Birth Control Without Using Birth Control?

[card69]

Is there any birth control thats like natural herbs or something. Cause i dont wanna use any type of modern birth control and i hate him having to pull out. But if i get pregnant i pretty much cant afford any options available to me. i also pretty much cant afford any birth control options available to me either. and condoms are not an option.

[raunchy gal]

Abstinence is the only birth control method without having to use condoms ect...but i do know that there are certain times of the month during a womans menstrual cycle that are less likely to result in pregnancy when engaging in sexual intercourse

[Brandye]

In some primitive societies women have disovered that making tea of some roots seems to inhibit conception. Analysis indicates that the active ingredients are very similar ot the synthetic hormones used in birth control pills. They would have a similar effect on the body and no one can control the potency of boiling roots.

You do not want to use condoms, use "modern" birth control or practice withdrawal (which is a bad way to protect yourself) and cannot afford a pregnancy. The only answer is to keep your legs crossed.

[dancingdoc2]

If you are going to engage in adult activities then you have to be "adult" about the responsibilities and consequences.

> i dont wanna use any type of modern birth control and i hate him having to pull out.

What types of contraceptives have you investigated? Why are you against the use of all?

Without yet knowing your reasoning, I can tell you that while the many hormonal methods have various side effects, there are also many formulations available and one or more can be a great fit for a person while the others are not. This is for you and your doctor to explore.

If taking the medication reliably is a matter of concern, then look into those that do not need to be taken daily.

What about barrier methods like the diaphragm or cervical cap or sponge?

> condoms are not an option.

Please explain why.

If you cannot afford a visit to a doctor or to a birth control clinic, then, you probably should wait to have sex. The barrier devices are the least expensive and when combined with a spermicide, very reliable.

Pulling out is no guarantee against becoming pregnant for two reasons:
R#1-- there is more often than not sperm within the precum fluid.
R#2-- you cannot guarantee that he will pull out even with his best intentions beforehand. Literally, when push {stroking) comes to shove {thrusting), he may very well say to himself "ah, what the heck" and climax simply because it feels so good, and, because he cannot stop himself in time. The problem with this rationale is that the former happens when his logical mind has been shut off temporarily.

As noted, above, your choices for whatever your reasons, come down to the "old fashioned" Rhythm Method, long the only contraceptive method approved by the Catholic church.

No form of contraception is 100% guaranteed. Each have failures, and so too does the method endorsed by the church. Unless and until you can afford a pregnancy, and later, either to keep the baby--or place him/her up for adoption, then you are not ready to play in adult activities.

Please familiarize yourself with the Index found at the top of the main screen and read the several articles on birth control. Take the information and add it to what you already know. Knowledge is empowering.

Please give us some additional information so that we can better help you with this.

-doc

[card69]

Abstinence doesn't work cause my sex drive is impossible to overcome (i've a little bit of a huge problem with nymphomania) and i don't approve of putting anything unnatural in my body, if i can avoid it. I prefer to live a natural earth-based healthy life.

[dancingdoc2]

> i don't approve of putting anything unnatural in my body

Use the "natural" condoms made from pig intestines. Because you probably will not use a spermicide, also, then the most effective contraceptive is abstinence. The Rhythm method is about 80% effective, so, my recommendation is to use these two together.

> Abstinence doesn't work cause my sex drive is impossible to overcome

Masturbation accomplishes the same end. Actually, for guys, climaxing as a result of foreplay activities does usually produce stronger orgasms than thru intercourse, so....

[card69]

@dancing doc2
i cant climax from masturbation anymore. i need the physical intimacy of another for that

[Brandye]

... and we have another one who asks a question, with caveats, gets an answer, or several, and continues to throw up obstacles to implementing the answers.

Go away.

[Darkwolf131]

why the hell aren't condoms an option??

[EvilEvilKitten]

Well, Card69, perhaps you should reconcile yourself with permanent motherhood since "I prefer to live a natural earth-based healthy life."

Ebola is natural and earth-based but it is not healthy and that is just one example. The point is that just because something is natural and earth-based does NOT make it healthy.

And if you truly cannot masturbate to orgasm and are concerned with nymphomania - then perhaps you have more problems than just an inability to reason.