Hey, i have been with my girlfriend for a few months now, we had sex a few weeks ago and it was the first time for both of us. We took it very slowly and it was very intimate however she did say it hurt her and she did bleed. But then about 4 or 5 days later i fingered her and she bled a little bit again, she thought maybe her hymen did not break properly when we had sex? i fingered her a few times since then and she said it felt ok, but then we tried having sex again last weekend and she said it was even more painful than the first time, so we stopped. She told me yesterday she fingered herself and was trying different angles and things and she said it was sensitive but not painful, although there is a small tear which is sore, so she is going to the doctors about that. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions? Thanks.