Im harry too

I just dont give a ****, if a women dont like it.....then thats her problem.

But really women are not like that (most) women may have a preferance...but if they get to know you and they become attracted to you if you take your clothes with a confident "this is who i am" then they will find you sexy... even though a month before she may have giggled with her friends about how unattractive chest hair.... but then she becomes attracted to who you are and she all of the sudden finds it attractive.

Perspective and Confidence trumps reality 75% of the time.

I mean if your body hair gets insanely long and thick....like sasquatch style....then maybe i would consider something.

but im sure its not that bad and it will not affect your love life unless you allow it to

My boyfriend has a hairy butt...I like it ;) I love hairy men!

Just shave it off like you would any other body part. I have a hairy butt as well and I shave it, works fine. The first time you shave you will probably get some bumps and irritation but if you keep shaving regularly that will stop after the first couple times.

I would just leave it.
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If she has ever felt around a little bit, she may be expecting it. She may be turned off by the fact that she knows hair is there if you go and shave it and she realizes that you shave your butt. That sounds like there is something wrong with shaving, while there isn't, but see how she likes it..... if she doesn't like it and you don't mind shaving to please her more, she'll realize that you've done it for her and it will be all the better because of it :)

Look dude most women likke hair on a gies body i really dont think she will care!!!!!!! i have asked my women if shee wanted me to wax my chest or back but she does not want me too!

I dont think its women like or dont like it.

I think we all have physical feature preferences

a majority of those preferences are very much subjectively based on the strong attraction and affection relating to the person as him/her self.

So if she hates it she will tell you.

but the average person who is strongly attracted to a person usually finds physical details attractive in the name of the whole package.

don't go out of your way being self conscious and negative about something, it taints your personality and vibe if you allow your focus to be on an invalidated paranoia.

She likes you and she is dating you, believe in the credibility of that and if she desires a personal change in anything about you, she can hint at it or suggest it herself.

until then respect her current sexual interest in you and stop doubting it.

personally i'm not a big fan of hair ...

[QUOTE=justcurious321;172596]so ive kinda been embarassed for the past little while with my girlfriend because although ive had my top and pants off before in front of her shes never actually seen me completely naked. I wouldnt feel that uncomfortable if she would or anything its just my ass is kind of hairy. (im 15) Being a guy and knowning that ive hung out with a bunch of guys ive obviously seen other peoples dicks and asses yet none of them really seem to have much hair on their butt unlike mine and it gets me a bit worried that i might have a lot on mine...so i was wondering if there was anything that i can do to maybe remove the hair? p.s. keep in mind im only 15 so i dont really think getting it waxed is an option but maybe other solutions are out there:confused:[/QUOTE]

mate. dw.. i was sorta in the same boat as you.. mine not as bad as u described but i had issues with it... gf never really cared. just laughed about it.

If you are worries you could always trim it as well as the front of you... but its a personal choice. i do not think she will mind much. and if she does just shave it for next time. easy as that.