[QUOTE=Quote (j56h @ Nov. 20 2005,22:30)]Many of the Actresses and Pin-up models of the 50's would be considered fat today by the current Hollywood standards. Those women were beautiful and would make much better role models for the average woman rather than trying to starve themselves to look like current pop stars. Just my two cents.[/QUOTE]
I have a beautiful body, 5'7" 164lbs( you couldn't tell), size eleven pants, dark brown eyes and hair, 36c(tear drops-even after two kids), and a very firm fat ass(the main reason why I wear a size eleven). Men tell me I am considered "thick" not fat but not washboard firm-"the right amount of softness and curves" . I am proud of my body, and I am definately not afraid to take my clothes off while the lights are on.

from my point off view
it does nt depent on how u look....shape...colour...breast size....
its just how confident u r abt ur self...
so guyz n gals..remeber.....u r the best...

I'll throw another bi girl post out there:

women who have unique styles, some kind of funky glasses or a neat piece of jewelry that they are wearing with confidence turn me on. i love geeky girls, someone who is so into what she's doing that she practically bumps into you.

the perfect girl though-- a little taller than me, 5'8" or so, curvy but definitely not to the point of being chunky. i'd say anything under 160, long dark hair, dark eyes, a sexy smile... and short finger nails!

seriously though, it doesn't matter what they look like as long as they are sexually confident and emotionally sound. that can make up for the most unattractive body.

[QUOTE=Quote (j56h @ Nov. 20 2005,22:30)]Maybe I'm in the minority, but I find women who have some meat on their bones to be more attractive than those that are very thin. Toned looks good but not so skinny that she looks "gaunt". Even women who are overweight can be very attractive to me if they are dressed in a way that flatters their size. In my opinion many of the celebrities, performers, actresses and models pictured in poular magazines are not nearly as attractive as they could be if they carried a little more weight (the'd just look healthier, I think). I think the media has promoted an unrealistic trend in what people perceive as the "perfect shape". Many of the Actresses and Pin-up models of the 50's would be considered fat today by the current Hollywood standards. Those women were beautiful and would make much better role models for the average woman rather than trying to starve themselves to look like current pop stars. Just my two cents worth.[/QUOTE]
I COMPLETELY agree with you! Excellent post.

I am a bisexual girl so i will put in my two cents worth....

I like curves, I also have a thing for girls who are more full. I like thicker thighs, big butt...all of it. For the face, I like full lips and dark eyes. I like someone who is confident, if you are confident in your looks that makes you very attractive to me.

Ladies no matter what you look like just know that you are beautiful in your own way. Be confident no matter what anyone else says!

-Mariah

well drew....im 5"2 and i only have a 32 B breast size..i have a toned body but not perfectly .....i think its a little nasty to be so muscular...but chat later

how old r u?

woo wat a cool post...

My perfect woman.....hair color doesn't matter.......someone who is kinky and aggressive with their behavior sexually, I prefer shorter women....anything at 5'0 or less is real hot for me...although I've dated women my height(5'11) and was fine with it....they must have some kind of fitness about them, I can't stand obese women personally, doesn't attract me...I like a slim waist, tight abs, tones legs, toned arms, boobs....well, I've seen a few girls that have 32C's, seems to be the perfect size....they are very large, but not overwhelming that their ugly, and she cant' have a gag reflex...I like to be deepthroated(8 inches here)...feet need to be taken care of...and I like small hands, and she needs to smell good....there we go....anybody out there fit that description?

[QUOTE=Quote (j56h @ Nov. 20 2005,22:30)]Maybe I'm in the minority, but I find women who have some meat on their bones to be more attractive than those that are very thin. Toned looks good but not so skinny that she looks "gaunt". Even women who are overweight can be very attractive to me if they are dressed in a way that flatters their size. In my opinion many of the celebrities, performers, actresses and models pictured in poular magazines are not nearly as attractive as they could be if they carried a little more weight (the'd just look healthier, I think). I think the media has promoted an unrealistic trend in what people perceive as the "perfect shape". Many of the Actresses and Pin-up models of the 50's would be considered fat today by the current Hollywood standards. Those women were beautiful and would make much better role models for the average woman rather than trying to starve themselves to look like current pop stars. Just my two cents worth.[/QUOTE]
Marilyn Monroe was a size 16. Eva Longoria is a size DOUBLE zero. Yeah.

Maybe I'm in the minority, but I find women who have some meat on their bones to be more attractive than those that are very thin. Toned looks good but not so skinny that she looks "gaunt". Even women who are overweight can be very attractive to me if they are dressed in a way that flatters their size. In my opinion many of the celebrities, performers, actresses and models pictured in poular magazines are not nearly as attractive as they could be if they carried a little more weight (the'd just look healthier, I think). I think the media has promoted an unrealistic trend in what people perceive as the "perfect shape". Many of the Actresses and Pin-up models of the 50's would be considered fat today by the current Hollywood standards. Those women were beautiful and would make much better role models for the average woman rather than trying to starve themselves to look like current pop stars. Just my two cents worth.

well me personally...cute face skinny, but not too skinny and a fat ass I could care less about the tits wheter they're huge melons or the ones that you need a straw to suck on em ;) but Im a big fan of a fat ass girls start working them glutses oh yea and the ass has to be firm for me I've had sex with several women whose asses are like JELLO...not bad but I prefer firm like my gf's

Personally let me say that this particular description would be ONLY the first to catch my eye within a series of varying size/shape/dressed women.
'Nuff said: about 5'6" size 5, slightly round butt (mmmm), wearing tight low rise jeans, mostly flat tummy with a navel piercing, midriff or a little longer shirt, full B cups to mid C, classy neck to nibble upon, with medium to long length dark brown hair ( or short-almost spiky blonde hair) absolutely delectable ears, dark brown or black eyes with soft full lips that love to kiss!!

Did I describe YOU???

I like short and tall (almost as tall as I) girls. The ones in between are ok, but I prefer the short and tall ones.

Tummy: Flat with just a hint of abs.
Tits: Nice tear drop shape, not hanging, size b to d
But: Firm, not fat, shapely
Face: I'd like there to be something unique, not the typical playboy face. Not too much makeup.
Body: Not anorectic(!) and not too much fat. Too slim girls are just plain ugly. The fat ones are just a complete turn off, even if they are quite good looking (some of them are).
Someone who thinks she is too fat even if she is not, is also very unattractive.
IMHO face is the most important thing in a woman, then but, body, tits and clothes, in that order. I like skirts, long and short ones. (Check out these: http://www.snopes.com/photos/skirts.asp)

My partner says his tastes vary day by day.Sometimes he is a "leg" man, sometimes a "bum" man, sometimes a "boob" man ... etcetera. I may be wrong but many men just like variety of any kind. Some men remain with the same partner and close their eyes imagining anyone or any bit they like. Others put their desires into practice and physically sample anything that is available or on offer. Some combine both. Like women, men's desired types vary and both sexes will mostly be happy with what they get but if they are not they will "stray".

So, all body types will be acceptable to someone but whether you meet that someone is dependant on a lot of factors.

I think all people should strive for the most healthy body form they can obtain and accept the limitations or benefits that may bring. Not too skinny, not too fat, willing to enjoy all aspects of life and enjoy all life has to offer. Afterall, we only have this life at this time so enjoy it to the max.

Hmmm, anyone wanna f***??

It's soooo subjective, I'll just start off with that.

I tend to be most attracted to thin women. On the taller side, but not taller than me. I'm athletic, so I like the women I date to be so as well. Breast should be well shaped, I'm not looking for 36 DD's, a nice B or A, so long as it was that nice tear drop shape.

Dress should be appropriate for the occation. When we are relaxin at home, sweat pants and t-shirt (no bra ;-)) When we are out, something flattering without being slutty.

Preffer little make up, but a little is fine, just don't over do it. Make sure you smell nice, and that you make some try to be fashonable.

Smokers stink, it's not fun making out with someone who just burned one down.

Other than that, the way a woman carries herself, no matter how she is built or dressed make all the difference in the world.

There are girls TOTALLY not my usual body / style type who carry themselves well, that I will approch before the gal with what I "typically" look for, who just kinda "is there".

lol yeh think of marilyn monroe (sp?) she was a size 14 or was it even 16?? and she was so sought after in her time ...she has nice curves. skinny or curvy, big boobs or small boobs, there's a guy who'll love evry girl's individual shape!

[QUOTE=Quote (j56h @ Nov. 21 2005,01:30)]Maybe I'm in the minority, but I find women who have some meat on their bones to be more attractive than those that are very thin. Toned looks good but not so skinny that she looks "gaunt". Even women who are overweight can be very attractive to me if they are dressed in a way that flatters their size. In my opinion many of the celebrities, performers, actresses and models pictured in poular magazines are not nearly as attractive as they could be if they carried a little more weight (the'd just look healthier, I think). I think the media has promoted an unrealistic trend in what people perceive as the "perfect shape". Many of the Actresses and Pin-up models of the 50's would be considered fat today by the current Hollywood standards. Those women were beautiful and would make much better role models for the average woman rather than trying to starve themselves to look like current pop stars. Just my two cents worth.[/QUOTE]
Sadly enough you do seem to be in a minority and I agree with what you're saying. Also you describe just my type of women. Your post reminds me. I just bought this mini poster of a sort of collage of images of Marilyn Monroe. I wish women today looked more like she did. It's so sad that today she would be considered fat. I'm so tired of the heroin chic look of today. Oh look at me getting off topic. Ok as another bi chick I will add my input of "my type" when it comes to women.

I love love love curvy women. And I don't mean curvy in the way that she has an ultra thin waist with medium sized boobs and butt. I love when a woman has a little bit of extra love. I love having something to squeeze and hold onto. I also have a thing for long hair. There are women who can pull off short hair but generally speaking I love long hair. And to add to the curviness factor I LOVE a big nice ass. Again with something I can grab onto. Recently I've gotten more into boobs and started paying more attention to that area as well. I have pretty big breasts (F cups) and I'd love to be with a woman who can be my equal in that department. Oh what I wouldn't give to have her hanging those big beautiful.....Ok now I'm getting carried away. I'll stop. Anway, big girls rule!

Excellent post Iamawesum!

You have to look at yourself in the mirror and find things that you think are attractive, then love them!

I am definitely not the model type.  I'm 5'3" and weigh waaaay more than I should.  Okay, if it helps you other ladies, I'm about 185, though you would NEVER be able to guess that by looking at me.  I wear a size 12 right now, but am working out and eating better to get smaller.  My breasts are 38D currently (down from 44DD) and I have a small waist and a very round butt.

Anyway, the point is, I think I'm attractive and I think that is conveyed to men.  I smile and laugh a lot, too.  I work with many men and believe me, they are constantly trying to get my attention.

My man loves for me to wear clothes that show off my womanly curves.  I wear my hair short to show off my neckline, which he loves to kiss.

When I look in the mirror, I don't look hoping to see Kate Moss.  I look and am happy that I'm shapely.  No, I don't feel this way EVERY day, but for the most part, I do.  This is my body and I can improve on it, but in the meantime, I love the way I look.  Women need to stop comparing themselves to today's waifish movie stars and look back to Marilyn Monroe, as was brought up earlier.  YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!

[QUOTE=Quote (missyh @ Oct. 02 2005,10:27)]are big boobs really a turn on or do men just go over the top saying that big boobs sre best?[/QUOTE]
It *really* depends on the man. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

Me, I just prefer that they're "in proportion" to the body and fit nicely into her curves. This does not mean that only one size is acceptable for a particular height / weight / body type. It means that there's a range where I find them to be nicely attractive. Though when they hit that 'sweet spot' I do find her body to be really hard to not look at or ogle.

Very very few women do actually have non-augmented bodies that have breasts in "sweet spot" proportions.

oh my god, the girl i'm dating has the most beautiful figure. think classical goddess (think Birth of Venus or some other painting like that with just a bit less pudge). And i'm so glad she feels comfortable being naked around me. I can hardly describe what it feels like to wake up next to her, and her hop out of bed nude, looking like something blown in on a sea shell and representing the essence of love. So elating

ps: when did stick figures become attractive? all the celebrities are going anorexic now to try to look as thin as Paris Hilton when the only reason guys think she's hot is because she had sex in front of a camera. Soft with some curve is ideal.