Another tip would be to get a mirror and put it behind u as ur giving a blowjob that way he can see your body and wat ur doing at the same time some guy think this is a turn on
help never done this at all but want to learn when i have head in mouth suck and lick do i take more in or will he come if i just suck the head and play with him?
[QUOTE=mindeye2;255347]Alright, this site has helped a lot already. Im a virgin, but my current BF is the furtest i've gone with a guy. He's fingered and given me oral, and i've only given him a hj once, but he stopped me, i dont think i used enough lube >> i tried to use a lot though. (he says it was the best one he'd ever gottn ><) but i'd like to give him a bj. I hear surprising a guy is nice, but i wanna make sure. I've nevr done things liek this before, so im at a loss. lol. help, plz thnx. note me if you'd like
thankx in advance ^^[/QUOTE]
so, surprising him is really nice. but at the beginning, don't feel like you need to rush things. despite how you hear guys talk, they might be a bit shy as they learn the ropes, so to speak.
if he stopped you during a handjob, then he might be a bit shy, or at least a bit unsure of what is happening. if this is the case, then surprising him might not get the reaction you want. if you really want to, just let things go with the flow and progress naturally.
and though it might be hard to talk about this stuff together - another approach could be to tell him you want to give him a blowjob. guys generally love to know they are going to get a blowjob, but as you two are starting out, take things slow, SAFELY and comfortably
Slow, soft and wet is the best for me. not into getting deep throat action, use mouthe on top half of penis and use hand on lower half. I always have a more fullfilling orgasm if i withdraw before i cum. I guess my bell end is too sensitive .
Something that always makes a good blowjob is a smile. Smile at your lover as you start out with a few wet licks of the head while you are gripping the base, giggle and see him smile back at you.
This lets him know you are enjoying it and are happy to give him this gift, and without changing anything else in your technique, this will make your blowjob so much hotter. If you love it, then so will he!!;)
When I do this for my boyfriend, I always use the tip of my tongue and apply pressure on the underside of the head. Where that little ridge is? If you have any clue what I'm talking about...it's hard to explain...but my b/f LOVES it....
(Edited by WannaBKinky at 5:48 pm on Sep. 5, 2002)[/QUOTE]
i tried Basic Fellatio on him for the first time last night and he went crazy the only twist i put on it was i used a silk black scarf and blindfolded him added a little cold whipped cream i usually do not perform oral sex for too long but the way he groaned as i sucked and licked his balls really turned me on and i couldnt stop it is true when you concentrated on their neck and inner thighs last night i saw a new side of him i even fucked him while he was blindfolded he nearly went mad he couldnt move efter he ejaculated
Oh wow!! Tks that's gonna be my homework tonight!!! I usually start with the shaging,then in my mouth,but I feel like I'm choking myself!!! I'll try play around with it (like you said)
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I agree with Parstor. I prefer to make sure my man is propped up on pillows or in a chair with me kneeling, so I can watch him enjoying it. It also gives him a better view so he's not straining his neck to watch. I used to be very against oral until I saw what a good hand job could do for a guy. And ladies, swallowing isn't a bad thing either! 1- no mess to clean up 2- he'll most likely love you for it! I also dig the fact that he doesn't mind kissing me after the fact either, just as I kiss him after he's been down on me. And he loves the fact that I'm toothless ^.- Good for him that bad teeth run in my family and I had to have them pulled a few years ago haha. But if u still have teeth, and hes too big so you are scraping, focus on his head and licking the shaft while you use your hand(s) to pump the shaft and play with his balls. I also find that gentle sucking of the scrotum is enjoyable by most men.
[QUOTE=Stephanie083099;91382]Everyone is different, not every guy likes it the same way, the advice that I can give to you is be careful of your teeth, it hurts them a lot, try to keep them away, you can put your tongue in front to avoid that. Do variety, some guys like their balls licked sucked, some like the tip of their penis sucked played with, licked, Do variety and by his reaction you will know what he likes. Or you can just ask him what he likes.[/QUOTE]
I have a friend with benefits who has a very active gag reflex. I also found mints for her (these mints that have the same active ingredient as sore throat spray. She sucked the mint and sucked me. Not only did she take me in without gagging, but I lasted longer too (the mint and penis were in the mouth at the same time).
[QUOTE=chrisInMs;260174]poking sounds painful, but slowly slinging your tongue into the slit of the glans... ooh baby![/QUOTE]
That's what i'm talking about,gently poking my tongue into the slit and teasing him till he begs me to stop,or comes in my mouth.:D
(Edited by WannaBKinky at 5:48 pm on Sep. 5, 2002)[/QUOTE]
While first getting started, you can get him really excited by gently licking his penis all over. *Sometimes, to keep him from getting too spoiled, I'll just do that and then switch to a hand job or let him finish himself. *If you move onto the real deal, it's good to mix it up a little. *Some good techniques are: a very quick up and down motion; flicking under the head with the tongue; *sucking just the head very hard; and of course, the big winner, DT. *Throughout all of this most guys will like it if you play with or even suck on their balls (only problem there is that there's no way I know of to protect from STDs). *
STDs? Nothing wrong with using a dry condom for doing a blowjob. Any responsible prostitute would insist upon that and so should other responsible women until trust is established = a stable, monogamous relationship. Almost every disease that can be transmitted genitally can also be transmitted in oral-genital contact.
I start by licking his Navel down.. i lick around his thighs till I reach is Scrotum, I kiss and lick his balls till he moans good enough for me then I lick and kiss the shaft. once I have him squearming I insert into my mouth I than softly Lick kiss and suck the head inserting more and more into my mouth I than suck with my lips and massage with my hand when he says he's about to cum I stop dead in my tracks to ready for penetration because I like his Penis as hard as I can get him and We go allll night :) the Husband Loves it
There is no right or wrong way to do it.Whatever the giver feels comfortable with and you can usually tell if you are getting the receiver aroused and near climax by their reaction.Try to switch it up by alternating a b/j & h/j and alternating between the scrotum and shaft.Finishing off with a gentle poke with your tongue in the hole in the head of his penis and a hard lick or sucking on his frenulum underneath to make him climax.
[QUOTE=Aphrodite_66;262057]There is no right or wrong way to do it.Whatever the giver feels comfortable with...Try to switch it up by alternating a b/j & h/j and alternating between the scrotum and shaft.Finishing off with a gentle poke with your tongue in the hole in the head of his penis and a hard lick or sucking on his frenulum underneath to make him climax.[/QUOTE]
Actually there is a wrong way. Not all men like the same things. I would say that it is actually better to go with what the receiver feels comfortable with. Pretty much all of us need to have the frenulum attended to in order to reach orgasm, but many men dislike having manual stimulation of the penis during what should be a BJ as it desensitizes the penis making it less enjoyable for him and more work for her to get him off. I find the tongue in the hole thing very unpleasant myself.
Experiment, get feedback. Find out what is good for your guy and focus on that trying to do it better every time. Allow him to give you instruction. Do not be offended if he tells you to not do something or to do something different.
want to get a good video to learn techniques for how to give a g
I have been searching on the internet because I am a visual learner and need to see what I am supposssed to do. I have found books rather expensive but I do not want to expend the money in something that is not clear enough for me. I am not new to bj but I know i am not that good at it and I really want to please my hubby....
I wonder if anyone has a good sort of educational video to suggest.
Carminante, The best way to learn is to ask your hubby how does he feels. With my experience I know every man has his own fantasy and feel good with certain way and technique.
Just ask him wat he like and do the same. All books, sites may be just guidelines.
1) start off with the balls, licking and teasing. I like to start licking from the perineum, over the line between the sacs and up the underside of the penis, flicking when I reach the head
2) My husband enjoys a technique I learned from an article where you grasp the penis firmly and then using the FLAT of your tongue, run it over the head. It's very sensitive and this sensation can be overly stimulative but if done right it makes him go bonkers!!!
3) Use your neck and body to change the angle while changing the intensity of the sucking
4) Use your tongue to play with the head and the underside of the shaft when deepthroating
5) Make noise! Humming creates a slight vibration that some guys enjoy (my husband thinks its weird for me to be humming when doing it lol). My hubby is a little on the small side so he likes it when I pretend to gag (well.... he doesnt KNOW I'm pretending, but they don't need to know lol)
I'm under the impression that it's the head that holds the most feeling. So I try to use every part of my mouth to caress and massage it all the time. Also, that little "string" right below the head underneath is a really sensitive spot, if it's treated carefully. I have a piercing that does wonders with that spot, and if I keep the head massaged and tickled with my tongue, the roof of my mouth (witch is ridged for his pleasure), my lips and, very carefully, my teeth, he usually has a nice time. How fast and how much variation I work in to it depends on how this particular guy responds to what I do to him. I love to give a great blow-job, and his body and breathing almost always tells me what to do to give him what he wants.
(Edited by WannaBKinky at 5:48 pm on Sep. 5, 2002)[/QUOTE]
I seem to be pretty good at that. *This is unfortunate, because I don't really like doing it. *Maybe I should start "accidentally" using my teeth or something.
I really like it when my girl sucks the head of my penis. Then slowly engulfs it with her mouth. Twirling her tongue around the shaft drives me crazy. Finally right when I feel I am about to ejaculate she finishes me off with a combination of hand motion and the flicking of her tongue on the tip.
[QUOTE=caminante;262611]I have been searching on the internet because I am a visual learner and need to see what I am supposssed to do. I have found books rather expensive but I do not want to expend the money in something that is not clear enough for me. I am not new to bj but I know i am not that good at it and I really want to please my hubby....
I wonder if anyone has a good sort of educational video to suggest.
my bf like what i do really well...first i start kissing and biting but not hard starting from his head down then, i use two hands and start to jack him off then i start sucking his dick.....i really cnt say what i do but i make him cum in a heart beat
Its amazing tips and suggestions that all of you have posted about lovely sex.
here is one from my side thts is quite important, I feel, to get the act rite.
Tip: Get urself and the lover read this forum tips together !!! Its just amzing experience after that :)
Once they experience tits fuck, they love their dick sandwiched by big boobs during the blow job. That's why a sex toy like Busty Aichan was created. lol.
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[QUOTE=obama493;266515]I seem to be pretty good at that. *This is unfortunate, because I don't really like doing it. *Maybe I should start "accidentally" using my teeth or something.[/QUOTE]
Ha! It doesn't have to be your "go to" move in sex -- save it for special occasions. That's what I do - maybe a dozen a year. Definitely takes the pressure off when he's not expecting it every time we have sex. And I started using Masque Sexual Flavors so I don't have to deal with the taste and it helps with my gag reflex. Pretty easy then.
sorry if this has been mentioned before, but i couldn't work out how to search the thread and i don't really want to read all 40 pages haha.
anyway i have a lot of problems with my teeth touching him when i go down on a guy... what's the trick to avoiding that? the first guy i properly gave head too didn't say anything about it and i don't think it was an issue at all. but the other guy that i'm sleeping with now is a LOT bigger - which is part of the problem i think - and constantly complains about it (although it may have something to do with the fact that i've usually been drinking when we hook up and he always just kind of pushes me down there when i don't even realise). i'm pretty sure i don't have abnormally large teeth or anything lol but i find it difficult.
> i have a lot of problems with my teeth touching him when i go down on a guy... what's the trick to avoiding that?
1. Wrap your lips over your teeth so that he slips between your moist lips.
2. Drop your jaw so that your mouth is open fairly wide and pucker a bit.
> the first guy i properly gave head too didn't say anything about it and i don't think it was an issue at all. but the other guy that i'm sleeping with now is a LOT bigger - which is part of the problem i think - and constantly complains about it (although it may have something to do with the fact that i've usually been drinking when we hook up and he always just kind of pushes me down there when i don't even realise). i'm pretty sure i don't have abnormally large teeth or anything lol but i find it difficult.
As noted, it is not the size of your teeth or his penis, rather what touches his skin.
I really love pleasing my man and giving head has always been one of my specialties. Unfortunately (weirdly enough) has got a rather large penis in length and girth which has made oral sex a real pain, literally! I can barely fit him in my mouth and when I when it comes to deep throating or sucking for more than 30 seconds and a time my jaw seriously aches and has actually locked. Not to mention the inside of my lips are all bitten because of the pressure of my teeth digging into them from trying to stop teeth to penis contact. I really don't want to stop giving oral. Does anyone have a solution??
[QUOTE=Muggy;272653]Kudos to anyone who can help me solve this one:
I really love pleasing my man and giving head has always been one of my specialties. Unfortunately (weirdly enough) has got a rather large penis in length and girth which has made oral sex a real pain, literally! I can barely fit him in my mouth and when I when it comes to deep throating or sucking for more than 30 seconds and a time my jaw seriously aches and has actually locked. Not to mention the inside of my lips are all bitten because of the pressure of my teeth digging into them from trying to stop teeth to penis contact. I really don't want to stop giving oral. Does anyone have a solution??[/QUOTE]
What a lucky man you have. I wish my wife would feel the way you do. She won't give oral sex without a condom on and even then is not crazy about it. So, the way I make up for the thrill is by jerking myself off and trying to cum in my own mouth while she watches. It is a thrill for me. Do any of you women have a problem with your man doing this? I'm curious to know. My wife thinks its gross but she is willing to watch me swallow cause she knows it turns me on.
[QUOTE=vette1963;91365]Any Woman have any special methods or tecniques they care to share with the board?[/QUOTE]
try not to go into it quickly, play with it, tease him take your tongue wrap it around and play with the tip, spit on it make it wet, rub it up and down then slowly go over it with your mouth deep throat, guys do like gagging sometimes, then give them a hand job and bj at the same time, lick the balls but most of all speed is the answer! oh one more thing I love to tap his dick on my mouth then slurp up his cum. YUM!:)
[QUOTE=sexgoddess1;273466]try not to go into it quickly, play with it, tease him take your tongue wrap it around and play with the tip, spit on it make it wet, rub it up and down then slowly go over it with your mouth deep throat, guys do like gagging sometimes, then give them a hand job and bj at the same time, lick the balls but most of all speed is the answer! oh one more thing I love to tap his dick on my mouth then slurp up his cum. YUM!:)[/QUOTE]
trust me for all the cocks ive sucked im known as the pro....not bein to cocky just i know what the hell the man wants and i like givin to him!!:D
ya .. just got to imagine it!!
[QUOTE=roomier;255609]Not getting hot here (Well a little).. Just getting it off the chest.. Feels good!![/QUOTE]
its gud to get opinions on things :)
ya.. First for me!!
yeh and me :)
Nice to to be the only ones!!
yeh makes a change for me anyway
Another tip would be to get a mirror and put it behind u as ur giving a blowjob that way he can see your body and wat ur doing at the same time some guy think this is a turn on
help never done this at all but want to learn when i have head in mouth suck and lick do i take more in or will he come if i just suck the head and play with him?
[QUOTE=mindeye2;255347]Alright, this site has helped a lot already. Im a virgin, but my current BF is the furtest i've gone with a guy. He's fingered and given me oral, and i've only given him a hj once, but he stopped me, i dont think i used enough lube >> i tried to use a lot though. (he says it was the best one he'd ever gottn ><) but i'd like to give him a bj. I hear surprising a guy is nice, but i wanna make sure. I've nevr done things liek this before, so im at a loss. lol. help, plz thnx. note me if you'd like
thankx in advance ^^[/QUOTE]
so, surprising him is really nice. but at the beginning, don't feel like you need to rush things. despite how you hear guys talk, they might be a bit shy as they learn the ropes, so to speak.
if he stopped you during a handjob, then he might be a bit shy, or at least a bit unsure of what is happening. if this is the case, then surprising him might not get the reaction you want. if you really want to, just let things go with the flow and progress naturally.
and though it might be hard to talk about this stuff together - another approach could be to tell him you want to give him a blowjob. guys generally love to know they are going to get a blowjob, but as you two are starting out, take things slow, SAFELY and comfortably
Slow, soft and wet is the best for me. not into getting deep throat action, use mouthe on top half of penis and use hand on lower half. I always have a more fullfilling orgasm if i withdraw before i cum. I guess my bell end is too sensitive .
Thanks a ton parstor ^^
Wow, great tips, as a new member I appreciate the help. I really like to make my man happy.
Something that always makes a good blowjob is a smile. Smile at your lover as you start out with a few wet licks of the head while you are gripping the base, giggle and see him smile back at you.
This lets him know you are enjoying it and are happy to give him this gift, and without changing anything else in your technique, this will make your blowjob so much hotter. If you love it, then so will he!!;)
When I do this for my boyfriend, I always use the tip of my tongue and apply pressure on the underside of the head. Where that little ridge is? If you have any clue what I'm talking about...it's hard to explain...but my b/f LOVES it....
[QUOTE=WannaBKinky;91371]Try this link!
http://www.angelfire.com/or3/goodhead/
Great Fellatio Tips!
(Edited by WannaBKinky at 5:48 pm on Sep. 5, 2002)[/QUOTE]
i tried Basic Fellatio on him for the first time last night and he went crazy the only twist i put on it was i used a silk black scarf and blindfolded him added a little cold whipped cream i usually do not perform oral sex for too long but the way he groaned as i sucked and licked his balls really turned me on and i couldnt stop it is true when you concentrated on their neck and inner thighs last night i saw a new side of him i even fucked him while he was blindfolded he nearly went mad he couldnt move efter he ejaculated
Oh wow!! Tks that's gonna be my homework tonight!!! I usually start with the shaging,then in my mouth,but I feel like I'm choking myself!!! I'll try play around with it (like you said)
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I agree with Parstor. I prefer to make sure my man is propped up on pillows or in a chair with me kneeling, so I can watch him enjoying it. It also gives him a better view so he's not straining his neck to watch. I used to be very against oral until I saw what a good hand job could do for a guy. And ladies, swallowing isn't a bad thing either! 1- no mess to clean up 2- he'll most likely love you for it! I also dig the fact that he doesn't mind kissing me after the fact either, just as I kiss him after he's been down on me. And he loves the fact that I'm toothless ^.- Good for him that bad teeth run in my family and I had to have them pulled a few years ago haha. But if u still have teeth, and hes too big so you are scraping, focus on his head and licking the shaft while you use your hand(s) to pump the shaft and play with his balls. I also find that gentle sucking of the scrotum is enjoyable by most men.
[QUOTE=Stephanie083099;91382]Everyone is different, not every guy likes it the same way, the advice that I can give to you is be careful of your teeth, it hurts them a lot, try to keep them away, you can put your tongue in front to avoid that. Do variety, some guys like their balls licked sucked, some like the tip of their penis sucked played with, licked, Do variety and by his reaction you will know what he likes. Or you can just ask him what he likes.[/QUOTE]
So true! I have a very sensitive penis.
I have a friend with benefits who has a very active gag reflex. I also found mints for her (these mints that have the same active ingredient as sore throat spray. She sucked the mint and sucked me. Not only did she take me in without gagging, but I lasted longer too (the mint and penis were in the mouth at the same time).
Just a thought.
my man likes it when i lick the glans and poke my tongue in it
[QUOTE=raunchy gal;260155]my man likes it when i lick the glans and poke my tongue in it[/QUOTE]
poking sounds painful, but slowly slinging your tongue into the slit of the glans... ooh baby!
[QUOTE=chrisInMs;260174]poking sounds painful, but slowly slinging your tongue into the slit of the glans... ooh baby![/QUOTE]
That's what i'm talking about,gently poking my tongue into the slit and teasing him till he begs me to stop,or comes in my mouth.:D
[QUOTE=WannaBKinky;91371]Try this link!
http://www.angelfire.com/or3/goodhead/
Great Fellatio Tips!
(Edited by WannaBKinky at 5:48 pm on Sep. 5, 2002)[/QUOTE]
While first getting started, you can get him really excited by gently licking his penis all over. *Sometimes, to keep him from getting too spoiled, I'll just do that and then switch to a hand job or let him finish himself. *If you move onto the real deal, it's good to mix it up a little. *Some good techniques are: a very quick up and down motion; flicking under the head with the tongue; *sucking just the head very hard; and of course, the big winner, DT. *Throughout all of this most guys will like it if you play with or even suck on their balls (only problem there is that there's no way I know of to protect from STDs). *
STDs? Nothing wrong with using a dry condom for doing a blowjob. Any responsible prostitute would insist upon that and so should other responsible women until trust is established = a stable, monogamous relationship. Almost every disease that can be transmitted genitally can also be transmitted in oral-genital contact.
I start by licking his Navel down.. i lick around his thighs till I reach is Scrotum, I kiss and lick his balls till he moans good enough for me then I lick and kiss the shaft. once I have him squearming I insert into my mouth I than softly Lick kiss and suck the head inserting more and more into my mouth I than suck with my lips and massage with my hand when he says he's about to cum I stop dead in my tracks to ready for penetration because I like his Penis as hard as I can get him and We go allll night :) the Husband Loves it
I found this really helpful! Its a slideshare presentation on tips and tricks, my boyfriend loves that I found it.
Mind Blowing Blow Jobs
There is no right or wrong way to do it.Whatever the giver feels comfortable with and you can usually tell if you are getting the receiver aroused and near climax by their reaction.Try to switch it up by alternating a b/j & h/j and alternating between the scrotum and shaft.Finishing off with a gentle poke with your tongue in the hole in the head of his penis and a hard lick or sucking on his frenulum underneath to make him climax.
[QUOTE=Aphrodite_66;262057]There is no right or wrong way to do it.Whatever the giver feels comfortable with...Try to switch it up by alternating a b/j & h/j and alternating between the scrotum and shaft.Finishing off with a gentle poke with your tongue in the hole in the head of his penis and a hard lick or sucking on his frenulum underneath to make him climax.[/QUOTE]
Actually there is a wrong way. Not all men like the same things. I would say that it is actually better to go with what the receiver feels comfortable with. Pretty much all of us need to have the frenulum attended to in order to reach orgasm, but many men dislike having manual stimulation of the penis during what should be a BJ as it desensitizes the penis making it less enjoyable for him and more work for her to get him off. I find the tongue in the hole thing very unpleasant myself.
Experiment, get feedback. Find out what is good for your guy and focus on that trying to do it better every time. Allow him to give you instruction. Do not be offended if he tells you to not do something or to do something different.
I have been searching on the internet because I am a visual learner and need to see what I am supposssed to do. I have found books rather expensive but I do not want to expend the money in something that is not clear enough for me. I am not new to bj but I know i am not that good at it and I really want to please my hubby....
I wonder if anyone has a good sort of educational video to suggest.
Thanks!:)
Carminante, The best way to learn is to ask your hubby how does he feels. With my experience I know every man has his own fantasy and feel good with certain way and technique.
Just ask him wat he like and do the same. All books, sites may be just guidelines.
OK, I LOVE fellatio so here I go:
1) start off with the balls, licking and teasing. I like to start licking from the perineum, over the line between the sacs and up the underside of the penis, flicking when I reach the head
2) My husband enjoys a technique I learned from an article where you grasp the penis firmly and then using the FLAT of your tongue, run it over the head. It's very sensitive and this sensation can be overly stimulative but if done right it makes him go bonkers!!!
3) Use your neck and body to change the angle while changing the intensity of the sucking
4) Use your tongue to play with the head and the underside of the shaft when deepthroating
5) Make noise! Humming creates a slight vibration that some guys enjoy (my husband thinks its weird for me to be humming when doing it lol). My hubby is a little on the small side so he likes it when I pretend to gag (well.... he doesnt KNOW I'm pretending, but they don't need to know lol)
I'm under the impression that it's the head that holds the most feeling. So I try to use every part of my mouth to caress and massage it all the time. Also, that little "string" right below the head underneath is a really sensitive spot, if it's treated carefully. I have a piercing that does wonders with that spot, and if I keep the head massaged and tickled with my tongue, the roof of my mouth (witch is ridged for his pleasure), my lips and, very carefully, my teeth, he usually has a nice time. How fast and how much variation I work in to it depends on how this particular guy responds to what I do to him. I love to give a great blow-job, and his body and breathing almost always tells me what to do to give him what he wants.
wow! where can i find women like you ;)
[QUOTE=WannaBKinky;91371]Try this link!
http://www.angelfire.com/or3/goodhead/
Great Fellatio Tips!
(Edited by WannaBKinky at 5:48 pm on Sep. 5, 2002)[/QUOTE]
I seem to be pretty good at that. *This is unfortunate, because I don't really like doing it. *Maybe I should start "accidentally" using my teeth or something.
I really like it when my girl sucks the head of my penis. Then slowly engulfs it with her mouth. Twirling her tongue around the shaft drives me crazy. Finally right when I feel I am about to ejaculate she finishes me off with a combination of hand motion and the flicking of her tongue on the tip.
[QUOTE=caminante;262611]I have been searching on the internet because I am a visual learner and need to see what I am supposssed to do. I have found books rather expensive but I do not want to expend the money in something that is not clear enough for me. I am not new to bj but I know i am not that good at it and I really want to please my hubby....
I wonder if anyone has a good sort of educational video to suggest.
Thanks!:)[/QUOTE]
caminante this a site i think you will enjoy. these videos are edited very well and are tasteful
[url=http://www.theartofblowjob.com/tour.html]The Art of Blowjob Sensual Videos
if you want to see some videos she posted for free
[url=http://www.pornhub.com/users/MadBlanket]MadBlanket's Profile - Pornhub.com
I like women with a good blow job techniques
my bf like what i do really well...first i start kissing and biting but not hard starting from his head down then, i use two hands and start to jack him off then i start sucking his dick.....i really cnt say what i do but i make him cum in a heart beat
Guys and Girls,
Its amazing tips and suggestions that all of you have posted about lovely sex.
here is one from my side thts is quite important, I feel, to get the act rite.
Tip: Get urself and the lover read this forum tips together !!! Its just amzing experience after that :)
I really love to suck dick. Aside from sucking dick, what do men loved the most
Once they experience tits fuck, they love their dick sandwiched by big boobs during the blow job. That's why a sex toy like Busty Aichan was created. lol.
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[QUOTE=obama493;266515]I seem to be pretty good at that. *This is unfortunate, because I don't really like doing it. *Maybe I should start "accidentally" using my teeth or something.[/QUOTE]
Ha! It doesn't have to be your "go to" move in sex -- save it for special occasions. That's what I do - maybe a dozen a year. Definitely takes the pressure off when he's not expecting it every time we have sex. And I started using Masque Sexual Flavors so I don't have to deal with the taste and it helps with my gag reflex. Pretty easy then.
sorry if this has been mentioned before, but i couldn't work out how to search the thread and i don't really want to read all 40 pages haha.
anyway i have a lot of problems with my teeth touching him when i go down on a guy... what's the trick to avoiding that? the first guy i properly gave head too didn't say anything about it and i don't think it was an issue at all. but the other guy that i'm sleeping with now is a LOT bigger - which is part of the problem i think - and constantly complains about it (although it may have something to do with the fact that i've usually been drinking when we hook up and he always just kind of pushes me down there when i don't even realise). i'm pretty sure i don't have abnormally large teeth or anything lol but i find it difficult.
> i have a lot of problems with my teeth touching him when i go down on a guy... what's the trick to avoiding that?
1. Wrap your lips over your teeth so that he slips between your moist lips.
2. Drop your jaw so that your mouth is open fairly wide and pucker a bit.
> the first guy i properly gave head too didn't say anything about it and i don't think it was an issue at all. but the other guy that i'm sleeping with now is a LOT bigger - which is part of the problem i think - and constantly complains about it (although it may have something to do with the fact that i've usually been drinking when we hook up and he always just kind of pushes me down there when i don't even realise). i'm pretty sure i don't have abnormally large teeth or anything lol but i find it difficult.
As noted, it is not the size of your teeth or his penis, rather what touches his skin.
Kudos to anyone who can help me solve this one:
I really love pleasing my man and giving head has always been one of my specialties. Unfortunately (weirdly enough) has got a rather large penis in length and girth which has made oral sex a real pain, literally! I can barely fit him in my mouth and when I when it comes to deep throating or sucking for more than 30 seconds and a time my jaw seriously aches and has actually locked. Not to mention the inside of my lips are all bitten because of the pressure of my teeth digging into them from trying to stop teeth to penis contact. I really don't want to stop giving oral. Does anyone have a solution??
[QUOTE=Muggy;272653]Kudos to anyone who can help me solve this one:
I really love pleasing my man and giving head has always been one of my specialties. Unfortunately (weirdly enough) has got a rather large penis in length and girth which has made oral sex a real pain, literally! I can barely fit him in my mouth and when I when it comes to deep throating or sucking for more than 30 seconds and a time my jaw seriously aches and has actually locked. Not to mention the inside of my lips are all bitten because of the pressure of my teeth digging into them from trying to stop teeth to penis contact. I really don't want to stop giving oral. Does anyone have a solution??[/QUOTE]
What a lucky man you have. I wish my wife would feel the way you do. She won't give oral sex without a condom on and even then is not crazy about it. So, the way I make up for the thrill is by jerking myself off and trying to cum in my own mouth while she watches. It is a thrill for me. Do any of you women have a problem with your man doing this? I'm curious to know. My wife thinks its gross but she is willing to watch me swallow cause she knows it turns me on.
have you ever tried licking up the semen, it taste like some real erotic juice.
Yes I do. I enjoy swallowing my own cum, especially if I'm being watched.
[QUOTE=vette1963;91365]Any Woman have any special methods or tecniques they care to share with the board?[/QUOTE]
try not to go into it quickly, play with it, tease him take your tongue wrap it around and play with the tip, spit on it make it wet, rub it up and down then slowly go over it with your mouth deep throat, guys do like gagging sometimes, then give them a hand job and bj at the same time, lick the balls but most of all speed is the answer! oh one more thing I love to tap his dick on my mouth then slurp up his cum. YUM!:)
[QUOTE=sexgoddess1;273466]try not to go into it quickly, play with it, tease him take your tongue wrap it around and play with the tip, spit on it make it wet, rub it up and down then slowly go over it with your mouth deep throat, guys do like gagging sometimes, then give them a hand job and bj at the same time, lick the balls but most of all speed is the answer! oh one more thing I love to tap his dick on my mouth then slurp up his cum. YUM!:)[/QUOTE]
trust me for all the cocks ive sucked im known as the pro....not bein to cocky just i know what the hell the man wants and i like givin to him!!:D
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