well i just started having sex for the first time like two weeks ago and when we did, it just hurt like hell but i didnt bleed.but when we haved sex three days later it didnt hurt but i did bleed really bad.why did i just started bleeding now and not before?
Mon, 05/08/2006 - 01:48
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bleeding on the second time?
Well, who knows? Could have been that you stretched your hymen terribly first time around and then tore it out the second. Or there was little bleeding the first time, unnoticeable, and then you took the scab off the second. The bleeding you should be interested in is when your next period is due!
Well, my first time I didn't bleed. But my second time I did. What I've been told, the better the sex, the more likely you are to bleed. Not sure if its true, but it could be.
Also, the walls of the vagina are very thing and sensitive so its normal to bleed.
moon cookies - wrong on all counts!
When bleeding occurs the second time, it indicates that there was some remnant of the hymen that had remained attached. Not uncommon.
Better sex and bleeding are not related in any way. The vaginal walls are forty cells thick - very thick. That is why they have the elasticity to admit a penis and give birth to a baby. There are no nerve endings in the vagina. Therefore, the vagina is not sensitive at all.
It is neither "normal" nor "abnormal" to bleed. The blood is from tearing the hymen and many women have no hymen remaining as a result of other activities, including tampon use. Some of us do bleed the first time or so and some of us do not.