I know this has been sorta covered. but this girl I am dating, she didnt bleed the first or second time. But on the 3rd and 4th time... she bleed. and now, she says it hurts the first time it goes in... but yeah, im kinda lost. What should I be doing as her partner to make sure she doesn't. Or is it just natural? I know the first time always it stretches. but can it still be painful on the 3rd and 4th try? do I need to "warm her up" more?
Mon, 05/16/2005 - 04:29
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Bleeding...
Hmm, never heard of that before.
Do you do it very often cause if you wait a while in between times (like a couple weeks or more) it can be a little painful at first for a girl.
I personally had pain up until the 4th time. There was a pinch of pain the 4th time but nothing like it was. We would have to stop because it was painful for me and we weren't getting anywhere and he wasn't going in very far.
But there were months in between the times we did it so I know that played a bit of a factor.
But anyways, definately get her warmed up more and see if it helps. You can always go to the store and buy some lube like Astroglide. It's worked miracles for me, so hopefully it can help you.
If she still continues to have pain, have her go to the doctor.