What we seem to have here is a conundrum. We all masturbate in basically the same way, although as I have stated many times, each of us develops a "fine art" to the mechanics that is unique and specific to each one of us. If we vary the basics too much either the orgasm will not happen, or if it does, it is sometimes not what we had hoped for. So what is a guy to do? We are driven to masturbate both to relieve stress and tension, or for the simple joy of it, yet while having done it over and over again over the years, we just get tired of the same thing. Well, the answer can be found in the following website:
This is the preeminent source for all things relating to male masturbation. There are a lot of illustrations and descriptions for how to take matters into your own hands, differently, that should eliminate the boredom.
HAHA, that's some great advice. i know where he's coming from, and it's too bad it's not necessarily that easy. i'm lucky to have found a great one though
till then, maybe to change it up a bit, consciously stop and keep yourself from succumbing to the temptation until you feel like you're going to bust. maybe read a good book instead, something captivating like a mystery. when it becomes unbearable (try for a week if you can make it, unless you're good at self control in that matter, and then maybe you should wait a while longer) warm up slowly, and try to keep it up as long as possible without busting. by the time it happens it'll be a great feeling, worth much more than the five or ten times or so you've missed out on masturbating.
...And to repeat another one of my "prescriptions", go rent or buy the movie "Forty Days and Forty Nights", starring Josh Hartnett, while holding off and storing energy and trying not to bust.
Our recliner has a nice soft cushion on the foot rest part. I put a glove with some lube inside it between the gap of the foot rest and the rest of the chair and thrust into it you can vary the amount of pressure by opening and closing the gap beetween the foot rest and the chair. I can usually last a long time doing this and the orgasm at the end is great. You can also do this with couch and the cushions but you can't vary the pressure.
another way: put on a condom just over the head of your penis and then with a siringe that has no needle (just pull it off) squeez in some lubricant not to little not too much personally I use olive oil as here in italy it is abaundantly available and I haven't the foggiest where to gget lube. pull the condom down over the rest of your penis and get pumping into two cusions one above one below. not unader one cusion and the bed materass as the cusions are softer and will help go all round your penis. well so far (done it 11 times haha that precise cause I've used 11 condoms) I have had trouble lasting a few strokes and am hoping this is a good way to learn much self control for when the time comes. and the orgasm is shattering. my only problem is getting hold of a condom a night. in a small town like this I dan't go to the chemist as I am a foreigner (English) in Italy and anything I do that is not eating working or sleeping (own my own hehe) is considered abnormal and to be widely talked about. the only automatic machine is on the corner of the main square.
so ps anybody know of a good substitute for a condom ?? also being my bed I must advoid leakages as oil stanes and in anycase there is not enough lube in the condom.
Every once in a while when the topic of masturbation takes this turn I recommend the following that is not that different from what has been described, above.
PSEUDO VAGINA-
Take a small ZipLock plastic bag and cut a hole in it along the bottom of one side sufficient to insert your penis.
Lubricate the inside lower portion of the bag along with your penis.
Insert penis into the bag through the hole and then wrap the rest of the bag around it. Around the bag/pseudo vagina, fold and wrap a towel iln order to add bulk and padding.
Place a couple of pillows on the bed and assume the Missionary position, placing you and the pseudo vagina between the pillows and at the proper angle. Pressure can be varried by squeezing or relaxing the pressure of the pillows against you.
This feels remarkably like the real deal and makes a very effective substitute when the real vagina or a more expensive dildo is not available.
well for a fourteen year old yu been at it long
by the way doc isn't thhat bag going to be a bit rough ? thats my main problem thats why I put extra lub in the condom but there and again i am circumcised any other suggestions ? a good enough substitute for the condom ?
Yeah, fine, when you succeed. But in the meantime you have to go through the ritual of dating, rejection, frustration etc. And all the time you are doing this, there is an itch that demands to be scratched.
What we seem to have here is a conundrum. We all masturbate in basically the same way, although as I have stated many times, each of us develops a "fine art" to the mechanics that is unique and specific to each one of us. If we vary the basics too much either the orgasm will not happen, or if it does, it is sometimes not what we had hoped for. So what is a guy to do? We are driven to masturbate both to relieve stress and tension, or for the simple joy of it, yet while having done it over and over again over the years, we just get tired of the same thing. Well, the answer can be found in the following website:
www.jackinworld.com
and specifically --
http://jackinworld.com/expert/index.html
This is the preeminent source for all things relating to male masturbation. There are a lot of illustrations and descriptions for how to take matters into your own hands, differently, that should eliminate the boredom.
Find a girlfriend.
[QUOTE=Brandye]Find a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]
HAHA, that's some great advice. i know where he's coming from, and it's too bad it's not necessarily that easy. i'm lucky to have found a great one though
till then, maybe to change it up a bit, consciously stop and keep yourself from succumbing to the temptation until you feel like you're going to bust. maybe read a good book instead, something captivating like a mystery. when it becomes unbearable (try for a week if you can make it, unless you're good at self control in that matter, and then maybe you should wait a while longer) warm up slowly, and try to keep it up as long as possible without busting. by the time it happens it'll be a great feeling, worth much more than the five or ten times or so you've missed out on masturbating.
...And to repeat another one of my "prescriptions", go rent or buy the movie "Forty Days and Forty Nights", starring Josh Hartnett, while holding off and storing energy and trying not to bust.
hehe. how can you get bored of masterbating?
anyways, if you do get bored, as it was aforementioned, find a girl.
It could be worse. You could be in my shoes, I'm bored with masturbating and my bank account is empty from expensive dates.
lol
or it could be even worse than that.
it could be broke because your MOM used it for expensive dates, since she can get into your bank account.
ive lost soo much money that way..:( :p
Our recliner has a nice soft cushion on the foot rest part. I put a glove with some lube inside it between the gap of the foot rest and the rest of the chair and thrust into it you can vary the amount of pressure by opening and closing the gap beetween the foot rest and the chair. I can usually last a long time doing this and the orgasm at the end is great. You can also do this with couch and the cushions but you can't vary the pressure.
Well you could if you pushed down on the cushions right?
I've also heard of this method being done between a matress and the box spring.
another way: put on a condom just over the head of your penis and then with a siringe that has no needle (just pull it off) squeez in some lubricant not to little not too much personally I use olive oil as here in italy it is abaundantly available and I haven't the foggiest where to gget lube. pull the condom down over the rest of your penis and get pumping into two cusions one above one below. not unader one cusion and the bed materass as the cusions are softer and will help go all round your penis. well so far (done it 11 times haha that precise cause I've used 11 condoms) I have had trouble lasting a few strokes and am hoping this is a good way to learn much self control for when the time comes. and the orgasm is shattering. my only problem is getting hold of a condom a night. in a small town like this I dan't go to the chemist as I am a foreigner (English) in Italy and anything I do that is not eating working or sleeping (own my own hehe) is considered abnormal and to be widely talked about. the only automatic machine is on the corner of the main square.
so ps anybody know of a good substitute for a condom ?? also being my bed I must advoid leakages as oil stanes and in anycase there is not enough lube in the condom.
Every once in a while when the topic of masturbation takes this turn I recommend the following that is not that different from what has been described, above.
PSEUDO VAGINA-
Take a small ZipLock plastic bag and cut a hole in it along the bottom of one side sufficient to insert your penis.
Lubricate the inside lower portion of the bag along with your penis.
Insert penis into the bag through the hole and then wrap the rest of the bag around it. Around the bag/pseudo vagina, fold and wrap a towel iln order to add bulk and padding.
Place a couple of pillows on the bed and assume the Missionary position, placing you and the pseudo vagina between the pillows and at the proper angle. Pressure can be varried by squeezing or relaxing the pressure of the pillows against you.
This feels remarkably like the real deal and makes a very effective substitute when the real vagina or a more expensive dildo is not available.
Try it...you'll like it. Enjoy=
www.jackinworld.com
i think doc may have given you this link, but it damn sure is a good way to spice up masturbation.
heh, and i know this is coming from a 14 year old, but ive found better ways to masturbate in the 5-6 years ive been at it.
and i know thats not alot, but its something ;)
well for a fourteen year old yu been at it long
by the way doc isn't thhat bag going to be a bit rough ? thats my main problem thats why I put extra lub in the condom but there and again i am circumcised any other suggestions ? a good enough substitute for the condom ?
He stated since age nine. Imagine his surprise and amazement the first time his orgasm ended with an ejaculation!
The bag is not rough...feels very realistic.
my advice to the original question. Don't wank for a week. Pretty soon you'll HAVE TO, then it won't be uninteresting.
[QUOTE=batman527;143612]my advice to the original question. Don't wank for a week. Pretty soon you'll HAVE TO, then it won't be uninteresting.[/QUOTE]
nothing beats the real thing though:p
Dont masturbate? Lol Or not as often?
[QUOTE=GothicVixen;168137]Dont masturbate? Lol Or not as often?[/QUOTE]
easy said than done LOL:D
[QUOTE=Brandye;141879]Find a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, fine, when you succeed. But in the meantime you have to go through the ritual of dating, rejection, frustration etc. And all the time you are doing this, there is an itch that demands to be scratched.
If you are using porn, find a different type of porn.
It's still wanking, but who knows where it might take you.