[QUOTE=HardNgood;178889]rub his penis,it gets hard, it goes off,end of story[/QUOTE]
No! not hardly....
The trouble with this statement is that it is too generalized; there are the mechanics and the Fine Art to the actons. We all understand the basic mechanics involved in stroking a penis and fingering a clitoris; however, there is also the Fine Art of the process that is unique and specific to each individual. It is this that must be learned.
All too often left to her own devices and without any guidence a woman will handle a penis much too roughly. Her stroking will more often than not be jerky and not include the required rhythm and pressures. I'm not saying that a guy cannot climax from that approach, just that it is problematical.
I recommend that your guy demonstrate his technique by masturbating for you. This will give you a visual of the process. Next, encourage him to take your hand in his and to guide your movements over a few sessions until you learn to mimic his rhythms, motions, and pressures. He should also show you where his hot spots are.
The same recommendation holds true for him with you.
Read through the How-to and Expert sections for even more diversity with your fun and games.
Lastly, in addition to db's recommendation to read all the informational Sticky Posts (found at the top of each of the forums), please begin your reading with this one: How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
Welcome to the SI101 site! Please do not hesitate to ask additional questions as they come to mind.
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ROFLMAO...Uhhhhhhhhhh Doc, 3/4's of these posters CAN'T freeking read or spell, I am of the opinion that the response should be "short and sweet", so they don't get to lost! You have spent many many hours making INFORMATION PACKED stickies and still these people completely BLOW THEM OFF, proving they haven't a CLUE how to read! You really should get MORE recognition for all your efforts!..and that also goes for Sera and Brandye..
I never had a problem with chafe lol.. it takes my girlfriend too long to masturbate me if I want to go to orgasm.. Gf gets tired of it.. so would I.. sex is better.... Explain us the situation... then we can give advice.. What have you tried, what hasn't worked?
[QUOTE=HardNgood;178922]Uhhhhhhhhhh Doc, 3/4's of these posters CAN'T freeking read or spell, I am of the opinion that the response should be "short and sweet"[/QUOTE]
Independant off your retorte and not haveing sean it until just know, I posted this:
Let's add Demon to this list, also, if there is ever to be one. Thank you for the accolades, although, I do not believe any of us contribute to be on a list.
Whether it is laziness or something else, I am finding that television viewing is reducing a person's attention span. News is encapsulated and presented in short snippets so when people are presented with a challenge for information and have to delve into the matter beyond a paragraph or two, they just get exasperated and don't bother.
I do hope these and other posters get the message that our time is valuable and having to devote more of it to repetition it truly frustrating and exasperating. This is not the first time some newby has logged on and said please help me but I'm too lazy to look for the answer myself. On behalf of everyone, I ask the question, again, why should we bother devoting our valuable time to helping some oaf who won't help himself? Nuf said.
rub his penis,it gets hard, it goes off,end of story
Check out all of Dancing Doc's stickies under the "new to sex" forum!
Plenty of great info there
[QUOTE=HardNgood;178889]rub his penis,it gets hard, it goes off,end of story[/QUOTE]
No! not hardly....
The trouble with this statement is that it is too generalized; there are the mechanics and the Fine Art to the actons. We all understand the basic mechanics involved in stroking a penis and fingering a clitoris; however, there is also the Fine Art of the process that is unique and specific to each individual. It is this that must be learned.
All too often left to her own devices and without any guidence a woman will handle a penis much too roughly. Her stroking will more often than not be jerky and not include the required rhythm and pressures. I'm not saying that a guy cannot climax from that approach, just that it is problematical.
I recommend that your guy demonstrate his technique by masturbating for you. This will give you a visual of the process. Next, encourage him to take your hand in his and to guide your movements over a few sessions until you learn to mimic his rhythms, motions, and pressures. He should also show you where his hot spots are.
The same recommendation holds true for him with you.
Here is a link to what I consider the preeminent site on male masturbation.
http://jackinworld.com/sitemap.html
Read through the How-to and Expert sections for even more diversity with your fun and games.
Lastly, in addition to db's recommendation to read all the informational Sticky Posts (found at the top of each of the forums), please begin your reading with this one:
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
Welcome to the SI101 site! Please do not hesitate to ask additional questions as they come to mind.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;178917]No! not hardly....
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ROFLMAO...Uhhhhhhhhhh Doc, 3/4's of these posters CAN'T freeking read or spell, I am of the opinion that the response should be "short and sweet", so they don't get to lost! You have spent many many hours making INFORMATION PACKED stickies and still these people completely BLOW THEM OFF, proving they haven't a CLUE how to read! You really should get MORE recognition for all your efforts!..and that also goes for Sera and Brandye..
here's one thing that cannot be stressed enough: use lubricant! It is not at all fun to chafe down there.
I never had a problem with chafe lol.. it takes my girlfriend too long to masturbate me if I want to go to orgasm.. Gf gets tired of it.. so would I.. sex is better.... Explain us the situation... then we can give advice.. What have you tried, what hasn't worked?
[QUOTE=HardNgood;178922]Uhhhhhhhhhh Doc, 3/4's of these posters CAN'T freeking read or spell, I am of the opinion that the response should be "short and sweet"[/QUOTE]
Independant off your retorte and not haveing sean it until just know, I posted this:
Let's add Demon to this list, also, if there is ever to be one. Thank you for the accolades, although, I do not believe any of us contribute to be on a list.
Whether it is laziness or something else, I am finding that television viewing is reducing a person's attention span. News is encapsulated and presented in short snippets so when people are presented with a challenge for information and have to delve into the matter beyond a paragraph or two, they just get exasperated and don't bother.
I do hope these and other posters get the message that our time is valuable and having to devote more of it to repetition it truly frustrating and exasperating. This is not the first time some newby has logged on and said please help me but I'm too lazy to look for the answer myself. On behalf of everyone, I ask the question, again, why should we bother devoting our valuable time to helping some oaf who won't help himself? Nuf said.