OK I am just curious, I no longer have a g/f, but when we used to have sex. She would bleed almost everytime. She told me she has not been with a guy for 1-1/2 years and my penis is very long and I found that she would bleed only when I penetrate her with my entire penis. Could it be that I was just stretching her cause she had not been with a guy for awhile or was I hitting some place I was not suppose to be. Casue at first she liked it, when I hit that far, but eventually she said it stays sore and it hurts when we would do it. Like a natural reaction to being shocked (pulling your hand away) she pulled away very quickly and when we would stop there woudl be blood present. Now, at the moment I really dont like my g/f (I guess i got to get used to saying EX-G/F) anyways i dotn like her because we just ended it due to STUFF. But as a person I generally care for her, and I dont know if i should suggest to her to go see a doctor or what not? I say all this because before we broke up, her period was already late by 3 weeks, AND i did 12 over the counter pregnancy test and all were negative, (goona keep doing it just in case) SO if not a baby she may have something seriously wrong right? Any help/info would be appreciated, THanks!
Mon, 08/23/2004 - 04:25
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Bleeding!!??!!
Yea, she needs to go to a doctor.
My first thought is not that you were "stretching" her. My first thought is that since you penetrated her fully, you were hitting her cervix. The cervix is not something that likes to be hit, or touched really. And sometimes, if you hit it during sex, it can cause bleeding. I have a friend that has been married for years, and she is "ok" down there. But, sometimes if her and her husband have sex and he goes too deep, he will hit her cervix and she will bleed.
But as I and tessie said, it's best to go to a doctor. If even it was just her cervix bleeding, it needs to be checked out to make sure there's no kind of infection.
She needs to see a doctor right away to be checked out. It is not normal to have bleeding or pain during intercourse.