I just discovered that my boyfriends watches porn. Is it normal for a guy ? Does a lot of them do that ? I mean, watching videos ? It just seem to put on me even more pressure to perform on my first time. Plus, he's been with zillions of women before me and have done almost every sex thing, he is older then me. I am just scared I want me good enough for him !!!!
Thu, 11/30/2006 - 01:43
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boyfriend watches porn
Porn is fine dont worry about, bunch of guys here watch it 2-3 times a day. I just watch it like 4 times a week.
porn is fine.. if you lucky like me your gf will even enjoy to watch it with you and having intercoarse of foreplay with porn on in the background gets hormones flying even more.
However we do not do this often and i do not watch it alone though i used to before i met her
It sounds like you're worried that he'll prefer porn to you, or hold you to the unrealistic images he sees there. As I'm sure many people here can testify, porn is no substitute for the real thing. Also, in my experience especially becuase he has been with many women, he will know that you need to go slowly, learn about your body and his, and figure things out. As always, discuss your concerns with him; there is no substitute for a good conversation, even if it's awkward and/or painful. Good luck!
NEVER even think that you have to 'live up to' some sort of sexual standard especially not that stuff they show in porn videos! This is NOT the Olympics!
I'm sure that with good open conversation - you two can reach an agreement!
Porn is good for learning stuff, and new positions :). When I watch it I take mental notes, so that I can teach my GF some new trick's, especially blowjob cuz she can't really do it. But like someone said on this forum, there is no such thing as bad blowjob its just a degree of exelense.