Hiya,
I am a virgin and kinda new to this whole serious relationship thing.
I have been with my boyfriend for about 4months now and just recently i noticed that when he would finger me i would bleed.
In past experiences when he has i didn't bleed so im not sure what is going on. If it is normal or if i need to go see a doctor.
It's not a whole lot of bleeding but it is enough to cover his fingers and get on the sheets aswell.
The first time it happened it was pretty recent after my period so i just figured that it was still from my period. But now it has been a week or two after and it is still occuring.
It stops bleeding pretty much after we have stopped b/c i dont end up seeing much, if anything on my underwear.
And it has happened more than once.
Any input or help would be great!
Thanks,
Maggie
Well there are a couple things that could be going on. He could be tearing your hymen, the membrane over your vaginal entrance. If he is being very forceful or has long fingernails, he could be tearing/cutting any number of areas around your vulva or vagina. Are you experiencing pain when he fingers you? Make sure that he has short, smooth finger nails and clean hands, and tell him to stop if he is hurting you. You can also direct him to your clit, since most girls I know don't really enjoy just being penetrated by fingers.
From what you are describing, I'm assuming that he is just tearing your hymen, which is completely normal. Unless you're having a lot of pain or the bleeding continues for a long time, I wouldn't be concerned. However, you can always ask your doctor if you are really worried.
he has pretty short nails. not overly long to where they scratch me and it doesn't hurt when he does it and if it does i do tell him and he stops.
thanks for the help.
[FONT="Century Gothic">I have the same problem myself, and i'm starting to get a little nervous about it. My boyfriend is always really gental and if i say it hurts he listens and stops.
Sometimes it doesnt hurt at all during fingering, but after i can have a mild tummy ache and a very light brownish discahrge. its only for a few hours, if even that.
Any advice would be welcomly recieved, is this me being a worry guts, or do i need to see a doctor? :confused: [/FONT]