hey , im a un-curcumsized male . and have been with my current girlfriend for about 6 months , weve " mucked about " before , eg , oral sex / handjobs , dry humping ect , shes good at everything but im not sure if it is a mental thing or what , but i never seem to cum with her .. its worrying me . oh and yesterday she gave me head , i decided to pull back my skin so that the head was exposed , so that it would feel better when she was doing it , she continues giving me head , but the feeling was like x10 times it normally is because im not used to having my skin down , at times i had to kinda stop her because it was too like intense on me .. and she didnt get the chance to finish it off because of this .. ive told her itl take me a getting used to because my penis is always covered by my foreskin , as of now im trying to somehow stretch / get used to it , so that next time it isnt as intense that i have to stop her ... has anyone else had this problem , or know whats causing it / or even how to cure it ? .. thanks to anyone who reply's ... Mr Squirrel ![]()
Wed, 09/03/2003 - 14:03
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Blowjob Too Intense ?


Yes...over time, and becuase you're being more sexually active, it will be a bit less sensative.
To help, you should pull the forskin down while u masturbate (using lube of course) so you can start to focus on getting used to the feeling.
Also, pace and technique by your GF is important too. She can focus a bit LESS on the head of your penis, and more on the shaft, but, you should really try and just let her go on with her oral and see if you can let it pass. Enjoy it...it's a form of extacy, that, in ten years from now, you'll wish you had enjoyed while you could!
It takes time, that much I can tell you from experience.
thankyou
.. does anyone know if this will be sure to fade within time ,, is it just a matter of getting used to it ? ... or will i have to work hard trying to get my penis to numb down a bit lol .. thnx for all replys . Mr Squirrel
yes
ive read several posts from guys who are uncircumcised and say direct contact w/ the head uncovered is sometimes too much b/c it is so sensitive.