Sex with Razorblades. Two Folks. No diseases. No healthrisks. Just like blood. Love eachother. and want to have a bloody good time..... Any thoughts on things? Shes done it before. i havent. Ive always wanted to. im really interested in it. I hope you folks dont bite my head off on this one. Im new to this board. Not cutting genitals or anything like that. Just different spots. A little blood here and there. Any ideas on locations and such? ( i know obviousley avoid areas like the wrists and the neck)
Tue, 09/14/2004 - 04:15
#1
Blood Sports (dont know what to expect)
[QUOTE=Quote (footballman33 @ Mar. 02 2005,17:30)][QUOTE=Quote (iamawesum69420 @ Mar. 01 2005,22:36)][QUOTE=Quote ]this just creeps me out i wish i would of never read it lol. [/QUOTE]
Not to start another debate but if you were so creeped out and regret reading the posts then why further your pain by posting on the topic that creeps you out? I mean you didn't really have anything contructive to add so why did you even bother?[/QUOTE]
I was just saying to be careful and after all this is a board for people to post their opinions right?? i dont want to steal their post or start an argument. Everyone has there own way of doing things and that is theirs, i was just saying that its a little creepy/awkward to *ME*.[/QUOTE]
It's just that the person started this topic looking for ideas and suggestions on different ways to perform blood sports. Telling them that's it's creepy is neither of the two.
Sorry I just have this thing about closedmindedness.
I've always found the subject interesting and a little sexy... (okay, I admit I also have a teeny secret vampire thang too... can I just say: Steward Townsed as the Vampire Lestat?) though I'm not sure I'll ever try it. I think *some* of it boils down to the pleasure/pain thing. For some people pleasure and pain can blend into one. It could also be the Taboo that people find so erotic. I also find the controversy this sparked interesting. S&M was considered sick and wrong at one point too, but (for the most part) is considered a viable form of erotic and kink play today. MY motto?? What ever floats your boat.... people dont need to be put down for having their own opinions.
**Also not looking to start a big fat argument again.... just expressing my veiws
[QUOTE=Quote (iamawesum69420 @ Mar. 01 2005,22:36)][QUOTE=Quote ]this just creeps me out i wish i would of never read it lol. [/QUOTE]
Not to start another debate but if you were so creeped out and regret reading the posts then why further your pain by posting on the topic that creeps you out? I mean you didn't really have anything contructive to add so why did you even bother?[/QUOTE]
I was just saying to be careful and after all this is a board for people to post their opinions right?? i dont want to steal their post or start an argument. Everyone has there own way of doing things and that is theirs, i was just saying that its a little creepy/awkward to *ME*.
[QUOTE=Quote ]this just creeps me out i wish i would of never read it lol. [/QUOTE]
Not to start another debate but if you were so creeped out and regret reading the posts then why further your pain by posting on the topic that creeps you out? I mean you didn't really have anything contructive to add so why did you even bother?
wow be careful....this just creeps me out i wish i would of never read it lol. i wouldnt ever let a girl come near me with a sharp object in bed.
well for me, i just love the way blood looks and feels, the color is so beautiful. except for when it dries lol. and the taste is okay.
i don't think i'll try it though. although i still think it sounds interesting. *shrugs*
Just curious, what is the attraction?
Also, it definitely seems like something you have to do with the lights on. Life off blood sports = for the super advanced.
hmm... it sounds kind of interesting. i think it's something i'd like to try.
Rawbob, I read you initial first post. Its been a while. I ended up reading up alot on it anyways, I had before I posted anything I just like looking into things deep before i get into them , Anyways, peace all.
Hi soulexempt.
I hope you're re-read my first post. I have, and do, enjoy blood sports on occasion, and i gave some real tactical hints and tips for enjoying that fetish more safely.
My rant afterwards seemed to kick off the "judgement" discussion.....sorry we all got divered from the key subject, but it's ironic isn't it......many times we ALL get into discussions about a subject and get drawn away from the central issue because of other issues.
Well......i hope you're re-read my original reply on blood sports..and enjoy!
since this message board has a lot of members, you are going to get a bunch of opinions. since very few people are experienced in blood sports, you can't expect much of a technical response. you got plenty of technical advice on it, from talking about blood coagulating and all that jazz. If you didn't want personal opinion you should have turned to whatever literature there may be on the subject. any living message board like this will have people who want to express their opinions, especially with a topic as off the wall as bloodsports.
So basically, reading around, you would have obviously seen that every other topic is filled with as much opinion as real advice. so if you have that much of a problem with it, stay whereever you went. don't expect us to change our ways.
I think a lot of folks are a bit rude to be honest. When i asked the question on the board (Months ago, you see the argument it started kind of made me figure nevermind, im not bothering with that messageboard, But im really bored right now, So I'll say something.) I diddnt come here asking for moral opinions, i came here asking what to expect from someone advanced in the topic, And Any Metal I've ever used has been sanatized and quite sharp, Things went well, And Edge play has always been a whole lot of fun. But back to this argument business. I diddnt come asking if you thought it was sick or messed up. I Asked what to expect . It all stemms down to being polite. If you cant say something nice, say nothing. Thats life. Closed minded, open minded it dosn't matter, Its about having enough sense to be polite. Some people are just depressing that way. Anyways, c ya.
[QUOTE=Quote (Jaybee @ Oct. 01 2004,17:40)]Only the oversensitive would feel offended. I find anal to be an advanced form of sex that I haven't yet partaken, and yes, you could correctly say that, in a sense, I AM less advanced sexually than those who have tried it. [/QUOTE]
Nope, sorry, I disagree on both counts.
Saying that people who are offended by something are "over sensitive" is more of that arrogance I was trying to describe. It's more of that "if you don't tolerate this you must be over-sensitive" b.s.
You may think you're less advanced sexually because you haven't done anal, but I don't. I have no desire to have something stuck up my butt and I have no desire to stick something up somebody's butt. It's just not on my dance card. I probably have, however, done a lot of things sexually you haven't... but I do not think that makes me "advanced" over you.
Oh, and suggesting that "if something causes sexual arousal it is about sex" is interesting logic. There are quite a few psychologists treating rapists and pedophiles who would not agree with your statement. Some might be offended by it.
But they'd be oversensitive, right?
[QUOTE=Quote (WallyLlama @ Oct. 01 2004,03:15)]Conversely, accusing people who simply don't agree with you of being judgemental and close-minded is arrogant and manipulative.
If someone thinks "blood sports" are kinky, fine.
If someone thinks "blood sports" are sick, fine.
Two opinions, diametrically opposed. Genuine open-mindedness is allowing both opinions to exist and both opinions to be stated.
When you state your opinion you by the very nature of things are inviting others to "judge" your opinion and your logic and it's not very logical to get upset when they do, or to suggest that people who don't agree are ignorant and inexperienced.
I think "blood sports" are more than a little off the wall (and have very little to do with sex, in my opinion)... and I'm not going to be intimidated into believing otherwise with raging accusations of inexperience and therefore no right.
Calling this "advanced" kink is to suggest that those who do not engage in it are somehow "less" sexual and adventuresome. That's patronizing people who choose different forms of kink that don't require blood. It's also really not much different that someone saying they think blood sports are "sick," because the implication is that people who DO engage are somehow superior.
So let's not have the kettle calling the pot black.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Quote ]Conversely, accusing people who simply don't agree with you of being judgemental and close-minded is arrogant and manipulative.[/QUOTE]
Unless those accused actually ARE judgemental or closed-minded.
[QUOTE=Quote ]If someone thinks "blood sports" are kinky, fine.
If someone thinks "blood sports" are sick, fine.
Two opinions, diametrically opposed. Genuine open-mindedness is allowing both opinions to exist and both opinions to be stated.[/QUOTE]
True. But nothing new.
[QUOTE=Quote ]I think "blood sports" are more than a little off the wall (and have very little to do with sex, in my opinion)[/QUOTE]
One that you're entitled to. One that I'm also very much entitled not to share, and I revel in said entitlement. If something causes sexual arousal, it VERY much has to do with sex.
[QUOTE=Quote ]... and I'm not going to be intimidated into believing otherwise with raging accusations of inexperience and therefore no right.[/QUOTE]
But I DO hope your beliefs can be changed by dispassionate reason - or indeed, passionate evidence.
[QUOTE=Quote ]Calling this "advanced" kink is to suggest that those who do not engage in it are somehow "less" sexual and adventuresome. That's patronizing people who choose different forms of kink that don't require blood. [/QUOTE]
Only the oversensitive would feel offended. I find anal to be an advanced form of sex that I haven't yet partaken, and yes, you could correctly say that, in a sense, I AM less advanced sexually than those who have tried it.
Jaybee.
Conversely, accusing people who simply don't agree with you of being judgemental and close-minded is arrogant and manipulative.
If someone thinks "blood sports" are kinky, fine.
If someone thinks "blood sports" are sick, fine.
Two opinions, diametrically opposed. Genuine open-mindedness is allowing both opinions to exist and both opinions to be stated.
When you state your opinion you by the very nature of things are inviting others to "judge" your opinion and your logic and it's not very logical to get upset when they do, or to suggest that people who don't agree are ignorant and inexperienced.
I think "blood sports" are more than a little off the wall (and have very little to do with sex, in my opinion)... and I'm not going to be intimidated into believing otherwise with raging accusations of inexperience and therefore no right.
Calling this "advanced" kink is to suggest that those who do not engage in it are somehow "less" sexual and adventuresome. That's patronizing people who choose different forms of kink that don't require blood. It's also really not much different that someone saying they think blood sports are "sick," because the implication is that people who DO engage are somehow superior.
So let's not have the kettle calling the pot black.
[QUOTE=Quote (Rawbob @ Sep. 30 2004,07:55)]I'm disappointed that people on THIS SITE are so judgemental about how some other folks choose to exhibit their sexuality.
This is NOT self mutilation, abuse, or assult - if it is consensual.
Ok, it freaks you out. Ok you don't understand it. But since you have NO EXPERIENCE in the KINK world, you really have no right to be calling folks SICK!
Sometimes it's better to be thought ignorant, then to open your mouth and remove all doubt![/QUOTE]
Hear hear.
I wouldn't berate LadyOf.. too harshly, hers was a knee-jerk reaction that was societally programmed into her.
But open-mindedness is truly a mark of great mind.
Jaybee.
be dissapointed then.. all i see it as is people cutting eachother....and i dont see that as KINK, like i said....key word i said is.. "TO ME", Hay im not callin anyone sick. I said it is sick..and scary.. not that the people who do it are sick.
and i also said "im sorry" in it.. but i was stateing that, but was sorry it was so "against" it.. Chill out.
I'm disappointed that people on THIS SITE are so judgemental about how some other folks choose to exhibit their sexuality.
This is NOT self mutilation, abuse, or assult - if it is consensual.
Ok, it freaks you out. Ok you don't understand it. But since you have NO EXPERIENCE in the KINK world, you really have no right to be calling folks SICK!
Sometimes it's better to be thought ignorant, then to open your mouth and remove all doubt!
i find that a bit odd. the usual reaction to people with cuts over themselves is to believe they are self harming- isnt that what cutting yourself qualifies as???
umm im sorry but to me that isnt KINK... thats just.. sick.. and scary.. and makes me think something is wrong in ur head... sorry but that totally freaks me out
Hi: Welcome to the Crimson Crew! hahaha
I have enjoyed blood sports for many years. Yes it's kinky, yes it's risky, and YES there are things you need to do that can make is "safer."
1) DO NOT USE RAZOR BLADES. The thickness of the razor will cause a wider and deeper cut and it's tough to keep control with a razor.
2) Consider using a scalpel. The handle is longer, is easier to handle, is sterile, and the thickness ofthe blade significantly reduces any scaring.
3) Make sure you use alchohol on any are you choose to cut. Do NOT hold or use the scalpel during actual sex. THe risk of a deep incision is too high..do you cutting first, then play in the blood.
4) Have a bottle or peroxide ready for post-cutting cleanup. Also you may want a small tube of neosporin to help erase any small cut.
5) DO NOT CUT MORE THAN 2 layers of skin. Practice on a peach ..the skin is thin and you can learn to guage how deep to cut there before u try it on a live body.
6) NO DRINKING OR DRUGS WHEN DOING BLOOD SPORTS. That also includes caffiene. This may sound obvious..but it needs to be said.
7) Have a safe word when you are cutting. If your partner says STOP....STOP!
There is an alternative to cutting and that's called "Edge play" This is when you use a knife of some sort. This play is limited to just the very POINT of the kinfe ..not the edge. Again, a kinfe blade is very thick and so you don't want to run the blade itself across any skin as it will cause a DEEP wound that in most cases will require stiches. WHen i use my knives during play, i actually DULL the edge to virtually eliminate the risk of a laceration. Running the point of the knife across the skin and putting a nice scratch on the body is a huge turn on, and the visual is an equal rush for me and my partner.
Again, this is a VERY ADVANCED level of kink play and needs to be approached with a great deal of preparation, complete acceptance by your partner and clear communication.
Done correctly, this can be an very intense, spiritual form of erotic play.
omg...
thats.. scary...
[QUOTE=Quote (demonbuttercup @ Sep. 27 2004,19:14)]Yeah or just have sex when she's on her period. That way no one has to get cut.[/QUOTE]
LOL... sorry for laughing, but I can just hear, "No! That would be gross!" lol
I'll be frankly honest and say that the idea of sex with razorblades scares the bejesus out of me. If there is any chance of transmittable disease, the risk is highly increased by blood. Not to mention, the chance of accidentally hitting a vein or artery. I think it's an unnecessary risk to take with your life.
Yeah or just have sex when she's on her period. That way no one has to get cut.
Maybe you should just play a vampire movie in the background.
Sorta reminds me of a modern version of the Red Riding Hood story... the wolf announces he's going to eat her and she sighs,
"Doesn't anybody just screw any more?"
check out this link
should give you an idea
whats up w/ all the violent sex? first the black eye and now razorblades?