i've given my bf a few bj's but as he was about to cum i switched to hand stimulation because i'm a bit scared of him cumming in my mouth, i have never tasted semen and i'm not quite sure how to react or what to expect. i was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions or advice to give.
Sun, 01/14/2007 - 19:49
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blow job???
thank you all for the advice, i didnt know about putting your tongue against the roof of your mouth. i'm a bit less nervous now!
i assume it tastes salty, but then again i've never had some in mine mounth. (lol) eitherway you do not want to try then you simple tell him you are not alright with the whole thing and otherwise the only option to see how it actually is is to try it i gues, the same like eating something for the first time lol
You have options. It is up to you whether or not to remove his penis before he climaxes, or, let him do it; and, if you do, whether or not to swallow or deposit the semen in a tissue, later.
If you do not want him to ejaculate in your mouth, then let him know that this is your limit on oral sex. He'll have to respect your decision.
If you want him to ejaculate in your mouth, then raise the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth so that the semen will squirt against the bottom surface and not fly back possibly gagging you.
If you want to swallow, then sip some water or soda or wine along with the semen as you do.
Semen does taste a bit salty, but so do french fries! Besides, if he is healthy then there is noting unsanitary about it. Semen has a few calories and a protein or two, also. The fluid is an acquired taste, just like a woman's vaginal mucus is an acquired taste.
Some tastes saltier than other and some have no taste at all. It is only about 10cc of actual fluid and it is mostly protein. If he's clean then it is okay to feed off of him. Makes a change.
if you want to "try before you buy" let him cum and then taste a little bit.... means you won't be totally shocked at the taste later!
Totally normal to be a bit flustered about it at first and not know what to expect. I'd suggest talking to your boyfriend, letting him know that you've never tasted semen before and that you're a bit scared. He should know so he could be thoughtful of it. Then you need to decide if you want to let him ejaculate in your mouth or not. It's up to you, like someone here said, and if it's your decision not to, then he will have to respect it. However, if you would like to try, here's what I did: I was a bit scared of the ejaculation itself, as in the gagging, so I took it slowly. At first I let him ejaculate, used hand stimulation, but kept my head close, and then licked him clean (which he loved). Later I kept my mouth on him until he started ejaculating and then put the tip of my tongue to the roof of my mouth to keep from gagging, keeping my mouth on the head of his penis, and then putting the semen in a tissue. The next time I tried swallowing a bit. Now I swallow if I want to, sometimes, and sometimes put the semen in a tissue, but he likes ejaculating in my mouth, and I know it makes him feel good, and I don't mind it--so I do it.
Tell your boyfriend your concerns and that you want to try; ask him to tell you when he's close. Then just try it and see what you're comfortable with. And remember to take it slow, giving head is something you get more comfortable with as you do it, or at least I did, and communication is important too (I know when I let my boyfriend know I'm struggling with it a bit, but still want to try, he really appreciated me trying and working on it). :)
[QUOTE=bryrw06;162910]if you want to "try before you buy" let him cum and then taste a little bit.... means you won't be totally shocked at the taste later![/QUOTE]
This is exactly how I did it and decided I didn’t like the taste of it in my mouth…He is ok with a BJ that ends in a hand job
Really not that much to be worried about. Just try it and see if you like it or no.
Tongue against the roof of your mouth> No no deep throat him that way it is past your taste buds entirely - no taste at all!