I have been with my bf for just over a month now, its his birthday soon and seeing that he has enough cash to buy anything he wants i came up with the idea of giving him a day of pleasure. I have gone out and bought the handcuffs, blindfold, a kinky outfit and massage oil etc to get into the mood.
What i am stuck on is the best techniques to make this day a success, hes into being dominated, hence why i got the handcuffs, but i wonder what things i could do to please him.
Any suggestions on what really turns men on ?
Wed, 12/14/2005 - 13:10
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Birthday Surprise
Despite stereotypes to the contrary, men are not all the same.While a lot of men share similar complexes regarding schoolgirls, nurses, airline stewardesses, ahem, "attendants" and such, there is no correct answer to "what do hetero men like?" aside from "women."
But as to any guy in particular, you honestly need to ask him. When you're both horny, get him talking about his fantasies and what he wants you to do to him and such. That will give you a much more accurate picture.
Good answer, that.
Something else to just do for his day of enjoyment are:
* take him to an adult motel if one is nearby
* draw a bath, warm the bathroom, use candle light, and order him to undress and step in--or, command him to stand there while you take your own sweet time doing the deed.
* once seated in the tub you can keep him warm by drizzling water over his shoulders and upper body. caress him only enough to whet his appetite for more which will follow
* join him and sit behind him to continue as above.
* later, have him stand up and give him a shower. lather him good yet use only your hands to wash him. save his genitals for the very last and then approach and involve them hesitantly.
* bring him to a high state of arousal then stop, have him step out of the tub and then towel dry him by patting only--no rubbing
* order him to sit in a straight-back chair where you can tie him to the arms and front legs. Alternately, you can order him to the bed whereupon you tie his arms and legs to the bedposts.
There is a Clint Eastwood movie that has his character (Dirty Harry?) tied to a chair only to endure a lap dance and other sexual overatures by some vixen. {hint hint)
The point of the exercise is to excite and frustrate all at the same time by arousing your boyfriend while he is powerless to do anything except protest for all that that is worth.
> I have gone out and bought the handcuffs, blindfold
Place the blindfold on him and then drive him all around town before taking him to a motel room that you have prevously reserved for his entertainment.
Got questions?
hmm how about a whip?