hi! recently, almost everytime i've had sex with my bf, there's blood on the end of the condom and i bleed a little, or i get brown (dried blood?) discharge for a day or so...it wasnt my first time although i'm relativly new to sex. i'm 16. is it normal to feel as though 'it' is hitting too deep?
i also get random brown discharge for a few days, why?
i was also wondering if i can still get pregnant if we used a condom, my period hasnt come, but i am not really regular yet, as i sometime misses a few months...should i be worried?
thank you for your attention
At the age of 16, many women are not very regular. Your body is making the transition from a child's body to a woman's body and the hormones are erratic. This makes your period irregular and you can be certain that your ovulation is also irregular. Contraception is especially important because that which is sometimes and erroneously referred to as the "safe period" is not safe. Ovulation can occur any time, including during your period.
The brownish discharge is "old blood" or, more accurately, uterine lining. Evidently your period is not completely flushing your uterus and there is some lining remaining. Not unusual for mid-teens. The action you are experiencing, with or without orgasm, is causing the remaining lining to be shed.
If you get the sensation of being "too deep" adjust the position of your legs. Lowering the knees limits the depth that the penis will travel into you. Or go on top and you can control the depth of penetration.
Emphasis: Teens are irregular in menstruation and ovulation. A condom and vaginal spermicide should be used each time you have sex. Spermicidal condoms do not count as vaginal spermicide. Get vaginal jelly (with applicator) or foam or film and that goes in you before the penis does.
thanks that's really helpful! ^.^
what about the 'fresh' blood that gets on the end of the condom after sex? it leaks out for about 5 min then stops...it's only been happening recently...
were can you get condoms with spermacide? all the ones i can find have no spermacide in...
Maybe he's jabbing your cervix? I don't know... is sex painful??
Brandye was saying don't use condoms w/ spermicide b/c the amount they put on there really doesn't do anything.
Spermicidal jelly,foam,inserts....are something separate and sold along side the condoms.
My X was very irregular and she would spot perodicaly which would get a little blood on the condom. Although spotting is normal, theres always bladder infections and other things like it. They are nothing bad but they are annoying. I suggest drinking quite a bit of cranberry juice, then after about a week if it continues you know its not that. If its constant (like every time spread though 2 or 3 months) then you prob should see a doc, its prob nothing crazy but should be looked at in that case. If it stops in at some point it was either a small tear or spotting.
In general you have nothing to worry about.... I suggest woring about NOT bleeding (babies).