Okay what is your issue here? Why are you going ick like that? Penises are quite nice actually, and a lot of fun. But no bj's for you until you like it because he can tell if you don't - you'll do a very poor job and he'll end up putting it away, patting you on your head, and sending you off to play elsewhere. In other words, why are you wasting his time? Face up to the real reasons why and fix them before even thinking about doing anything with his penis.

Well said, Evil. I might also add that if you find penises so repulsive, maybe you should try pussy? Just a thought...

Ciao!

okay wow, not to be rude but i dont really think you guys took her post all the seriously,
i mean evil kitten said that just do it so he wont send you off, like he uses you???

and lonestar said because your repulsed your a lesbian?

wow, okay well i personally think its just nerves.
dont even worry, i was in your same position, but i knew that if i went for it id do something wrong and list goes on.

so what i did is had a couple beers with him, got comfortable and when we got frisky i just did it :)

try that, but also be sure because the one thing evil kitten said that i agree on is hell know if you dont like it, major turn off, he wont like you doing something you hate to make him feel good.

good luck, keep posted ! :)

No, I said don't even think of offering him oral sex until you LIKE penises. If you're going to quote, please quote correctly.

Oops, never mind.

I agree that you shouldn't do this until you really want to. I don't mean want to because he would like it, I mean actually want to. Maybe you should get used to his penis in other forms of foreplay before you give him oral.

What is it you don't like about penises? Have you been abused in the past? Is he just unclean? I do agree that you need to sort this out before you can give him blowjobs that either of you will enjoy. I say this because in my experience one of the best parts of receiving oral sex for a man is knowing that the woman is into it and loves his cock. Guys love to have their egos stroked, and they connect their ego and male pride very directly to their cock. If you are giving him a lackluster bj but you are really into it, knowing that you are enjoying what you are doing will make it great for him.

Maybe you need to be more comfortable with him, maybe it's an issue imbedded in your past... but whatever it is think about why this might be. Once you can figure out the problem, you can work past it.
Good luck!

Until you get comfortable with a penis, a bj just won't happen. There really isn't much to be afraid of. You don't really need to be real gentle with one. Actually squeezing and stroking with a firm pressure works the best to stimulate him. Just start by getting over just touching it. Take it slowly and just kind of inspect it and rub your fingers over it. It really is something different to play with. I just love to study my wifes vulva. She does the same on my penis. She likes to rub it gently at first usually when we a laying together, then she will put her whole hand around it and just kind of stroke it. Sometimes that is as far as she goes. Other times she will slide down a little and just stroke it and watch her hand on it. This usually gets her turned on enough that she just wants to kiss it and then take it in her mouth. Once to this point she just loves it if I help stroke myself. Then she gets to suck on the shaft at the same time I am stroking it. She also likes to grab my balls and gently squeeze them. It is a great feeling for me and she enjoys the whole view and action and the pleasure it gives me. Just part of how she came to enjoy OS.

lol okay, sorry i must have read the post out of context.

apologises

Tis okay, emily11.