okay, i give them to my boyfriend and sure he says he loves them. But i do it with condoms, and i really wish i could do it without one. especially now as i've started to really hate the taste of a strawberry condom! Eww!
i've tried for a while but i can't go for long. It's like a mental thing; i'v had an ex- boyfriend who would always force me to give one without a condom. is that why i'm using one with my new boyfriend? (who's great by the way!)
thing is id love him to cum in my mouth and everything, and to be able to go the full way without worrying about something....
i get further each time, but theres something still stopping me.
any comments would be great xx thanks xx
Talk to him.
here is what i do... i first lightly lick his penis all over,then i get on top and go at it a little bit and then get off quickly and suck more and i do that several times. when i suck i strat slow then get more agressive and make "sucking" sounds, i tell him that when he is ready to cum to tell me so i can go "catch" his cum and that gets him excited. if u are willing to swallow, when he gives me the warning I "jump" off and start sucking...he cums harder than usual when I do that.
sounds like you're doing the right thing - working up to it. if you force it it's not going to be good for either of you ... well maybe him but if he really cares then not lol
if you feel likes it's a big issue talk to him about it so he'll understand why you're doing what you're doing when you're down there ... and if you keep making progress i'm sure you'll reach your goal at the right time for you.
(sounded a lil Dr. Laura - sry lol)
yea i have and he's great with it, he says do what i want and theres no pressure, but i feel so stupid, i really want to be able to continue all the way....
well i kinda have the same problem .... my bf takes kinda a long time to finish through oral stimulation so after a while i finish the job manualy i've never actually gotten him off through going down on him. but he says it still feels amazing!
If he isn't 'generous' then it does gets to be a bit tedious and a pain in the neck - literally.
ive been giving this going a little longer each time thing some time and i just wanna no if anyone has any suggestions that can help me get there faster?
[QUOTE=livi hardy;164832]ive been giving this going a little longer each time thing some time and i just wanna no if anyone has any suggestions that can help me get there faster?[/QUOTE]
Please read the following Sticky post:
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job? in the NEW TO SEX forum.
Try combining oral stimulation and manual stimulation, expecially near the end when he is about to climax. This is what I refer to as the "Dynamic Duo" and is a great way to intensify what he has been enjoying up to now just from oral. Rubbing the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft) will pretty much guarantee a climax then and there.
try getting him about halfway through manual stimulation, or even start havin sex and then when he's almost there hop on off or stop using your hand and finish it off with oral. it might not work but im a guy, it's worth a shot