well my girlfriend and i were doin our thing, and she gave me head for the first time (it was her first time). She didnt even put it in that deep, but she was gagging a lot, she was gagging so much that she couldnt finish me off and had to go to the bathroom to puke. i talked to her and she says it doesnt taste bad, and she doesnt know why she was gagging so much. I hope this wasnt the last time im going to recieve it, coz it was good.
Thu, 08/07/2003 - 18:56
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BJ problems
another thing is, my gf also doesnt like cum, so i havent really got to come after she has given me a handjob or anything.
Giving head causes a gag reaction, she was going too deep. Everyone's ability is different, some days I can take in a lot and others not much. Tell her to put less in her mouth. Give her some hints on what feels good, and don't put your hands on her head because she needs to be able to control the amount that goes in her mouth.
yeah, i dont put my hands on her head.
tell her practice makes perfect
when I started seeing my guy i couldn't take all of him into my mouth, now I can. I had to learn what specific things he liked and how to slowly do it to where i wouldn't gag right away. give her time to build up a 'tolerance'... not all women can deep throat.
yeah, i know that. but the thing is, i dont think she will want to do it anymore
Maybe after a while she will be willing to try again, just be patient.
why don't you find out for sure... ask her if she wants to take turns giving oral, or ask if she wants to 69.. if she tells you no or says she doesn't want to, ask her why... mybe she just has insecurities with it, maybe she thinks she's bad at it or something.
tell her how much you enjoyed it and that your willing to be patient and wait for her. Shell feel a lot more relaxed about it, also you could try giving her oral more often. If your willing to do a little bit extra for her shes more likely to want to do more for you too. XX