hey im an 18 yo guy here and ive only gotten a bj twice in my life and dint cum either time. the girl only went for like 3-4 minutes on me but i never really felt too much. i also recently got a hand job from a girl but it was awful, more painful than anything so i guess its understandable as to why i didnt get off there. i guess what im trying to ask is how long it takes most guys to get off when they get a bj. i really have no problem as far as keeping the erection up thats there i just dont know if there is some other problem. thanks for the help.
Sun, 11/09/2003 - 19:45
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bj and busting
All i can say is that it takes more than 3 - 4 minutes !! there is no set time because it depends on the situation, how horny u are, where u are doin it etc. maybe you can suggest to her that she goes longer or has more foreplay to make u more horny before she goes down for that small period of time. if she is goin down for such a short time maybe there is an underlying problem eg. she does not like giving blow jobs or wat happens is her jaw or neck gets saw. i dont think there is anything wrong with you. in most cases u need more time than wat the girls u have encountered have given you.
if she's really cruel she'll bring u up till u nearly cum then stop and tease u like crazy (i like it wen a girl does that too me), then go nuts and make u cum like u have never before.
communication is also the key, ask her wats buggin her, and you can also help by guiding her to wat makes u feel good and where, and how u like it.
hope this helps