dont understand is that my penis can vary?i am 17years old and when i am erect i dont understand why my penis size can vary from like 6 inches and a half to 7 inches is this normal? for example i can have 6 inches and a half on one day and the next im on 7 :s

This can be a normal happening.

Wait until you are with a partner and she turns you on. Your penis will feel like it is stretched to the breaking point and about to burst!!

This is all a matter of how much blood is contained inside the penis and by how turned on you are.

Funny how Nirvana is defined as both a pleasure climax and the Buddhist term in which one seperates from attachment to worldly things. Ironic.

Nirvana is described in Buddhism as a state of eternal bliss when you rejoin the universal spirit. The only relation it has to worldly things is that that is the method you reach it, by meditating your life away.

[QUOTE=anotheranon11;186528]Nirvana is described in Buddhism as a state of eternal bliss when you rejoin the universal spirit. The only relation it has to worldly things is that that is the method you reach it, by meditating your life away.[/QUOTE]

No.

Western views of it have distorted and argued it into believing it's some blissful state, similar to some 'heaven'.

The best definition is detachment from the physical realm, from hatred, anger, greed, envy, from samsara; the endless cycles of rebirths.
To be a practicing Buddhist and attain such, you don't need to be a monk spending most of the day meditating.
Hell, you can reach the echelons of society, as long as you prevent spreading suffering to others as humanly possible.

Buddha's later teachings actually denoted the concept of Nirvana, that you leave the cycle. Rather, that enlightenment, the goal of Buddhism is living, to be engaged with life and help others alleviate their pains.

Hi, I'm 15, anbout 5' 1" and im 6 to 6 1/2 inches hard. Is this normal for my age and height?

It is not necessary to post duplicate posts. I responded in your other thread. When a person logs on after an absence they click on the New Messages button at the top of the screen to display all new messages in all Forums that they have not seen.

Your question above, is unnecessary. Why? Because you asked it in a thread that answered it in the opening post. Didn't you read the opening post that defines the thread? Please do not be in a rush to ask questions. We love answering them, yet have already done so to the most frequently asked ones like this. Please take some time to read the Posting Guidelines and other rules of the road in the Forum by the same name.

just so guys know more girls complain of guys being to big than to small, if you are small you can work at your technique and foreplay and get good, but if you are too big you will just end up hurting her and there is almost nothing you can do about it

[QUOTE=YourNameHere;221150]Hi, I'm 15, anbout 5' 1" and im 6 to 6 1/2 inches hard. Is this normal for my age and height?[/QUOTE]

yahh thats pretty good actualy saying you will grow a little ( one of my female friends said if you are 6 inches you will be fine

Im 13 and the size of my penis is 4 1/4 inches is this the average size or what if you can answer my question please email me at

Thank you

[quote=pharoh_13;222407]Im 13 and the size of my penis is 4 1/4 inches is this the average size or what if you can answer my question please email me at

Thank you[/quote]

Average & should grow until about the age of 19 or so. Okay?

[QUOTE=pharoh_13;222407]Im 13 and the size of my penis is 4 1/4 inches is this the average size or what if you can answer my question please email me at

Thank you[/QUOTE]

Did you read the article at the top of this thread, or, did you just jump in with this question without reading any of the other posts?

Your concern has been asked and answered hundreds of times including at the top of this thread which is why it was created. Please look around and read the threads before jumping in and posting.

I'm sorry but this Pharoh13 kid is getting to be annoying.. I'm almost inclined to say he just wants to go about spouting his size. At the very least he is overly concerned with it. For the last time kid.. you're fine. just drop the subject or do a little of your own research for christ's sake.

While you are hopefully learning the ropes, here is one more recommendation. Do not post your E-mail address. You just never know who will see it and SPAM you or contact you unnecessarily.

After you post a question give the rest of us anywhere from an hour to a day to respond and then look for your answer in the thread. If you would like a private response, request that someone send you a Private Message through the site.

From the posts; I am beginning to wonder if this is in fact a 13 y/o with questions or a lure for some off line chat. The questions are too odd, sorry, and do not appear to be representative of a 13 y/o with questions.

Ok to all you guys wondering does size matter? Well the answer is yes somewhat. You have to understand a few things. Sex is a primative act. The woman has to submit to the man by allowing him to penatrate her. So to some extent women like for there men to be in control, or better still dominant. Please please dont mistake this for being dominering than your just a jerk!!! That being said any man can understand his role no matter what his penis size. Well why does size matter? For the males that are well endowed with a big dick. This is a plus in the role of being dominant beacuase of physicalogycal reasons. Being that she can see from your size you can dominant her body physically. Now this does not mean that just by your size alone you will bring her to orgasm, and it does not mean if you are not big you cant. It just means that if your not big then you will need to maybe do a little bit more. Like ok so whats big? A big penis is in my book 8in and up in lenth. Anything over that is extra. 9+in lenth is considered huge. Meaning anything over 9in lenth is huge. This is also very rare looking at what is avg. Basically how it all boils down is confidence. Your confidence no matter how many inches you are is the most important. Know who you are as a person, and how you relate to the world. And by being confident you can do anything. Also guys that are huge run a huge chance of there gf not wanting anal sex, just cus it might hurt them. And I am talking girth size here huge in my book being anything over 6.5in girth. Notice I didnt say never. My size I dont brag Peace

[QUOTE=gamedawg;227472]Ok to all you guys wondering does size matter? Well the answer is yes somewhat. You have to understand a few things. Sex is a primative act. The woman has to submit to the man by allowing him to penatrate her. So to some extent women like for there men to be in control, or better still dominant. Please please dont mistake this for being dominering than your just a jerk!!! That being said any man can understand his role no matter what his penis size. Well why does size matter? For the males that are well endowed with a big dick. This is a plus in the role of being dominant beacuase of physicalogycal reasons. Being that she can see from your size you can dominant her body physically. Now this does not mean that just by your size alone you will bring her to orgasm, and it does not mean if you are not big you cant. It just means that if your not big then you will need to maybe do a little bit more. Like ok so whats big? A big penis is in my book 8in and up in lenth. Anything over that is extra. 9+in lenth is considered huge. Meaning anything over 9in lenth is huge. This is also very rare looking at what is avg. Basically how it all boils down is confidence. Your confidence no matter how many inches you are is the most important. Know who you are as a person, and how you relate to the world. And by being confident you can do anything. Also guys that are huge run a huge chance of there gf not wanting anal sex, just cus it might hurt them. And I am talking girth size here huge in my book being anything over 6.5in girth. Notice I didnt say never. My size I dont brag Peace[/QUOTE]

Paragraphs are a good thing to use. <- That is also a grammatically correct sentence.

Gamedawg:

Where exactly are you coming up with this information about sex being a "pysicalogycal" (which isn't even a word by the way) act of dominance? Sex's natural, physiological, purpose is reproduction. It is true that there is also psychological and emotional elements to sex, but it is not about dominance unless you WANT it to be. A woman is not "submitting" to a man just because she lets him enter her. It is more like she is deeming him worthy and ALLOWING him to do so. If anything it is an act of mutual submission, though I would say the word mutual consent and attraction is more accurate.

Furthermore, even if I did agree with your reasoning, I think you are doing a disservice by posting it here and so very unclearly. I can see that you are trying to make a distinction between different connotations of the idea of dominance in sexual roles. However, this isn't exactly a clear cut concept and to those who do not have a decent understanding of sex and sexual roles, the distinction will most likely be easily lost. It will be particularly lost on many of the what seem to be young and/or sexually ignorant males that are so drawn to this thread to post their penis size either for validation purposes or bragging purposes. These males clearly still have a lot to learn about sex and the last thing we need is for these immature and clueless boys to be going around trying to "dominate" girls.

Check your facts, this is seriously flawed reasoning.

Want to be dominant through sex? Turn a woman into an addict- an addict to your sexuality. Have her beg for your touch and kisses and and sex. Learn to bring her to orgasm again and again and again until she can take no more, yet the next day MUST have more of you. Learn to make her cum in public simply by touching her. Learn to copulate several times in one long session or to sustain an erection for 45 minutes even if you have already reached orgasm and use that erection on her mercilessly. Learn to do wonderful things for her with your penis no matter what size it is. Learn to give the the most incredible orgasms without using your penis. Maybe then you can talk about dominance.

Now go back and read what RAEZ said and what Sera and EvilEvilKitten and also what all the other bright, sexy, sexually experienced women in this forum have said on the subject.

Thank you dlb, thank you. If only all males (and females for that matter) could demonstrate such mature thinking...

[quote=dlb;227806]Want to be dominant through sex? Turn a woman into an addict- an addict to your sexuality. Have her beg for your touch and kisses and and sex. Learn to bring her to orgasm again and again and again until she can take no more, yet the next day MUST have more of you. Learn to make her cum in public simply by touching her. Learn to copulate several times in one long session or to sustain an erection for 45 minutes even if you have already reached orgasm and use that erection on her mercilessly. Learn to do wonderful things for her with your penis no matter what size it is. Learn to give the the most incredible orgasms without using your penis. Maybe then you can talk about dominance.[/quote]

Yeap! Do this and guess what? We never leave! We will be stuck to a man like this like white on rice! :D

Thanks for the support RAEZ and sera300. A guy can have goals, aspirations and fantasies you know! And I am sure that both of you already know that most of us men relish penis adoration from women, but as a penis owner I personally want to hear more than wow! that is so big, huge, monster, mammoth...hyperboles ad nauseum.

I rather enjoy hearing praise of how frequent and long lasting and solid my erections are, of what an attractive shape my penis has, of how good it feels, and how good I am at using it. I have seen the pics and vids of the men with penes the length and girth of my forearm. I wonder how many women can actually enjoy that.

Men with smaller penes are probably happier when receiving fellatio. I wonder what deep throat feels like.

Deep throat fantasies aside am pretty happy with being within the average range.

Gargantuan penises are nothing more than incredibly weird...I want nothing to do with them.

And dlb, just as you would rather hear, I am much more likely to compliment or even comment whatsoever, on how long a man lasts and performs and how I enjoy touching him or the feel of him, than I am to make any kind of remark on his size. It really doesn't matter unless it is an extreme on either end of the spectrum.

[quote=dlb;227908]Thanks for the support RAEZ and sera300. A guy can have goals, aspirations and fantasies you know! And I am sure that both of you already know that most of us men relish penis adoration from women, but as a penis owner I personally want to hear more than wow! that is so big, huge, monster, mammoth...hyperboles ad nauseum.

I rather enjoy hearing praise of how frequent and long lasting and solid my erections are, of what an attractive shape my penis has, of how good it feels, and how good I am at using it. I have seen the pics and vids of the men with penes the length and girth of my forearm. I wonder how many women can actually enjoy that.

Men with smaller penes are probably happier when receiving fellatio. I wonder what deep throat feels like.

Deep throat fantasies aside am pretty happy with being within the average range.[/quote]

In all honesty; there is never a "WOW" regarding size since I am a firm believer in the "owners" skills and what can I imagine to do with this wonderful thing! I nice penis with a man who is a skilled lover is where it is & feed back is on really the thought & attention he demonstrates as a lover.

Now regarding the size issue; yes, some men do have very large & those are not issues either, again it falls back on how great the sex/love making is. I have been with a few who were well endowed and size is not an obstacle, even with oral. I find nothing disgusting or repulsive about a man's body. Nor do I with a woman's, I am not gay or bi, but I do find the human body if kept well a work of art. I just do not involve myself with men who are physically "dirty"...now, yes my ex fiance has been on the v-ball court and came in sweaty; however, I knew he showered earlier & was a clean person. I would still go down on him without any phobias.

Oral on a well endowed man is no issue & really it's not "scary" either. Meanwhile, I have been with one or two men who were well endowed and had no clue as to read/listen what was enjoyable--therefore they were not good lovers. My former fiance was good at what he did and well endowed so he hit part of the top rating factors in my good "sex" thoughts.

It's not the size; or the "wow"...it's the great, wonderful male lovers which rank in my book & I do make it a point to always comment on their individual talents! Everyone is different; there is no right or wrong, only a big turn off for me if he is clueless. Too often men believe just "banging away" with no thought is the way to go. Show me the same respect & you get it right back...a good lover? I may never let get out of bed! People in general have too many hang ups when it comes to sex & judge on the wrong issues.

[QUOTE=YourNameHere;221150]Hi, I'm 15, anbout 5' 1" and im 6 to 6 1/2 inches hard. Is this normal for my age and height?[/QUOTE]

For your height I'd say you are very lucky! No worries in your department. from someone old enough to be your Father, I have exactly the same erect length but my flaccid size can be around two inches, thus proving that some erections can triple in length!

Got a problem guys (A bit of a noob when it comes to sex so sorry if i sound retarded here)

Is it a bad thing if my penis doesnt fit in a regular sized condom? My girlfriend and I tried the other day and it was too big for the condom which was 56mm (Width) I looked everywhere for a bigger sized one but they all seem around the same size.

Some advice would be greatly appreciated here, cheers.

I am Only 13 and ive got a 6 incher>?
4 inches thats sad.
I dont agree with this at all.

Well, July28, did you read the opening article to this thread? "Normal" is a range that has much to do with ethnicity as well as heredity. Much of the world's male population has a Mongoloid heritage, thus penises that are 4+ inches. Sad. At 13 you are just learning, I suggest you read more. At this point you do not know what you do not know.

Great Sticky Post Regarding Penis Size

Do you think a larger penis would be harder to get hard...

Nope, not unless a person has a medical or physical condition.

Penis size varies a lot throughout the day. When erect it is whatever size it grew to. When flaccid, it can be quite tiny (the result of cold air or water) to not so tiny, to some partially erect length. Each person's size extremes vary by genetics. A normally tiny penis will grow considerably when becoming erect. On the flip-side, a person whose normal flaccid size is not much smaller than when it is erect doesn't have much happen except for a change in hardness.

Typically when a guy is in the presence of a lover, the "chemistry" and pheromones flying between them will make an erect penis feel like it will burst. This has to do with becoming more aroused than when home alone.

is here any drug or exercise ti enlarge the penis size and width

plz tell themedicine to enlarge my penis

In a word: "NO."

There are no pills, potions, lotions, or pumps, that will increase the size of a penis on a permanent basis. There are pumps that can be purchased, although, they can and sometimes do damage the internal structure.

If you are younger than nineteen, then your penis has not stopped growing. At twenty and older, you will have attained full growth.

Did you read the opening article to this thread? Penis size is mostly a concern of guys and the Fragile Male Ego. If your desire is to be(come) a great lover, then size is not where it's at. Being a great lover has more to do with meeting a woman's emotional psychological needs--and being a skilled, caring, knowledgeable, with regard to methods and techniques, particularly when it comes to making out--Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting; and later, Foreplay.

Genuinely small penis's are rare, that's partly based on my own limited observations lol and general studies I've come across, dancingdoc probably is more clued in than me on that.

But having a small penis is a handicap sexually, and its not somehowdown to women being shallow that its an issue. The one time I had sex with a guy that was small it was very unsatisfying firstly because of lack of sensation, secondly down to the mechanics and how he struggled to actually keep his penis inside, and thirdly in his whole attitude that it resulted in him having.

So yeah small penis a guy can compensate for it, but he has to realise first that its a handicap sexually.

[QUOTE=raez;227730]Gamedawg:

Where exactly are you coming up with this information about sex being a "pysicalogycal" (which isn't even a word by the way) act of dominance? Sex's natural, physiological, purpose is reproduction. It is true that there is also psychological and emotional elements to sex, but it is not about dominance unless you WANT it to be. A woman is not "submitting" to a man just because she lets him enter her. It is more like she is deeming him worthy and ALLOWING him to do so. If anything it is an act of mutual submission, though I would say the word mutual consent and attraction is more accurate.

Furthermore, even if I did agree with your reasoning, I think you are doing a disservice by posting it here and so very unclearly. I can see that you are trying to make a distinction between different connotations of the idea of dominance in sexual roles. However, this isn't exactly a clear cut concept and to those who do not have a decent understanding of sex and sexual roles, the distinction will most likely be easily lost. It will be particularly lost on many of the what seem to be young and/or sexually ignorant males that are so drawn to this thread to post their penis size either for validation purposes or bragging purposes. These males clearly still have a lot to learn about sex and the last thing we need is for these immature and clueless boys to be going around trying to "dominate" girls.

Check your facts, this is seriously flawed reasoning.[/QUOTE] OK this is my last time posting about this subject so here we go. We all agree that sex is a primative act correct. Now lets think about that when a woman lays down on her back or gets down on her hands and knees, which are most womens favorite positions deep stick/ doggie style she is submitting to the man fact. Face it. Now I can make a woman orgasm with out using my penis I can make a women orgasm all type of ways. I can make a women orgasm just by the tone in my voice, and or my touch. You dont know me and you should be mature enough to know not to judge.
Now to the deeming him worthy to do something line is hella can. Sounds like Dr. Phil and that makes me want to puke. She is lucky to have me I give her value because I am the value and I care about her. I think your methods of teaching are way to watered down for me anyways. I dont know about the next guy but I am not feeling you. And to the female on here that guy who was saying all about not talking about dominance until you do this and that. I wouldnt be able to do any of that if I didnt belive I was dominate in the the first place. And I am just confident enough to talk about it. Look at how big of a responce my comment caused. You know you like your man to pull on your hair like a cave man and smack that cute ass of yours.
So I would share more of my knowledge with you all but I wont because you tryed to hate on the game and thats never cool. Oh and I missed spelled the word phycalogical might be another miss spell kids on that one to, but go hard at this dont be afraid to make mistakes. Theres going to be haters but stick to your belifes. If you dont know find out what they are write them down.
I will say maybe I didnt not explain everything as good as I could, and I am not ashamed of that because I did it out of a place of love. Peace and lets all have great sex P.S. Haters wake your game up

[QUOTE=Mike92avfc;233701]Got a problem guys (A bit of a noob when it comes to sex so sorry if i sound retarded here)

Is it a bad thing if my penis doesnt fit in a regular sized condom? My girlfriend and I tried the other day and it was too big for the condom which was 56mm (Width) I looked everywhere for a bigger sized one but they all seem around the same size.

Some advice would be greatly appreciated here, cheers.[/QUOTE]

Without getting down to dimensions (please don't reach for a ruler) the most likely problem is that you're not putting the condom on correctly.

At first I thought the same thing but we both tried to put it on and there was just no way it would of fit and it wouldnt of stayed on, it was a latex condom so we couldnt stretch it to make it fit.

Possibly, however, it is important to know that condoms come in "small", "medium", and, "LARGE" sizes.

Purchase one of each or at least two initially and try them out to learn which size is correct for you. Also, different makes/models may be slightly different so if you choose a medium for one type, it may or may not be exactly correct for some other type.

As for what Sara stated, do practice rolling a condom or two on beforehand so you are familiar with the simple process. Also, if your choice in condoms does not have a built-in reservoir, be certain to pinch off a good half inch at the tip so that the ejaculate has a place to collect.

Rolling a condom on can be done by either party. It can be a great turn on for the woman to do the deed. Also, she can play as she does this.

If it is determined that you need more sensitivity, then apply lubricant to the head of the penis (only) and this will give it more wiggle room thus providing more stimulation.

Lastly, if you are going to use condoms, use them 100% of the time. To skip once in a while is like wearing no condom anytime. A condom protects you and your future. Before having intercourse, make sure she is using a contraceptive in order to protect her and her future or else only go as far as foreplay. As sex is a partnership effort, the two of you should also use a third contraceptive and this would be a spermicide. If there is a good reason why your partner cannot use the pill, patch, or some other form of highly reliable contraceptive, she should at least use the spermicide in addition to you using a condom.

Cheers for the advice but regarding condoms, Ive noticed you live in america so I dont know how its done other there but they dont come in small medium or large sizes here, we just get a width and length of the condom and I tried an extra safe one from durex.

[QUOTE=Mike92avfc;233715]Cheers for the advice but regarding condoms, Ive noticed you live in america so I dont know how its done other there but they dont come in small medium or large sizes here, we just get a width and length of the condom and I tried an extra safe one from durex.[/QUOTE]

Practice putting the condom on, I honestly think thats your problem. You may have been doing if for a quite a while but you still could be doing it wrong. Remember there's a gap at the top for the sperm receptable so don't try to force yourself in and rip it.

Condoms are cheap, pregnancy and std's not so much, so take a half hour and master it.

I personally think size is irelevent, as I have a small dick, but my gf is happy wiv wat I an do wiv it, so satisfy her & to put a smile on our faces cos of it!!! As they say "its not the size that matters, its wat can be done wiv it that matters". obviously every male is gonna ahave a different lengthed penis & experience counts too. My gf & I are happy, so shud every other couple who has the chance of happiness in life.

[QUOTE=sarah_rsl;233717]Practice putting the condom on, I honestly think thats your problem. You may have been doing if for a quite a while but you still could be doing it wrong. Remember there's a gap at the top for the sperm receptable so don't try to force yourself in and rip it.

Condoms are cheap, pregnancy and std's not so much, so take a half hour and master it.[/QUOTE]

Yep, been trying with the extra safe condoms for a few days now and they still wont fit, tried everything putting them on and when even try to roll it down the skin goes with it and i dont think thats right lol And now weve both been getting woried thinking without the proper condoms then we'll never be able to have sex together, I know theres a way around it but now im getting a bit paranoid over it. Ive also looked around shops and noticed the Avanti version condoms which are thinner, non latex and are 64mm in width. But does this mean they are less safe?

Has it got anything to do with how often I masturbate or anything? because I really want to find a solution to this.

Cheers for the help.

> been trying with the extra safe condoms for a few days now and they still wont fit, tried everything putting them on and when even try to roll it down the skin goes with it and i dont think thats right

Are you referring to your foreskin moving back behind the glans as you roll the condom on? If so, there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, it can be a benefit because with the condom providing some insulation that dulls the sensations, having the nerves in the glans exposed will make your responses better.

As for putting a condom on, doesn't the package come with instructions?

* If the model does not have a reservoir at the tip, or, if it does, pinch this area off and roll the remainder over the glans and down the entire length of the shaft.

> l And now weve both been getting woried thinking without the proper condoms then we'll never be able to have sex together,

As far as toughness goes, natural condoms feel best yet do not provide protection from STDs. They are also the most fragile. Poly is probably best with Latex in the middle. As for various styles, this is just a matter of preference.

I meant the skin around the penis, that just continues to roll down when i try to roll the condom down and its painful wen i do try that n looks like my knob is about to explode when i manage to get it some of the way down

I can second this one my girlfriend always tells me she is thankful I'm not big because her last boyfriend was really long and apparently not only did he hurt her but his incredible length made his penis look revolting in color. She also says that she likes that I can all of me in her so she feels closer to me.

How do you measure the size? Does it have to be hard or just normal when sizing? Thanks!

What is the title of this thread? Apparently, you just jumped in with your question before ever reading the opening post--in this case one of the informative articles I asked you to read in your other thread.

Your question has been answered in the leading article to this thread. Please do a bit of research before asking questions that have been addressed many many times before. It is because they have and because they will continue to be asked that a few of us have spent hours writing about the most common concerns people have.

Our time is also valuable and that is one reason I'm not going to copy and paste the answer here that you could have gotten to with a couple of mouse clicks hours ago. We enjoy helping and that is why this site exists, yet we do expect people to do some homework, first. Also, in an attempt to help with your concerns in the other thread, please answer my questions, or what's the point of even asking if following up with clarifications is no longer worth it to you?

how many guys on here are have foreskin and who dont

This is a good question, although, any responses will not be representative of society as a whole--only of those members of the community who choose to answer. Even so, I think it is worth seeing what the numbers are.

Please go to the site's Poll forum and post your question there. DO NOT hijack this or another thread, especially with questions that require multiple answers on another matter.

In addition to asking if a person has a foreskin or is circumcised, I believe your poll should also include their age and ethnicity, where in the world they live, and, whether they were circumcised as a child or later and at what age.

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