Whenever I start to give my boyfriend a blowjob, I start to gag (reflex).. is there anyway to fix this because I would like to pleasure him in the best way possible?
Thu, 01/31/2008 - 05:13
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Blowjob questions
First off...no need to double post.
Secondly, you should take the time to read around the forums before posting, since this question has been raised numerous times, and the mod has so kindly stickied these two thread right at the begining of this section...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/10844-deep_throat_101.html
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/10856-blow-job_techniques_1...
In addition to the above links, practice with an English cucumber, candlestick, or carrot. You know you can open your mouth widely without a problem so the difficulty must be that you are inserting his penis too far. You do not have to "swallow" it! The three most sensitive areas of the penis are right up front:
* The Glans as a whole
* The Corona Rim at the rear of the glans where it attaches to the shaft
* The Frenulum or "Y-shaped" ridge of skin on the underside of the penis
that extends from the cleft to the shaft
therefore you can keep the penis toward the front of your mouth and not the rear where it might contact the Uvula. Even if you do not, sometimes, just opening your mouth with something about halfway back can trigger a gag. With practice this will go away particularly if you adjust the position of the penis or mouth.
As for technique:
* moisten and keep your lips wet
* wrap them over your teeth so as not to scrape his skin. A definite no-no
* use your tongue and lips to caress his skin and take your cues for what
to do based upon his reactions
For the absolute most intense sensations, combine oral and a hand job after
he has become highly aroused from one or the other and just prior to the
triggering of his orgasm. The two will help trigger it, especially if you rub the
Frenulum with your fingers or tongue.
It is always a woman's prerogative whether or not to have a man ejaculate inside her mouth and whether or not to swallow. Whatever your decision now or later, the man has to live with this decision.
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
I hope this will help. If you have additional questions please do not hesitate to ask.
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