If scratching doesn't leave deep gashes and such, I don't mind it. The biting...I'm not so sure about. Maybe...but not around the Captain. That'd be bad. :-)

I'm not sure about guys, but personally it is kind of a turn on in my book. When I grab at my boyfriends back and pull him closer to me - wow! And, he doesn't seem to mind when I do it

ohh I love when my man gently bites my shoulders, chest, neck, god that turns me on. I like to hold him and scratch his back. I love to bite his fingers to. When he is ontop he sometimes puts his fingers in my mouth . Biting a plus. Scratching, a plus

I have been known to draw blood in a really passionate situation. I love digging my nails into a man. Some men dont prefer it tho. I had one ex who whined all the time about it.
I dont know that I really conciously do it, it's like curling your toes when you orgasm...it just happens. Tho I wonder, why are you trying not to moan too loud? Let loose hun! Bite scratch and moan!!
Live life.
Good luck.

oh yeah, biting and scratching is hot hard enuff to leave marks but not enuff to hurt, rawr ;)

Yeah, it seems to be different for everyone, some like it, some don't. My husband does not like to be bit or scratched. It was pretty difficult to get used to not doing it. Everyone's pain threshold is different. I like it when people scratch my back and pull hair too.... when I am in the right mood.

Yeah, I can only take a slight amount of pain. A little bit of nails are alright, but the digging and dragging is out of the question. Too much pain is obviously a huge turnoff, so take it easy when trying it out.

obviously, pathe pain threshhold is much higher during the heat of sex...

I personally find the idea of feeling my girls nails scratchin and digging int my back a turn on, a light scratch can feel rather nice in a very good way, and a harder scratch can be nice depending on the situaton...

the biting I'm not so sure about

anywho

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Interesting how we seem to have likes and dislikes of this trait going from one end of the spectrum to the next isn't it?

Very well, personally for me, the more I "see" from my girl the more of a turn on it is for me, if I'm doing something intimate with my girl and she let's out a small moan or a sigh then its a turn on for me or if we doing something else and she moves her body around or her hips that too is a turn on, It all really works hand in hand.

My only thing is that if she doesn't grab my hand, make a sound, or move thats fine too, I just want the girl to be truthful though, I wouldn't want my girl to intentionally make a noise or other simply to turn me on, if she's enjoying and she does so then I'm all for it.

But really, the whole fact that your participating in physical intimacy with your girl or guy should be a huge turn on in itself seeing as it really does bring you two closer together, physically of course but as well as emotionally.

And specifically on the scratching thing? Never happended to me, althought if I think about it I do suppose it could be a turn on because it would tell me the girl was enjoying herself, -grins- and it's very feline you could say. Although I dunno about drawing blood and ripping off my skin though, sounds a tad painful don't ya think? But to each his own. Either way not something I've experienced yet, maybe in the future.

a little is ok but once my gf scrached me hard on my dick and i am totally turned off by scratching. But i am still turned on buy nibblein . Just be careul dont go to crazy.

As long as it's not too painful, yeah it's kind of a turn-on. Little nibbles, scratches show that your partner is really letting go and getting caught up in the moment. I agree with the point as well that's it's another sensation - it adds to the myriad of sensation going on during sex.

Pain is another sensation at the end of the day. Within its own (consentual) limits it's fine.

Cheers,

Ringo

My view....it's kids stuff. I enjoy sensual sweet lovemaking unless we go to role play and use the rough play. The hickies
or bruses from bites...as if you have to have something to show for proof??

It has long been a cliche or gothic novels, romances, even some porn to portray the female screaming and digging her tallons into the bare back of her lover in the heat of passion.

I simply don't need it. I would list it as one of those things
for girls not to do in bed. Of course by the time they are experienced enough to be in a bed with a guy who has his own place...they will understand. If you are using the back seat of the car, a secluded area in the woods, and such in highschool that's the time much of this happens.

eDJ

Well, my girl used to cut it was because she was depressed and it didn't take long for me to offer her a substitute for her knife/razer, my back. I like the digging, but i think it might be for more reasons than just the pleasure. Anyway it's not all that bad if you don't mind cleaning up a small mess (showers are very nice.)

It really depends on the time of year, to be quite honest. I absolutely love it, because I can easily feel that she is loving me. Unfortunately, the scratches are a lot like hickeys. Everyone knows what the scratches are from, so you can't really take your shirt off at the beach or the family pool. Those are some marks that your mom knows why they are there, but doesn't want you explain it. When I don't have to take my shirt off in public places, I absolutely love her nails in my back. It means she is having a great time and things are going well. If she draws blood, then things are going really really well.

[QUOTE=Quote (Shorty43 @ July 21 2003,19:54)]I'm not sure about guys, but personally it is kind of a turn on in my book.  When I grab at my boyfriends back and pull him closer to me - wow! And, he doesn't seem to mind when I do it  [/QUOTE]
Yep.

drives me abolustely nuts, i love it. As long as i don't bleed, its allllllll good

As long as she isn't scratching like a cat, then its ok. I like it kind of rough.