Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and while we've both expressed that we want to wait to marriage for intercourse we've found other ways to satisfy ourselves, primarily through fingerings and handjobs. Now this wasn't the first time or even like the 10th so I'm not quite sure what happened. Anyway, this last time we were getting it on I had gotten her extremely aroused by teasing her and stuff until she basically begged me to put my fingers in her (no big we've done it plenty before). I always start out small (a finger) and slow (tip slowly at first) not stretching her to hurting or anything. I proceeded to insert another finger after she was more than loose enough. Soon she was pulling on my hand shoving it really deep in (pretty much to the knuckles of those two fingers). I was hitting something hard towards the back (help here just for curiosity) and while we were going she said it felt great and kept pulling my hand. All of a sudden she cried that it hurt and I pulled out my fingers which, to my surprise covered with blood (and I mean quite a bit like from knuckle to tip). She said it hurt towards her entrence (I assume the hymen area) and that she bled for a good while after that, like it was her period but we're sure it wasn't. Now what I was wondering is what happened? Did I rip her hymen? If so does it heal as tight as before, or at all? Sorry this is so long but I really really wanted all the details out there so that there would be little question as to the situation. Any and all help would be great people and thanks alot.
Thu, 10/02/2003 - 00:26
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Bleeding!?!?!?
Thank you very much for your help on this topic it has put both of us at much more ease knowing it's fairly natural. I do trim my fingernails very short and ona regular basis. She is a smaller girl which would explain hitting her cervix which I sorta figured it was in the first place. As for you question about me being in her before. I've had up to four fingers in her before all at her instruction and not once produced blood. This time was really no different that's why it surprised me so the only thing I can think of is with two fingers up to knuckle length at a little faster pace might have ripped her hymen. I'll take a look next time just out of curiosity. Thanks again for the help it was greatly appreciated.
That's a good question.. I'm thinking of how long your fingers were to hit her cervix. Most penis's are bigger than the length of one of your fingers.. but the way she was pulling might have done it, or she is just a smaller girl, or differently proportioned. (we are all different) It seems odd to me.. how many times before have you had two or more fingers in her??? It's just odd.. your fingersnails clipped? They could've just this time ripped some skin... I'm not sure about hymen.. wouldn't it have ripped before, if you've done this many times before??? I suggest reading the topic that was linked to you by demonbuttercup. That's my advice,
Drew
here is a link to a post called Rough fingering and bleeding it should answer most of your questions.
most likely yes you tore her hymen and no it doesn't grow back once its gone its gone.
the thing you were hitting towards the back was probably her cervix.
hope this helps