Before I give a bj I will feel absolutely fine, after I finish I feel really sick and that last till the end of next day. I feel like I have gag reflexes all day and my stomach turns and it won't stop. Does anybody else feel like this or have any advice. I enjoy doing this to my husband but I don't like what happens to me after.
Thu, 07/22/2004 - 19:49
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Does anybody know why I feel this way? My husband really wants me to swollow, I just want to know what it is the cum that would do this to me.
dont swallow.
it makes me ill for the rest of the day (well, just under 24 hours, I suppose, to be precise)
ull get used to it
Why is the swallow so important to him if it makes you feel ill? I am gonna tell you a little secret here...you don't have to swallow for it to feel good for him! I don't care what his reason for it is...You are doing him the oral favor he should appreciate it for what it is with or with out the swallow. Some guys out there can't get head at all let alone a swallow at the end.
Now that I got that out there here is what you do...while you are doing the deed use your hand as an extention of your lips. Meaning wrap your fingers around his penis and keep them close to your lips. When he has his big finish put the back of your tongue up to the roof of your mouth to prevent the ejaculate from hitting the back of your throat. Keep him in your mouth but let the ejaculate run back down his shaft while you keep pumping with your hand and mouth on him until he is done. When you are done your last move should be upwards keeping your hand close to your mouth the whole way up until you release his penis. You won't swallow and it gives him little extra wow at the end.
Try this with him knowing...in the end he really won't know that you didn't swallow because most of his ejaculate will be on and in your hand.
Wow, great technique toyfairy. My wife doesn't like to swallow most of the time. She has a few times and it was nice. But if she used your technique that would be great. I wouldn't miss the swallowing at all. One thing she does at times as she has her mouth on my penis and is going up and down is to grab it with her hand just like suggested above. But she will rotate her hand on the up and down motion which is also nice stimulation. Usually she takes her mouth off and just pumps me dry with her hand or she wants me to finish inside of her. Both are great finishes.
Thanks I have been doing this for years and I have had no complaints.
I am glad I could help.