Female 22 Yrs with no sexual desire

[SPeedY]

Hi all, I have a very good friend who just don't like sex abut enjoy doing it. All her past boyfriends leave her for the same reason "for the lack of sex in the relationship". she does not like to talk about sex at all and do it only to please her partner. She does not like Oral sex "both ways" and prefer feels nothing when her man touch her inner parts. Now she is frustrated and don't want the same to continue.

Who should I refer her to? does she need a psychologist or a sexologist?

[dancingdoc2]

Thank you for the question. Does your friend live in the U.S. or elsewhere?

Generally, a psychologist specializing in sexual dysfunction should be able to help. Have her ask her gyn for a referral, or, a woman's health clinic.

[SPeedY]

Ye she lives in NY. Thank you very much for your quick response.

[Aphrodite_66]

There could be many reasons for this lack of desire,so it is best that she see a doctor/specialist who deals with sexual dysfunction who can correctly diagnose what is wrong.It could be a physical/psychological issue or a mixture of both.An incident in her past could have triggered this response or she could even be asexual(no sexual feelings).At any rate it is best she seeks help if only for her own peace of mind.

[Biker Babe]

I just read this post----22 is still very, very young. Oh, I know that by today's standards it's not. Everyone is having sex so much younger now. But in all honesty just because girls are having sex younger----it doesn't mean that they are truly " enjoying " it. For a lot of girls they are doing it to get or keep a boyfriend. They say that a man reaches his sexual peak around 18 and a woman reaches hers in her mid 30's. Well--I was a late bloomer. I didn't reach my sexual peak until I was 41.

Yes, there could be other things going on as well--pyschologically or physically. I think my lack of desire was due to mainly pyschological issues. It would benefit her to see a physcian as mentioned in the above posts.