Well a lot of people use lots of different words that mean the same thing. Some people say tits, others say breasts, others say boobs, etc... You just need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you don't like that word. He may have no idea that it would bother you. Chances are he had no clue. I actually prefer the word tits to breasts in bed. I find that tits sounds hotter and sexier where as I see the word breasts as more of a clinical or technical term. Maybe it's just me.

i always thought tits was kind of a dirty word. when a guy says "look at her tits" i kind of think "wow, what a dog." and when a guy says "wow her boobs are huge!" i dont think much of it. thats probably because i call them boobs myself. its just whatever you're comfortable with.

He likes them... just ask him to use another word

Lots of guys like to use "dirty" words.. its not in every day conversation thast my husband uses the words "cunt" "wet pussy"or "tits" etc.. but before during and after sex... they're used a lot. I say you're being too uptight and should cut the guy some slack .. and like the others said, you obviously have no communcation or dont kow how to communicate with him about your feelings. Try it.

Girl12 serves up an excellent point, Angel.

If you have got a problem, I know it's easier to ask what your peers may think. But in the meantime you're wondering in your mind, analyzing things he has said, pondering what he really means, everything that is said or done. (I know that sentence barely makes sense, but I don't know how to make it better, lol)

Ask him, gently what is meant. Don't get upset over every little word or gesture. Find out from him what he is intending. He doesn't seem all bad, but it seems you may have been hurt int he past and are afraid he is being hurtful, as well.

Talk with him! It will make your relationship better!

abg u keep asking questions on here that u could EASILY ask ur boyfriend. to me, u seem slightly paranoid about the things u ask about...you should ask ur boyfriend. he is the one that knows why he likes to groan and roll his eyes back when he comes, he is the one that knows why he looks at u during sex, and he is the one that knows whether or not he was saying a degrading thing about ur breasts.
ask him. without communication the relationship will not go too well.

-mariah

Well, since he called them "nice"... I'm guessing he meant it as a compliment. He probably just thought it sounded sexy... in a dirty talk kind of way...lol.

Unless it really bothers you, I wouldn't make too much out of it. Some people just find different words more erotic than others.

I would say that it's actually more important to understand HIS interpretation or meaning of the word and in addition, convey to him whatever your feelings are towards specific terms.

If he meant no harm, but you hold a different and negative view of the word, then you may percieve it as an insult when it was not meant to be.

If he WAS being derogatory (which I doubt highly) it is better to just tell him how you feel about the word(s) and be open about it.

My guess...? I'm betting he didn't realize he might be offending you. Many guys inadvertantly say things that mean one thing to them, but don't realize it may offend others. We never know how some women WANT to be spoken to under "romantic" circumstances.

I was raised to NEVER use the word "cunt"... but found MANY women love to hear that word used during hot & heavy sexual activity. How the heck would anyone ever know that...? I would NEVER volunteer that word on my own. Some women call it a dick, a cock, a hog, penis, meat... how would YOU know if any one of them would offend your boyfriend...?

You may harmlessly call his penis one of those names with all-good-intentions... but he may be insulted. The only way to know is to discuss it. (I guess)

Dunno if I helped... but I wouldn't worry about it.

I guess it will be up to you to decide what you think of the word.
It is all a matter of perception, your perception.

I don't find it degrading.
I don't find 'tits' a derogatory word. I will use it myself.

Now, if I want it to be more romantic, and I wanted to be treated more like a lady, then I think 'tits' would not be the word to use, and he needs some lessons in romance 101.
In that sense maybe it is a little degrading, but I think it is more of a mood killer there...
Sometimes saying 'tits', depending on the mood, can really heat things up...

Again, it is just a matter of perception at the time.

But if it bothers you then just casually mention it that you would like him to not use the word tits.

Actually, many of my ex girlfriends call them tits... before this i avoided using this word, but these days, it doesn't bother me.