Sorry to disagree with you DDoc but my partner needs alot of time with me in her to achieve her volcano as she likes to call it.
Clitoral, and "G" spot big "O's" pale in comparison acording to her, and judging
by the way her vagina clamps on me I know that's time for me to enjoy the ride quickly, because she soon becomes oversensitive.
Further to the oral sex, I love to give, but just can do without getting, don't know why maybe somthing when I was younger, I'll start a thread on it somtime.

It's not easy for me to cum if I get a blowjob or a handjob. The easiest way for me is using my own hand and porn. Easy don't mean better. Sex feels the best and a blowjob is close. But that's just me.

Millie,

I have had them last all night with oral but never get past my hair when attempting vaginal; others the reverse. Sounds like you have one of latter.

I agree with Explorer.

I also aree with explorer

my b/f gets off faster with head, then sex. other then anal, he gets off quicker.

How much time are the two of you devoting to building arousa with kisses, caresses, and foreplay. There have been recent concerns on the board about the difficulty achiving an orgasm with intercourse and the reason seems to be that one or the other believes (incorrectly) that intercourse must consist of lots and lots and lots of stroking and thrusting in order to build up the man's level of sexual tension--WRONG.

This is what all the messing around first is all about. Intercourse should begin when the woman invites the man "in" and only when he is on the near brink so that it takes just a few strokes and some thrusts. If he is stroking and stroking "foreever" then the two of you are going about this backwards.

Please give us some additional information and if necessary one of us will add more comment.

I prefer a good blowjob to intercourse.

I don’t really know why either, sometimes I feel closer to my wife during oral sex, especially when I’m giving. But I do feel more aroused when she sucks me off.

I just wish she could let me cum in her mouth, not necessarily for her to swallow just the feeling I experience when I ejaculate into her warm mouth when her lips are around my head.

It’s awesome!

I just prefer head…

I'd say that it makes sense he cums easier with a BJ because of simple logic.

With a BJ all attention is focused on him.

Of course all generalities are false; there have been a few posts by guys who find it difficulty to cum from a BJ (perhaps for the same reason - it feels too "selfish" to merely receive).

Same with Explorer's technique, all attention is on self and self has total control of the process.

It might be important to remember that "easier" does not mean "better."

i prefer a guy to cum in/on my face than in me. i have never had a problem with a guy not cumming during a bj.

I am just the opposite. It is much easier for me to cum having intercourse than receiving a bj. But I think this just stems from the fact that for the first 10 years of marriage, my wife didn't want me to cum in her mouth. I did once and she hurried and spit it out and that kind of ruined the love session. Then the oral from her slowed way down. So since then when receiving a bj, I was always careful to switch positions and have intercourse if I was getting ready to cum. So now even when she wants me to cum in her mouth, it is hard for me to relax enough to allow it to happen. For some reason now, she is more willing to have me cum in her mouth and even wants it.

Earlier this summer we were sitting on the couch in our condo and she moved over and pulled my penis out and started to suck and work it. It was an aggresive move on her part which she usually doesn't do. So I just sat back and enjoyed the action. She even moved my hand over so I could stroke myself while she continued to work my penis with her mouth. I could tell that she was turned on by watching me stroke myself at the same time she was giving me oral. Well I was just relaxed and just went with the whole experience and let her take me all the way. I warned her that I was going to cum and she just kept her mouth on me and let me know it was allright to cum. Once I did ejaculate, she just took it all and swallowed it. She even pumped me to get every last drop and swallowed all of it. I was so surprised but loved how she did it. Since then she has been giving me more oral and even though most of the time we don't finish with oral, there are times she will and then just swallow what comes out. So it is getting easier for me to enjoy a bj all the way now.

[QUOTE=razorface;149587]Sorry to disagree with you DDoc but my partner needs alot of time with me in her to achieve her volcano as she likes to call it.[/QUOTE]

We have no disagreement on this fact; however, my reply was for the the opposite scenario about which this thread was created.

[QUOTE=Millie;148005]Well, what my boyfriend says is that it is easier for him to cum when I give him a blowjob than when we have sex.
Anyone else feel that way?[/QUOTE]

I love a deep throat BJ waaaaay better than any other sex. Nothing better

I had a hard time cumming in her mouth because of how long it takes me so I got her off first and then I would feel better about it and liked it better then sex.

I cum alot quicker through sex than a bj.
My gf has had to stop before because her jaw was hurting.
Then we had sex and I was done in like 3minutes :)

To me, nothing beats a good blowjob well done - and have to admit only my current gf has brought me to such level of bliss, which I've described in reply to another post. But I am easy, really. I'm happy with what pleases my partner, and I think (hope?) she also is. I consider we have a good and fulfilling sex life, only problem being not frequent enough (re: long distance).

my boyfriend also like bjs more than sex. it kinda disapoints me. lol. i would rather have sex than give him a bj.. i mean i dont mind doing it, but when its all he wants its crappy.

Let's face it Guy's do Cum Very Quick, I've found it a good practice to give a BJ first, than later there a lot more Passion, and it last longer than a nanosecond.

Another good reason in giving a good BJ is in the giving something other than handing him a Valium. :rolleyes:

I don't Feel that a Guy should have to demand anything from You, it should be given with the Freedom from You. :)

But if He is a Jerk, than hand him a Valium, and go find Someone who Respects Your Feelings. :cool:

btw! [COLOR="blue">I Enjoy Giving BJ's[/COLOR] , without hang-ups, guess I'm Addicted :p to my Own Desires

Blowjob better that sex !!!
The question is like you want a mouth or whole body. Obviously both.
Blowjob is a part of sex. Seeing your partner take your malehood in her mouth is satisfying. Also her warm mouth and tongue movement, lip movement is funny and sends tickling sensations. Her sucking movement is almost absent in vaginal fucking. Most funny is her hair sliding on my cock and legs when she on top. That makes me more aroused.
But fucking a vagina or hand job is quicker than blowjob.
I think both are essential.

This depends on so many things its ridiculous.

My husband not only finds it easier to cum while inside of me, he prefers it. He loves a blow job but after a few minutes he usually stops me so he can get inside me when he cums. He says the orgasm is more powerful that way.

As a practical matter, my last girlfriend would have me penetrate her vagina. If I hadn't cum by the time she was satisfied (more often than not the case), she'd offer to finish me off with her mouth. That never failed to do the trick.

Prefer a blowjob to sex? A blowjob is sex. It's of the variety called oral sex. Sometimes I prefer a blowjob to coitus. Sometimes I reach orgasm faster with a BJ- when it is properly done.