Heya,have been a silent reader for a while and ive found the site really helpful.I have been having sex with my bf for a few months and sometimes it still hurts.We tried doggy style recently and i bled,i think he was hitting against my cervix or something.I was just wondering if there were any ways to make him being behind me easier?So he wasn't as deep?
Thanks
Even if he is hitting your cervix, it should not bleed. The source of the blood is omewhere else and probably near the entrance. It is possibility that there are still vestiges of your hymen and rubbing from a different angle tore that.
The difficulty of entry indicates that more lubrication is likely needed. In the early days of sexual activity, we women frequently are experimenting with our bodies and taking a penis in while not completely aroused. This can leave you both a bit dry and the sphincter muscles not completely relaxed.
Doggystyle is probably the deepest penetrating position.
If you don't want him to go so deep and possibly hit your cervix, then either switch to another position besides doggystyle (try spooning or something similar) or just don't allow him to go all the way in.