I personally don't think there's anything wrong with either of you. I've never been all that crazy about BJs myself. Sure, it feels good and the idea is sort of kinky but it always seemed an effort to reach orgasm that way. I've been with different women through the years so I can't blame it on one particular technique. Nothing wrong with doing it the old fashioned way in my book. She did it for half an hour?? Dang!!!:eek: Just don't let her get away dude.:)

Thought about this some more. If this is something you BOTH really want to do, try this... Have her lay on her back with a couple of pillows under her head. Then, you stradle her on your knees with your penis in her mouth. This will allow you to control the speed, just don't ram it in too far or you will gag her. She can put her hands on your hips (or one on your hips and one around your shaft) to help control the depth of the strokes. I think that part of the problem for the man is not being able to control the thrusts as you are used to in normal sex and masterbating. This way you can do that. Once you are successful in this manner, she will pick up on the speed, pressure ect that it takes to make you cum and will be able to get you off in other positions. Personally, I think BJs get a lot of attention because of the Kinky/Tabboo factor and not that they are that much better feeling than normal intercourse. The pyscological effect of knowing your partner is willing to take you in her mouth is probably greater than the feeling itself. There is also the satisfaction for her in knowing she is pleaseing her man. Oh well, I digress....again.

I used to get that. It helps more if you can touch her, like holding her boobs & playing with her, more contact always helps in a situation like that.
Either that or play with your own nipples if thats what turns you on.

[QUOTE=Old Kid;166375]Thought about this some more. If this is something you BOTH really want to do, try this... Have her lay on her back with a couple of pillows under her head. Then, you stradle her on your knees with your penis in her mouth. This will allow you to control the speed, just don't ram it in too far or you will gag her. She can put her hands on your hips (or one on your hips and one around your shaft) to help control the depth of the strokes. I think that part of the problem for the man is not being able to control the thrusts as you are used to in normal sex and masterbating. This way you can do that. Once you are successful in this manner, she will pick up on the speed, pressure ect that it takes to make you cum and will be able to get you off in other positions. Personally, I think BJs get a lot of attention because of the Kinky/Tabboo factor and not that they are that much better feeling than normal intercourse. The pyscological effect of knowing your partner is willing to take you in her mouth is probably greater than the feeling itself. There is also the satisfaction for her in knowing she is pleaseing her man. Oh well, I digress....again.[/QUOTE]

Its more the action of it for me, like watching her nice full wet lips run over the head of your cock. I love watching it & it turns me on a whole lot more.

i ask him while im sucking if he is liking it, also i make "uuummm" sounds like im eating something really good. also i make sucking sounds, the wetter the better he says

one thing that he likes it when i lay on my back and he is on his knees beside me up toward my face. With one hand I suck his dick and the other I use to play with myself and he watches. He likes when I play with me and put my juice on his dick as i am giving him head.

Those are good suggestions couriousgirl. I find it very exciting when she looks up at me while she is sucking on my c**k and working it. It is exciting for her also to see me watching so intently with a big smile on my face. She also likes me to stoke myself while she continues to suck on me. Usually she will reach over and grab my hand and move it to my c**k so I can stroke myself while she continues to work on my c**k. It would be hot if she would reach down and rub herself and do some fingering. She has never done that while giving me head, but would be nice. I think I would cum quickly if she ever did that while giving me head. Don't worry about not cumming from her giving you head. It just isn't common for it to happen every time. We enjoy the foreplay and then finishing with some good f**king. Always nice to try new things.

personally, I find oral sex great fort foreplay; it really gets me ready to go. However, I've never climaxed from it, and find vaginal penetration much more satisfying in that regard. Spice it up, and find out what you both like, and when